I'm confused!

[Ya_Sui]

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probably right my fwen ya sui
fortiutious event ni? hehehe
he has his own life there and you have here
if you are really meant then it should be like what he wants but if not its what you you want.
this is one problem of a real cuty girl like you

am i having this problem too? ayaw saba ha hehehe

hala tug-an tikaw ni misis.. hehehehe.. Highschool life ni nahitabo.. 1st gani.. hehehe... D ko cutie oi.. choi lagi ko.. hehehe..

[Ferl]

think of what will happen to your future first.be practical enough especially at these times.its not easy to live a life today.

[Ya_Sui]

korek... sakto jud ka Ferl.. Samot na karon.. Crisis na ayo ang pinas..

[knup24]

kon asa ka malipay sa imo decision.. go!!!

[junenine]

i have this bf, we "were" in love until there' this guy who swept me off my feet.. but i gave him up anyway because i thought it would be unfair for my first guy, now im torn, not between the two of them but by myself, should i give my first guy up and focus on my career or should i go give it a try still? take note, he is a good guy and he used to be the perfect guy for me, now i don't know... i'm lost!

If you go back to this guy that helped you with your career, do you think he's gonna trust you after you gave him up and went back to your first bf? Make a decision base on your priority, wether its your love or your career and stick with it. Don't be going back and forth between two boyfriends... you might ended up losing both. So, good luck...

[angelice]

[quote="darkevilunicorn"]i believed that Career and relationship to the opposite *** are both equally important to a persons life to keep him/her going...........however when it comes to the point that the latter becomes a burden in fulfilling your plans in the future then he/she has to step back and weigh things out before proceeding........

para man gud nako, ang love kung love man gyud gani-dili dapat bug-at para sa dughan sa tawo.......kamo duha magtambayayung para sa inyong kaugmaon........bisan pa man ug milyonaryo ang imo uyab(kaya ka niya buhion bisan dili ka mo work) he/she has to realize nga kung LOVE ka niya.......iya i-respect ug suportahan ang imo personal choices in life..that includes your passions.......kay kung si Ryan A. ang pasultihon......LOVE has to weigh LIGHT in your HEART not a burden to CARRY.........

I'm deeply touched by this and i want to thank Darkevilunicorn for such a touching way of expressing your thoughts to me.. it has to weigh light right?I was wondering why it (he)felt so heavy.. My former flame "used to be perfect for me" and sad to say until now im still confused.. we are still friends and he still express his affection for me.. i don't want to hurt his feelings but his actions are threatening me that if i'll leave him (as in goodbye na jud) he'd jump out and get crazy, now i don't want to be the cause of his "taking the wrong direction". trust me.. I know KARMA and i believe in it but i must know the limits to being a good girl and being the bad girl right? i have been a naughty girl i know, but is it wrong to fall in love with someone else when you have a boyfriend who, by the way, used to ignore you and suddenly, after you slapped the possibility of giving up on him right in his face, turned to be some kind of an angel to everybody.

it seems so funny how suddenly im like a precious gem he couldn't give up! i'm still hurting from the things he's done to me... i'm like in hell but im striving to keep up..

again i'm very thankful to all who gave a parcel of their time reading my post and gave their thoughts.. even if im still not ok, i know i can get out of this hell I'm in.

for all estoryans, hope you had learned from my exprience..in this story I am the bad guy and my former flame was the good guy but if you would examine the story well, you'll find out there's more of it.. you'll know when you exprience the same..

by the way, i'll be guesting at channel 47 (CCTN) for my company.. i'll greet all of you... we're taping on wednesday and it will be televised on Sunday 7:00 -8:00 PM

[mikogerald]

Take time! ask for space. just dont fool your bf. if he waits then make a decision then.