How can I tell to him that I already had a baby? I need ur advise guyz (UPDATES)

[joshbonz]

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that's the gamble you have to take sis... your happiness and peace of mind? or his happiness...

the more you dwell on it.. the more it tortures you big time.. spill the beans.. if he cant accept it and you see him w/ another girl... screw everything about him...

that goes to show how he shallow he is..

why would you please someone's happiness in your happiness expense... Be thankful that sa sayo pa.. you know diay nga kanang tawhana dili diay ganahan ug serious commitment..

I know it's kinda corny, but ever heard the song already - 'Maging Sino Ka Man'?... listen to it's lyrics.. it'll teach you something...

[miss tapya]

There's no comfort in the truth, pain is all ul find.. pero cge lang..mawala ra bitaw na ang pain... Ul never know unsay outcome kong wala pa nimo gi try nimo d bah..

[ajol]

it doesn't mean if the guy doesn't want a single mother that he is shallow.

[SheilaB]

every delay will cost you

that's the gamble you have to take sis... your happiness and peace of mind? or his happiness...

the more you dwell on it.. the more it tortures you big time.. spill the beans.. if he cant accept it and you see him w/ another girl... screw everything about him...

that goes to show how he shallow he is..

why would you please someone's happiness in your happiness expense... Be thankful that sa sayo pa.. you know diay nga kanang tawhana dili diay ganahan ug serious commitment..

I know it's kinda corny, but ever heard the song already - 'Maging Sino Ka Man'?... listen to it's lyrics.. it'll teach you something...

yeah... I have to face the consequences either it's positive or not... God will make a way

[SheilaB]

Fyi, we have a date tonight and he'll going to take me out for a dinner.. shall I say it to him tonight? I'm afraid that our date will be screwed just for the sake that I have a baby.... Is it the right time?

[SheilaB]

if you think you will loose your bf, if you tell him your situation

then

dump the guy ... if he ask why, tell him you have a daughter

just b ready ... you will cry either way (hope lang tears of joy)

bro.. it's not that easy to dump a guy especially you really felt inlove with him...

[diem]

[color=navy][b]@SheilaB, It can be the right time but please be mindful of the place. It would not be nice to see if you confess in a public place and create a scene for people to oogle at.

You can tell him after the date when he drops you home. Invite him inside for a few minutes and declare the truth in the safety and privacy of your own home.

[joshbonz]

it doesn't mean if the guy doesn't want a single mother that he is shallow.

i understand you bro.. but being shallow notes a lot of meaning.. don't take it literally..

[SheilaB]

[color=navy][b]@SheilaB, It can be the right time but please be mindful of the place. It would not be nice to see if you confess in a public place and create a scene for people to oogle at.

You can tell him after the date when he drops you home. Invite him inside for a few minutes and declare the truth in the safety and privacy of your own home.

Okey.. I will do that... but everytime I see his face, I felt so guilty 'coz he did everything I wanted to.. and I really appreciated the way he is. I love him especially he is very gentleman.

[diem]

[color=navy]By your words, he seems to be a great guy but consider this please, to have such a guy to be attracted and fall for you shows that you're also a very wonderful person as well, SheilaB

Anyway, if in the sad event... he holds it against you that you have a child then it just seems to me that it shows he's not as great as you make him appear to be.

Before your date tonight, pray for the best but expect the worst. Pray to God for strength, courage, wisdom-- ask God's Help in this matter. Pray for the best.

God bless.