HELP My BF is behaving oddly! Playing around or am I Paranoid?

[borgy1981]

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the girl wouldn't suspect if her partner is not acting weird... it's up to the guy to explain why he has been acting weird now - reasons could either be 3rd-party, fed up, needs space...whatever it is, it's up to them to straighten it out or make a decision that is the best for them...

@ninzska21 - kalma lang bro, ayaw kainit o kapikon ni taga_ipil, if limpyo imo konsensya, imo ra cya kataw.an unless dli...

[ninzska21]

the girl wouldn't suspect if her partner is not acting weird... it's up to the guy to explain why he has been acting weird now - reasons could either be 3rd-party, fed up, needs space...whatever it is, it's up to them to straighten it out or make a decision that is the best for them...

@ninzska21 - kalma lang bro, ayaw kainit o kapikon ni taga_ipil, if limpyo imo konsensya, imo ra cya kataw.an unless dli...

its just sux when feeling sa isa ka tao na ako njud iya nakit-an.. nya pina whosoo2x pa..

EPIC FAIL... i hate guyz na chismoso.. kanang cge pagarpar na walay ebedincya..

in the end its up to us. really funny jud kaayo ky nagpakauwaw cya sa iang self..

hehehehe.. nice job sis taga_ipil

[xxkatgorgeousxx]

@borgy

nice one bro..

@wengIA

wa koi pagkuwang sis..cya mao'y naa..ask him that..

[joan624]

naunsa diay mo sis?
inluv mn mo
yaw namo away
d nmn kaha 3rd party ang cause ana?
peace namo

pero kng 3rd party gani gihapon
lyk sa sulti ni taga_ipil
kng mao gyud 2 iya nakit-an

naa rana nimo kng mu-antus ka na cge balik2x inana..

[WengIA]

@borgy

nice one bro..

@wengIA

wa koi pagkuwang sis..cya mao'y naa..ask him that..

hihihi..ayaw lang hunahunaa nga nipabor ko sa imo BF sis ha. kay sa usa karelasyon man gud para sa ako kamong duha angay iblame. hihihi


sige daw kung wala kay pagkulang..i.evaluate nako pila ka percent imo trust ni ninzka21?

[borgy1981]

@borgy

nice one bro..

@wengIA

wa koi pagkuwang sis..cya mao'y naa..ask him that..

in a relationship there are 4 outcome..

1. girl is serious, guy is not
2. guy is serious, girl is not
3. guy & girl are both serious
4. guy & girl are both not serious

you both know where you stand... sometimes giving too much is "pagkulang", in this world there should be balance, not too much, not too less, sakto lang...

[Abby_mcwayne]

uhm.. how do we build the trust man jud diay?

libog ko ako ba ni i OT or OnT.. murag part ra man japon gud,, hehehe

[xxkatgorgeousxx]

@wengIA

sa pagkakaron, wa kaayo koi salig niya. if given 10 points, mga 6 ra.

sa love ug attention sissy, wa koi pagkuwang niya..ts his fault man sad nganu nagkaanam ug kawagtang akong salig niya..

@borgy

naa mi sa #3 bro..or at least i think we are..

@abby

dili ra ka OT dearie..trust issues man sad ni dinhi..

[mastersun23]

uhm.. how do we build the trust man jud diay?

libog ko ako ba ni i OT or OnT.. murag part ra man japon gud,, hehehe

OT: unsa manang OnT? (ang OT off topic man)

i agree BOTH partners need TRUST. Kapoy bitaw mag play detective. Cautious is good. Over-Cautious not good, ig-agaw rana sa babysitter. hehe..

TO GUY:
Based on your posts, wa kay angay i-explain because you said so YOURSELF na wa kay 3rd party.

BUT Based on your girl's posts, wa nagka dimao imu mga storya/explanations. So dapat gihapon ka mu explain why wa nagka dimao.
If i were the guy, i would ASSURE my GF na way lain. Siya ra gyud. And i guess it would help if my explanations are rock solid. Kanang way buslot/gusot bah. If walay buslot, then all is well. Iyaha nana if mutuo siya or not. BUT If naay gusot, then there might be something wrong.

If naay inconsistencies, the ONLY Solution: Tell her the truth! If you did go out with somebody else (either on a romantic date or nagka kuyog lang mu then wala rato para imu) ditsoha ingon.
"I went with ____ but wala rato para nako, etc.." Mu taas ang istorya nya mag lubog lang mu kon imu pa tago-tago-an.
Then ASSURE her it won't happen again. This way, mawala na ang gusot sa imo storya. I'm sure she'll accept you. Kay if dili, then you wouldn't still be together diba?

TO GIRL:
If sure gyud ka nga naay inconsistencies, Then let him clearly explain. ma klaro mana kon naay gusot ang storya or wala. Then you decide if you'll accept his explanations or Not. If not, then end the relationship. We know you love him & all. But if you love him, dawata ang explanation, close the book and pray it never happens again. Dili kanang love nimu siya nya mag sige bagulbol or pang-away. Accept he made a mistake (if he did) then move on. If it happens again, you know what to do.

It's either you TRUST him or KICK him out. If you're in between, kapoy sa mind & heart lang ang kanang mag sige duda. It will eventually destroy your relationship. It happened to me. Anugon, but as a guy i can't stay with a partner who doesn't Trust me.

kana ra. Amen. peace. hehe

[finchy18]

kung walay trust.. aheemm.. (wlay protection) joke! =)
my suggestion lng ha. pahulay sa mo.. ayaw pugsa .. kung kamo gyud.. kamo man gyud.. bisag how many years after pa.. pero kung di gyud kamo ayaw lng pugsa pud basin imo ra gipagpilitan imong kaugalingon..