Spare the Rod, Spoil the Child

[carmie]

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depende sa bata, naa man gud uban na bata na very sensitive kaau and lahi na ang pagsabot sa pagbunal ug mada nila inig ka dako. Feel sad nako ang bunal mka create ug gap between the parent - child, i don't know if my opinion is right but how to brought up a child is a trial and error process each child is different so we must also have different approach that would coordinate the child's personality.

[carmie]

pero kung di na gyud mada ai bunal na oie hihihi labi na grabeh au nagpabadlong

[Hot Sizzle]

i thought serious na wakokokok...

[danoote]

please ayaw bunali inyong mga anak...mga bata na sila.dili na sila kasabot.dili disiplina inyong ginabuhat kung inyong bunalan.inyo ra sila ginahadlok.

obedience is different from fear.

[Gwynhuever]

...to this day i wondered how my parents did it...i was never spanked, pinched, hapak, dukol etc...wa ko ka sulay...nag wonder ko gud if my parents were saints not to do it he he he pero i admire...salute...honor them for the way i was brought up!

..now i have a son of my own...i intend to try my best jud to emulate my parents....let's see if i can be as tolerant and patient he he he

NO TO BUNAL!

[Rooted]

me and my brother next to me grew up with beating. amo youngest kai hayahay ra kaau.
i remember a very good one from my fater from his belt and it wounded me.
di jud malimtan kai naa jud ulat. ang hinungdan kai grado from 90 to 83.

i think. this practice of beating should not be left forgotten.
yes, it brings grudges to me to my father as a child but it left me a good understanding on making decisions. and i thank him for that.

ako lang na observe sa ako anak which is 3. kung di jud xa pasakitan sa iya sayop, ga sige lang buhaton.

example...
naai hilabtan sa iya tu-o nga kamot. so liktan ang tu-o.
ang buhaton, hilabtan sa wala nga kamot. SAUNZ...

su ang buhaton. dunganon ug litik

[MiAmor]

i agree

[cebu1029]

a bit of spanking when they are still young would work. but not when they have reached school age.

[ronz_rodz]

i will beat my child with voice, love and care human

[ezrajirah]

i agree with rcruman.the meaning in the bible sa rod is the same rod nga gi use ni moses nga gi hapak niya sa stone para mo gwas ang water kato nga time nga naa sila sa desert.you really have to spank your kids but not to the point nga nilakra najud siya kay bunog nana pod siya.but wen you spank dem dont use your hands use somthing basta dili ang hands.kay ang kamot nato mao ga hikap nila wen they sleep or hurt would be use pod diay to spank them.mao dont use your hand.the behavior of a kid would reflect to the behavior of the parents.mao kung ang bata wla disiplina pasabot ana naa diperenxa ang pagpadako niya which kita parents ang gapadako sa ato anak.