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    Question HELP!!! I'm falling out of love from my guy...


    I recently got a boyfriend, and we turned 1 week last Sunday. He was so sweet. Actually, he's my type of guy - or I should say my ideal guy. Physically, he's chubby, tall, chinito, and (I should say) good-looking. I have no complaints when it comes to his characteristics. He's sweet, mabait, thoughtful, and loving. I thought everything would go well. We have constant communication, but for the a week-run of our relationship, we only got to see each other once...and this is when I started to feel insecure. He constantly calls me at night after he arrives from work, but it wasn't enough. I always have this longing of seeing him. I told him about it, and he always have the same response - to be patient with it. I know he also has to prioritize his work. He's responsible about it, and that's what's killing me. He's too workaholic. I only want to spend quality time with him, but he could only assure that when the right time comes, we would get that quality time I need. It's starting to bore me out. I know I shouldn't feel that way, but I can't help. I'm confused right now. I'm scared to break it up to him, because he's been very good to me. He has been very patient. He has been pursuing me for almost a year. He told me it was worth the wait. Also, one of the reasons I'm afraid to break with him is because he's a close barkada of my cousin. I wouldn't want to destroy their friendship and closeness just because I'm confused with what I'm feeling for him. Is it really normal? or I'm just overreacting.
    Last edited by laagan_si_organizer; 07-01-2008 at 07:06 AM.

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    workaholic! just tell him you need to be worked out also ...

    btaw, hang in there, its only a week yet ... maybe he needs to do all those month ending reports

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    na.. na amao nah..

    mao na ni ron.. ayaw2x lagi anang uyab2x.... hahhahahaha

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    1 week?

    did something happen? you know the 'S' thing?

    or maybe naa sya existing nga uyab before na-kamo.

    huhuhuhu... wawa...

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    mitch, kuan daw... i suggest na u wait for a lil while longer...

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    ayaw lang pakita na nagool ka or na worry ka.
    kay na advantage jud na sa lalaki...

    pasagdi... di bitaw na imo loss iya bitaw na. (assuming walay nahitabo ninyo)

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    ur overreacting.. or u dont like the guy that much, the way ur describing , its like wala ra nmo.. if 1 year ang guy nag pursue nmo. so u mean to say na develop lng ka.. the way i see it lng, u dont love the guy that much

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    Quote Originally Posted by taga_ipil View Post
    1 week?

    did something happen? you know the 'S' thing?

    or maybe naa sya existing nga uyab before na-kamo.

    huhuhuhu... wawa...
    nothing hapened yet, but i would love to. i think love nako xa, but wala lang jud xa time nako.

    Quote Originally Posted by rl View Post
    ur overreacting.. or u dont like the guy that much, the way ur describing , its like wala ra nmo.. if 1 year ang guy nag pursue nmo. so u mean to say na develop lng ka.. the way i see it lng, u dont love the guy that much
    wala nako xa gi-pansin before because i was trying to get over a heartbreak. nagsugod xa panguyab nako after i broke up with my then-bf for 9 mos. wala nako xa gisugot because i don't want him to be on the rebound. and besides, dili man jud basta-basta moabot ang love dba? it takes time to develop. he has been good and understanding to me. kaso lang, nung nagkauyab na mi. it seems he's working too much na wala na siya time nako.

    Quote Originally Posted by rishee View Post
    mitch, kuan daw... i suggest na u wait for a lil while longer...
    i would have to take this one here.
    Last edited by diem; 07-01-2008 at 05:15 PM.

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    the greatest agony in the world is waiting..

    it could kill

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    Quote Originally Posted by laagan_si_organizer View Post
    nothing hapened yet, but i would love to. i think love nako xa, but wala lang jud xa time nako.
    too early.. too early... mada mada...

    ikaw ra ang luoy if thats the case.
    since 1 week pamo, its good that the guys is showing sa iya attitude.
    about sa inyo relationships, kung mao na iya batasab sa una pa
    nga workaholic sya then you should accept it.


    compared anang BF na sa first stage sa ila relationships
    murag iro cge ug sunod/call/text sa babaye pero kung makuha na
    wala nay pakialam.

    give it a time, ayaw sa isuko ang bandana ng pilipinas in-ana ka sayo...

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