American files ANNULMENT from his Filipino "bride" who is a man

[laagan_si_organizer]

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na pul an na sigurog og bakdor ning kano

HAHAHA!! deep ang term huh?!!

[giddyboy]

on the other side of the issue, kadudahan sad ang pasangil sa american 'coz they were married last 2006 and learned that night that he was then married to a "he". why didn't he make the move two years ago? nganong nagpa-abot pa man xa na mo-two years ilang marriage? is there any period required kung when mo-file ug annulment para sa kasal? he should have made it after he found out na namakak iyang "bride", or filed a year ago? mejo naglibog ko sa issue...

maybe after the honeymoon incident the Kano knew obviously that the marriage was null and void in the first place unya limited pa gyud iyang time dire sa Pinas nga knanglan mouli dayon. he myt have already bought his air ticket for the US.

AFAIK, in a case like this, formality ug "for the record" nlng nang pg file sa annulment. mao nang wla nlng niya gi-priority. besides, uwaw pa cguro kaayo atong panahona nga presko pa kaayo hitaboa. maybe he waited for things to calm down muna hoping nga this incident won't catch any attention from the media...

[laagan_si_organizer]

maybe after the honeymoon incident the Kano knew obviously that the marriage was null and void in the first place unya limited pa gyud iyang time dire sa Pinas nga knanglan mouli dayon. he myt have already bought his air ticket for the US.

AFAIK, in a case like this, formality ug "for the record" nlng nang pg file sa annulment. mao nang wla nlng niya gi-priority. besides, uwaw pa cguro kaayo atong panahona nga presko pa kaayo hitaboa. maybe he waited for things to calm down muna hoping nga this incident won't catch any attention from the media...

if so, then why continuously send money to his "wife"? i really don't know which one is telling the truth, and which one is otherwise...makalilibog nga istorya. probably, it's just heating the "dead" issue of "gay scandals".

[godsaint]

tagam ning mga merkano nga mangita ug batan-on dri sa Pinas.Pero kadudahan man ning hitaboa.Daghan pagpangilad nahitabo;sa papeles,sa gender ug basin apil na judge nasuhulan na ani.

[lousuarez]

To Whom It May Concern:

Good Day!


I would like to clarify things on the controversial news last June 7,2008 about "US man who filedpetition for annulment to gay bride" ........

i am Lou Vincent Suarez the alleged gay wife ... would like to clarify things which is not true that Mr Gerald Brainard III didn't knew the fact that im not a true girl.......

I am not stupid to marry him in a municipal court without his knowledge of my true gender ..In fact it was his decision to marry me ....

I met him on Asian Dating, Asian Singles, Asian Personals & Asian Women at AsianEuro.com website last april 2006...when we were chatting he was unaware of my true gender , but when he went over here in Philippines to meet me last June 2006 i hid from him in Manila no guts to met him for i was afraid he would hurt me if he would know the fact that im not a true girl, so all the time he was in manila i hid from him... and i decided to went back home to cebu and after he knew where i am, after communicating on phone , text and chats , he followed me in Cebu City where my family lives.. One afternoon i decided to give it at least a try , explaining why i never met him personally.... so we chatted thru yahoo messenger i told him everything and ,i humbly asked him for forgiveness coz i lied the truth of my true gender and admitted to him im not a true a girl... I even told him if he wants i have some beautiful filipina friends and cousins whom I can introduce to him coz i know he was frustrated with what i did .... But he said i dont need anyone but you .... maybe im crazy in love with you to accept you for what you are... that statement puts tears into my eyes ... a tears of joy ,for i never expected to hear those words from him....... i was expecting yells some bad words which i know i deserved coz of the false hope i made to him.........but even though he said he accepted me , i was still hesitant to meet him for i was still afraid maybe he just wanted to hurt me or put me into jail ...... but he said Just meet me for i will accept you for whatever you are.... so that night i went over to the hotel located along Sanciangko St (cant quiet remember the hotels name? ,its at back of University of Sn Carlos.....so when i arrived at the hotel we met on lobby and decided to go to his room to talk personally .... so i asked him if it was really true that he accepted me even im a gay? and i saw tears on his eyes and then said he really loves me and accepted me for whatever the reasons i have ..... Nothing really can ever explained what i felt that night after meeting the man i asked for .. who can love me and accept me for what I am ...... so we had a serious talk about us and so he said he wanted me to have the operation in Thailand and then he can marry me after so i just open up to him that my birth certificate had a clerical error with female in gender, so he encourages me to marry him first and told me it would not be a problem since he wanted me to have a *** change he first planned on Oct 2006 and moved to April 2007 to be performed in Thailand which doesn't take place for he stopped communicating with me last March 2007.....he just decided to marry me on the 3rd day of our meeting and I asked him why ? but he said he wanted to make sure I wont be taken by others....so after we got married in Palace of Justice , a small reception in our house follows where i was very proud with people telling me i am very lucky to have found the man who accepted me and married me despite of my true gender ......... so after we got married we spent times together in Cebu Midtown Hotel until he needed to left back home to USA ... so i took him to Manila we both went there and stay in one hotel in Makati........... on that next early morning we had sad goodbyes in NAIA and we departed promising to love each other till the end of time...........

So the accusation that he only found out the truth only after the wedding night was not true........ that "he was shock and horrified and went back immediately to USA was merely a WRONG ACCUSATION"......... After he got back in USA we chatted again, on yahoo with webcam every morning when i wake up and every 6pm in our time which is before he went to his work......he supported me financially which is his own decision for he said i am his wife and he was happy to support his wife.... so after few months we were just okay and fine and he was also discouraged telling me that spousal visa takes long processing and he wanted to bring me home in USA when he supposedly get back on Philippines June 2007 and planned also to have a church wedding after the supposedly SRS operation in thailand on April 2007 ....So everything he promised to me and the plans we had was gone after he stops communicating with me last March 2007........before we lost contact we had a serious fight because of some misunderstandings , and also due to his critical mind ... he was a jealous type of person ... no wonder why his 3 marriage failed is because of his very critical mind and over possessive ..so we end up always arguing ........ im supposed to be his 4th wife so i was expecting he was a better man then to handle a married life.......but now it turned out to be another experienced he needs to learn for this marriage doesnt work between us ..........

But i hope he never put me into this Embarrassment, for all the time after we lost communication , I was waiting for him to come back into my life ...being broken hearted of what had happened between us , with all those false hope and broken promises to me ,I was the one who truly felt shocked and horrified because of the wrong malicious accusation to me which captured everyone's attention......I felt i lost the small dignity that was left in myself, people thrown a lot of speculations.....Accused me and prosecuted me on their own judgment . i felt so ashame and so much hurt coz after all what had happened to me , being left with false hope and promises ,Now surprised me with this false malicious accusation... .........

So thats why i came out into public defending myself for i could not take it any longer with what they have accused against me ........ I am not a stupid person to deceive my husband my true gender before the wedding ... i married him on municipal court where i know he could report me after he would find out anytime in his two weeks of staying here in Philippines... if his accusation was true, he had all the time to report and accused me on that period where the wedding was just fresh and we could have ended everything between us on that time....if that allegation was true why complained after 2 years ?? if its true then, How could anyone let pass of this matter,waited 2years to complained... he could have prosecuted me on that time then where he got all the chance since he was here in Philippines ?? ....

so its not true that i lied to him that I am a gay ,he was the one who really wanted the wedding to happen ,so who I am to refused a good offer ? opportunity knocks only once so thats why i let it to happen . .....but i made no alterations on my documents , it was due to clerical error on Private hospital where my mom gave birth to me ...Anyone can see it on NSO that i dont do any alterations of that ..... i thought it was a blessing in disguise but it just put me into so much troubles........... so the wedding happened without the Judge's knowledge coz my husband told me it would not be a problem anymore after i got *** change in Thailand where my gender in papers will correspond on the genitals i would have after the said operation.....



His testimonial on dating website proves already that he was aware that im a ladyboy ... you can browse on Asian Dating, Asian Singles, Asian Personals & Asian Women at AsianEuro.com go to their success stories there u can see his testimonial that he was happy to met me and marry me despite the fact that im not a true girl.........
you can simply click this link AsianEuro.com | Success Stories

AsianEuro.com | Success Stories

and u will see this statement :

Jerry and Venus "Thank you Asianeuro.com for bringing us together" I am Jerry and this is Venus. We met through asianeuro.com back in May. We started out by sending an email through the website and kept missing each other through time differences. I had a few other choices but wanted to talk to this lady before I knew which way to go. Finally we were able to chat with each other through the chat system on the website and yahoo messenger. I then knew she was the one for me. It was like God guided us together. We fell deeply in love. We used every means possible to know more about each other from messenger to webcams to the telephone. We made plans for me to come to the Philippines and we could then meet and go from there. I flew to the Philippines on the 15th of June and stayed in a hotel in Manila. At the time I left the states she had been living in an apartment in Quezon City. She never showed at the hotel nor called me there. I had used both the internet capabilities at the hotel and the internet cafes in the area to contact her and leave her messages. I called both her cell phone and her parent's home. LOL It was quite frustrating. Let me tell you though, if you're in love and really really believe that this woman loves you, don't ever give up. I left Manila and went to the city of Cebu where her parents lived. I called and left a message with them letting them know I where I was. They gave her the message. I also sent her emails through this hotel's internet capabilities. She finally got a hold of me. Yes, she was hiding. She was in love with me but she had a problem and thought I would be mad and would hurt her for keeping such a problem from me. No matter what her problem was I told her I was IN LOVE with her and we can overcome anything. We met that night. Our love for each other knows no bounds. We were married on the 21st of June and the paperwork will be processed soon for her to come home to me. So any of you guys out there, if you love the one you come to the Philippines or where ever to see, and she is hiding from you from fear of something, don't give up until you get to at least talk to her.

Thank you Asianeuro.com for bringing us together.


the damages has been done ,words have been said ...i hope they think that Im not a public figure, i am a private citizen ...therefore they must have seek the words on my side to reveal the both sides of the story before they have it published.......before it scattered all over the world ..it was not easy

It caused a lot of embarrassment to me and to my family's reputation..... because of the wrong malicious accusation it poisoned my personality which gives me now inferiorities ,i was embarrassed to my friends and to people whom i once have told of my luck being married and accepted despite of my homosexuality.......

what they did to me was like beating me first until i got bloody wounded before they gave me the privilege to speak the truth on my side ....which i think that even time couldn't tell on when the wound that it caused me would heal...........


Its really unfair because when this news first exploded in every corner of newspaper ,people believed and judge me right away.. based the issue accordingly to gender......... Since I am just a gay they assumed the rumor was true,spreading the NEWS without seeking the truth on my side ..i am .being deprived to protect my reputation and was deprived with the rights to be the victim, fall into wrong malicious accusation...

Yes i maybe just a gay ... just an ordinary person , nothing compare to US man who put me into great Embarrassment..... but i hope people will not judge me because of my homosexuality ...hope they would not judge me yet and give me the chance to explain my side before they put into conclusion....

sad to say i am the real victim......... victim of my x husband's false hope and broken promises ....

and now victim of wrong accusation ..........

even some people look down on me coz of my homosexuality,i am still proud coz with this sexuality i have , it made me a better person to be flexible at all times and made me stronger in these times of adversity.........


sincerely yours
Lou Vincent Suarez

"those times were once i thought as the greatest moment of my life , a dream come true perhaps, but now it suddenly turns out to be my worsts nightmare......"


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[skadiboy]

To Whom It May Concern:

Good Day!


I would like to clarify things on the controversial news last June 7,2008 about "US man who filedpetition for annulment to gay bride" ........

i am Lou Vincent Suarez the alleged gay wife ... would like to clarify things which is not true that Mr Gerald Brainard III didn't knew the fact that im not a true girl.......

I am not stupid to marry him in a municipal court without his knowledge of my true gender ..In fact it was his decision to marry me ....

I met him on Asian Dating, Asian Singles, Asian Personals & Asian Women at AsianEuro.com website last april 2006...when we were chatting he was unaware of my true gender , but when he went over here in Philippines to meet me last June 2006 i hid from him in Manila no guts to met him for i was afraid he would hurt me if he would know the fact that im not a true girl, so all the time he was in manila i hid from him... and i decided to went back home to cebu and after he knew where i am, after communicating on phone , text and chats , he followed me in Cebu City where my family lives.. One afternoon i decided to give it at least a try , explaining why i never met him personally.... so we chatted thru yahoo messenger i told him everything and ,i humbly asked him for forgiveness coz i lied the truth of my true gender and admitted to him im not a true a girl... I even told him if he wants i have some beautiful filipina friends and cousins whom I can introduce to him coz i know he was frustrated with what i did .... But he said i dont need anyone but you .... maybe im crazy in love with you to accept you for what you are... that statement puts tears into my eyes ... a tears of joy ,for i never expected to hear those words from him....... i was expecting yells some bad words which i know i deserved coz of the false hope i made to him.........but even though he said he accepted me , i was still hesitant to meet him for i was still afraid maybe he just wanted to hurt me or put me into jail ...... but he said Just meet me for i will accept you for whatever you are.... so that night i went over to the hotel located along Sanciangko St (cant quiet remember the hotels name? ,its at back of University of Sn Carlos.....so when i arrived at the hotel we met on lobby and decided to go to his room to talk personally .... so i asked him if it was really true that he accepted me even im a gay? and i saw tears on his eyes and then said he really loves me and accepted me for whatever the reasons i have ..... Nothing really can ever explained what i felt that night after meeting the man i asked for .. who can love me and accept me for what I am ...... so we had a serious talk about us and so he said he wanted me to have the operation in Thailand and then he can marry me after so i just open up to him that my birth certificate had a clerical error with female in gender, so he encourages me to marry him first and told me it would not be a problem since he wanted me to have a *** change he first planned on Oct 2006 and moved to April 2007 to be performed in Thailand which doesn't take place for he stopped communicating with me last March 2007.....he just decided to marry me on the 3rd day of our meeting and I asked him why ? but he said he wanted to make sure I wont be taken by others....so after we got married in Palace of Justice , a small reception in our house follows where i was very proud with people telling me i am very lucky to have found the man who accepted me and married me despite of my true gender ......... so after we got married we spent times together in Cebu Midtown Hotel until he needed to left back home to USA ... so i took him to Manila we both went there and stay in one hotel in Makati........... on that next early morning we had sad goodbyes in NAIA and we departed promising to love each other till the end of time...........

So the accusation that he only found out the truth only after the wedding night was not true........ that "he was shock and horrified and went back immediately to USA was merely a WRONG ACCUSATION"......... After he got back in USA we chatted again, on yahoo with webcam every morning when i wake up and every 6pm in our time which is before he went to his work......he supported me financially which is his own decision for he said i am his wife and he was happy to support his wife.... so after few months we were just okay and fine and he was also discouraged telling me that spousal visa takes long processing and he wanted to bring me home in USA when he supposedly get back on Philippines June 2007 and planned also to have a church wedding after the supposedly SRS operation in thailand on April 2007 ....So everything he promised to me and the plans we had was gone after he stops communicating with me last March 2007........before we lost contact we had a serious fight because of some misunderstandings , and also due to his critical mind ... he was a jealous type of person ... no wonder why his 3 marriage failed is because of his very critical mind and over possessive ..so we end up always arguing ........ im supposed to be his 4th wife so i was expecting he was a better man then to handle a married life.......but now it turned out to be another experienced he needs to learn for this marriage doesnt work between us ..........

But i hope he never put me into this Embarrassment, for all the time after we lost communication , I was waiting for him to come back into my life ...being broken hearted of what had happened between us , with all those false hope and broken promises to me ,I was the one who truly felt shocked and horrified because of the wrong malicious accusation to me which captured everyone's attention......I felt i lost the small dignity that was left in myself, people thrown a lot of speculations.....Accused me and prosecuted me on their own judgment . i felt so ashame and so much hurt coz after all what had happened to me , being left with false hope and promises ,Now surprised me with this false malicious accusation... .........

So thats why i came out into public defending myself for i could not take it any longer with what they have accused against me ........ I am not a stupid person to deceive my husband my true gender before the wedding ... i married him on municipal court where i know he could report me after he would find out anytime in his two weeks of staying here in Philippines... if his accusation was true, he had all the time to report and accused me on that period where the wedding was just fresh and we could have ended everything between us on that time....if that allegation was true why complained after 2 years ?? if its true then, How could anyone let pass of this matter,waited 2years to complained... he could have prosecuted me on that time then where he got all the chance since he was here in Philippines ?? ....

so its not true that i lied to him that I am a gay ,he was the one who really wanted the wedding to happen ,so who I am to refused a good offer ? opportunity knocks only once so thats why i let it to happen . .....but i made no alterations on my documents , it was due to clerical error on Private hospital where my mom gave birth to me ...Anyone can see it on NSO that i dont do any alterations of that ..... i thought it was a blessing in disguise but it just put me into so much troubles........... so the wedding happened without the Judge's knowledge coz my husband told me it would not be a problem anymore after i got *** change in Thailand where my gender in papers will correspond on the genitals i would have after the said operation.....



His testimonial on dating website proves already that he was aware that im a ladyboy ... you can browse on Asian Dating, Asian Singles, Asian Personals & Asian Women at AsianEuro.com go to their success stories there u can see his testimonial that he was happy to met me and marry me despite the fact that im not a true girl.........
you can simply click this link AsianEuro.com | Success Stories

AsianEuro.com | Success Stories

and u will see this statement :

Jerry and Venus "Thank you Asianeuro.com for bringing us together" I am Jerry and this is Venus. We met through asianeuro.com back in May. We started out by sending an email through the website and kept missing each other through time differences. I had a few other choices but wanted to talk to this lady before I knew which way to go. Finally we were able to chat with each other through the chat system on the website and yahoo messenger. I then knew she was the one for me. It was like God guided us together. We fell deeply in love. We used every means possible to know more about each other from messenger to webcams to the telephone. We made plans for me to come to the Philippines and we could then meet and go from there. I flew to the Philippines on the 15th of June and stayed in a hotel in Manila. At the time I left the states she had been living in an apartment in Quezon City. She never showed at the hotel nor called me there. I had used both the internet capabilities at the hotel and the internet cafes in the area to contact her and leave her messages. I called both her cell phone and her parent's home. LOL It was quite frustrating. Let me tell you though, if you're in love and really really believe that this woman loves you, don't ever give up. I left Manila and went to the city of Cebu where her parents lived. I called and left a message with them letting them know I where I was. They gave her the message. I also sent her emails through this hotel's internet capabilities. She finally got a hold of me. Yes, she was hiding. She was in love with me but she had a problem and thought I would be mad and would hurt her for keeping such a problem from me. No matter what her problem was I told her I was IN LOVE with her and we can overcome anything. We met that night. Our love for each other knows no bounds. We were married on the 21st of June and the paperwork will be processed soon for her to come home to me. So any of you guys out there, if you love the one you come to the Philippines or where ever to see, and she is hiding from you from fear of something, don't give up until you get to at least talk to her.

Thank you Asianeuro.com for bringing us together.


the damages has been done ,words have been said ...i hope they think that Im not a public figure, i am a private citizen ...therefore they must have seek the words on my side to reveal the both sides of the story before they have it published.......before it scattered all over the world ..it was not easy

It caused a lot of embarrassment to me and to my family's reputation..... because of the wrong malicious accusation it poisoned my personality which gives me now inferiorities ,i was embarrassed to my friends and to people whom i once have told of my luck being married and accepted despite of my homosexuality.......

what they did to me was like beating me first until i got bloody wounded before they gave me the privilege to speak the truth on my side ....which i think that even time couldn't tell on when the wound that it caused me would heal...........


Its really unfair because when this news first exploded in every corner of newspaper ,people believed and judge me right away.. based the issue accordingly to gender......... Since I am just a gay they assumed the rumor was true,spreading the NEWS without seeking the truth on my side ..i am .being deprived to protect my reputation and was deprived with the rights to be the victim, fall into wrong malicious accusation...

Yes i maybe just a gay ... just an ordinary person , nothing compare to US man who put me into great Embarrassment..... but i hope people will not judge me because of my homosexuality ...hope they would not judge me yet and give me the chance to explain my side before they put into conclusion....

sad to say i am the real victim......... victim of my x husband's false hope and broken promises ....

and now victim of wrong accusation ..........

even some people look down on me coz of my homosexuality,i am still proud coz with this sexuality i have , it made me a better person to be flexible at all times and made me stronger in these times of adversity.........


sincerely yours
Lou Vincent Suarez

"those times were once i thought as the greatest moment of my life , a dream come true perhaps, but now it suddenly turns out to be my worsts nightmare......"


[/B]

hoi amiga wahhahahahah,,, atots nag pakita na dyud ka..... kahinomdom paka nako ois... haler

[lousuarez]

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[lousuarez]

hoi amiga wahhahahahah,,, atots nag pakita na dyud ka..... kahinomdom paka nako ois... haler

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[yacky2006]

mas maayo cguro mo invistigar ani ang Ombudsman sa ni officiate sa ilang kasal... lot of violation sa process pag hatag sa License to Marriage... sharo ang staff sa judge wala kabantay nga gay ang bride....

[mexicanlady]

YES i do believe Lou Vincent Suarez is telling the truth.It's unfair for her without hearing her side also.For what i thought, maybe this american guy who married her and promised her for *** change in Thailand is just too show off.Wala siguro siya ika afford for *** change unya scapegoat na lang ni niya para siya maka lingkawas sa gasto.I dunno if unsa ka suheto si Lou Vincent ani nga american guy.Basin nang hambog pud ni amerkano na kwartahan siya but sa tinud-anay lang diay siguro, nagka because because pud sa utang sa america.Just my thought....