If yes, then do you think 90% of the husbands in the world would encounter some kind of sexual activity other than their wives for the duration of their long term marriage?
If yes, then do you think 90% of the husbands in the world would encounter some kind of sexual activity other than their wives for the duration of their long term marriage?
From nature's point of view there is absolutely nothing bitter about that--procreation insures survival of the species. When man started to develop the idea of "tribe" or community, the only way to ensure survival of the members of the tribe was via tasking--males, being physically superior, were tasked with the hunt, females were left behind in the chosen camp to gather edible flora (which led them to develop indecisiveness, an advantage when choosing which berry was poisonous or not). Being assigned to the hunt, males became very focused at what they do, for if they lose focus, the prey will escape. Which also led to the trait that when it comes to ***, males will always have the tendency to focus and hunt down the female they wish to copulate with, a direct mimic of their characteristic to hunt down prey. And this urge to copulate extended to other females, for again it is nature's way of assuring that the tribe would have healthy offspring.
It all stems from those early days. The only reason relationships are complex nowadays is because of various institutions we've propped up around our societies and allowing such institutions to dictate what is right or wrong, what is moral or not, what is love and lust etc. Pero if you peel away at all these layers of embellishments, the bottom line is, and always will be, whether you like it or not, nature wants YOU to procreate. Period.
-RODION
Last edited by rodsky; 07-02-2008 at 07:14 PM.
nice one rodsky, but I hope for the women can they accept this? If there husbands are just having purely sexual encounter with someone else?
I have to clarify something here--I posted that as a fact of nature. However it doesn't have to be a reality.
Example. Just because you ALREADY know you'll eventually die (i.e. sickeness, accident or old age), doesn't mean you have to kill yourself now. Get it?
One reason why human beings are different from animals is that we have a brain. The instances I cited above can be attributed to survival instinct. But if man has a brain, it means he has to rely less on instinct. Thus, even though it is indeed a natural thing, to be promiscuous and polygamous, a human always has a choice, to be that way or not. It's a superior ability of choosing wisely, that makes one human being better than the other.
-RODION
yes but i think its normal for them... its up for them to control it...
maybe pro i heard that girls kay ma sexually agressive if ma hubog na hehhee
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