HELP Once I dated a friend's boycrush

[Soul_Captive]

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.This is actually in the past but has actually been one of the most unforgettable things I have done which really still makes me think every now and then..Did i do the right thing?

..A girl friend has been having me and a couple of other friends at their place sometime two years ago where I met this one guy she has a crush on..the guy was a part of some organization she was into, and they have been spending time together with other members on stuff like drinking and just hanging out..while we were there once, the guy got my number along with the number of another friend, and he texted me while i was at the cr..since i was in the same network and was unlimited (plus, i found him attractive too), i replied and we were texting the whole night even when we went to the disco and he was dancing with my friend who had a crush on him..after the said night, we were still texting..when he asked me out, my close friends told me not to because he was a friend's crush after all, but i still went out with him..nothing came out of it though until we eventually lost contact..however, my close friends never forgot about it..they refer to it sometimes and tell me that they will never introduce me to their boyfriends because i am the type who forgets about friendship when it comes to men..i know they are just joking, but it really makes me think..was it really a wrong thing for me to go out with a guy who asked me out and i found attractive just because a friend likes him?

[roybrian69]

pang MMK... being true to yourself in situations like this will eventually make you happy...naka una lang imung friend sa pag ingun nga ganahan cya sa person but it does not mean your friend owns that guy...ang if you are really friends, wouldn't she want you to be happy? give and take....and ma pugos diay niya ang tao nga d man ganahan niya-cya lang naka una...hehehe

[Soul_Captive]

MMK? drama diay nah? hehehe

that's exactly what i think..besides, something good was meant out me and the guy, usik au if ala nadaun coz of a mere crush dba?

[topaz]

i dont think saup na xa. in the first place, dili xa bf sa imo friend. crush lang. plus we can't force the guy whom to like diba.imo friends unfair cause they let the incident stain ur friendship. anyways, dili man ta kabuot sa tao whom to like,dba.. =)
i dont think its wrong

[laagan_si_organizer]

i dont think saup na xa. in the first place, dili xa bf sa imo friend. crush lang. plus we can't force the guy whom to like diba.imo friends unfair cause they let the incident stain ur friendship. anyways, dili man ta kabuot sa tao whom to like,dba.. =)
i dont think its wrong

my friend, it's totally not wrong. u were being true to urself. it wud be wrong if they've been together already...but he was just a crush of a friend. the guy still has the option to go out with anybody he wants, and you being single, just accepted the friendship handed by the guy. probably, ur friends wer just being malicious wen u went out with him. they should cut the crap!

[Soul_Captive]

my friend, it's totally not wrong. u were being true to urself. it wud be wrong if they've been together already...but he was just a crush of a friend. the guy still has the option to go out with anybody he wants, and you being single, just accepted the friendship handed by the guy. probably, ur friends wer just being malicious wen u went out with him. they should cut the crap!

u know what gurl? i'm thinking maybe my friends also liked him that time and were just jealous...hehehe..i'll tell them that

[laagan_si_organizer]

u know what gurl? i'm thinking maybe my friends also liked him that time and were just jealous...hehehe..i'll tell them that

OT: don't start a rift. kaw jud. keep it to urself nalang. at least, ikaw ang naka una ug date sa laki among your group.

[Soul_Captive]

OT: don't start a rift. kaw jud. keep it to urself nalang. at least, ikaw ang naka una ug date sa laki among your group.

hahahaha..yeah, before he disappeared from planet earth..so sayang! long hair raba to..type au nko..lol

[laagan_si_organizer]

hahahaha..yeah, before he disappeared from planet earth..so sayang! long hair raba to..type au nko..lol

OT: gusto sad ko ug long hair, pero ayaw ng dreads oie kay matakdan unya ko sa kuto.

[diem]

@Soul_captive, I dare say that you might need to find better sort of people to consider as "friends". Then again, it is said that those we choose to call as friends serve as a reflection of who we are.