HELP Should I stay or should I go?

[thedreamer]

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im a guy, and mas sakit if dugay2x-yon ninyo mga girls...
may nang sayo pa para dali ra i-recover...

[kiekim]

take your time,don't rush on anything you're nt sure of....and be honest!

[yokam]

ya sakto jud mo i shud tell him asap... i thot f mu stay ko mayb ma develop rako nya ba...but i guess impossible jud kaau...

so unsaon nko pag ingon niya?? i know it shud b subtle para d xa masakitan...pero how??

do u have any suggestions on how?? like unsaon lang pagstart ug sulti ba..hehe clueless jud au ko ani...

Don't tell him immediately. Give him some clues that you no longer plan to continue the relationship, at least it will give him an idea where it's going. You can act as his friend but not as his girlfriend, for sure he'll notice it. But timing is the key, don't wait for him to ask what's going on. When you feel that he's at least got some clue, then tell him.

Gather enough support too. If you can bring his friends to you side, then it's a lot better. These are the people he'll run to when he'll feel down, and if they understand your side, for sure they'll help you out. What you're doing is still the best for both of you, they will understand you.

[joyeeks]

u shud go na oi, maka gaba baya na if di ka serious sa relationship ky next nimo nga rel, ikaw ang mabinuangan, maayo nang sayo pa, ul be honest to him na. make excuses nalang, at least its d best for both of you, ikaw nga di naka mag tiis and sa guy nga di maworthless iya effort.

[akosabni]

just tell him you were wrong ... that you would rather have him as a friend (agay, kasakit ... pause sa og paminawa ang iyang re-action) ... than, as your bf

than thank him for the time he spent with you (para mo bawi sab ka)

[trancemagna]

paliti ug bag.o na pitaka dyun buwagi hehehehe