How can I tell to him that I already had a baby? I need ur advise guyz (UPDATES)

[joshbonz]

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that's ok sis.. you are doing this not for him.. but for yourself.. at least you will know what kind of a man he is.. if he loves you skin deep lang or he loves you COMPLETE jud.. (everything that is all yours jud)

[miss tapya]

para sa ako lang hap..better spill it out the earlier the better than prolonging the agony.. mas dali man gud ma heal ang fresh pa kaysa mo dukot na. . I know its easier said than done.... pero expect na gyud na nga masakitan jud ka watever the reaction of the guy. But just give him time to think it over.. Malay mo there's this twist of fate... If He really loves u just like sa iyang giingon perme, apilon nasad niya og love ang attachment d bah...

The power of unconditional love kumbaga....


How will u tell him? Cguro start with an example.. syaro og d jud mo moabot sa point nga wat if's and wat if's d bah... Say mo ingon ka og.. Wat if Naa nako Baby, will u still accept me? Ang imong supporting questions mag depend sa iyang answer.

Hinomdomi higala.. ang makalamdag sa imong huna huna ...makuha ra nimo if Ul gonna take the so called RISK!..

my 2 cents..

[ajol]

why don't you ask a friend to ask the guy what does he think of single mothers.

[rickmags2000]

hi,

in my opinion go and tell him, he may or may not accept, that is what you certainly would expect if he does accept it then youll gain a better perspective of his ideals youll gain a better man if he does then perhaps hes not meant for you...

if you tell him the truth no matter how he would accept it you would feel relieved...and by the way theres nothing wrong with having a baby...remember any woman can be a wife or a lover but not everyone can be a mother....

[ajol]

you should have said when he was starting to court you.

you should have said it right then and there.

[AnGelicFace_07]

para sa ako lang hap..better spill it out the earlier the better than prolonging the agony.. mas dali man gud ma heal ang fresh pa kaysa mo dukot na. . I know its easier said than done.... pero expect na gyud na nga masakitan jud ka watever the reaction of the guy. But just give him time to think it over.. Malay mo there's this twist of fate... If He really loves u just like sa iyang giingon perme, apilon nasad niya og love ang attachment d bah...

The power of unconditional love kumbaga....


How will u tell him? Cguro start with an example.. syaro og d jud mo moabot sa point nga wat if's and wat if's d bah... Say mo ingon ka og.. Wat if Naa nako Baby, will u still accept me? Ang imong supporting questions mag depend sa iyang answer.

Hinomdomi higala.. ang makalamdag sa imong huna huna ...makuha ra nimo if Ul gonna take the so called RISK!..

my 2 cents..

korak jud :mrgreen: tuo gyud aning miss tapya heheheh

[akosabni]

if you think you will loose your bf, if you tell him your situation

then

dump the guy ... if he ask why, tell him you have a daughter

just b ready ... you will cry either way (hope lang tears of joy)

[SheilaB]

that's ok sis.. you are doing this not for him.. but for yourself.. at least you will know what kind of a man he is.. if he loves you skin deep lang or he loves you COMPLETE jud.. (everything that is all yours jud)

yeah you're right bro...

why don't you ask a friend to ask the guy what does he think of single mothers.

I don't have closed friends with him 'coz we're still new to each other...

hi,

in my opinion go and tell him, he may or may not accept, that is what you certainly would expect if he does accept it then youll gain a better perspective of his ideals youll gain a better man if he does then perhaps hes not meant for you...

if you tell him the truth no matter how he would accept it you would feel relieved...and by the way theres nothing wrong with having a baby...remember any woman can be a wife or a lover but not everyone can be a mother....

Yeah, I have to tell it to him as soon as possible... if he can't accept me then I don't have a choice is to leave him.. but it hurts when I will see him with another girl

[SheilaB]

para sa ako lang hap..better spill it out the earlier the better than prolonging the agony.. mas dali man gud ma heal ang fresh pa kaysa mo dukot na. . I know its easier said than done.... pero expect na gyud na nga masakitan jud ka watever the reaction of the guy. But just give him time to think it over.. Malay mo there's this twist of fate... If He really loves u just like sa iyang giingon perme, apilon nasad niya og love ang attachment d bah...

The power of unconditional love kumbaga....


How will u tell him? Cguro start with an example.. syaro og d jud mo moabot sa point nga wat if's and wat if's d bah... Say mo ingon ka og.. Wat if Naa nako Baby, will u still accept me? Ang imong supporting questions mag depend sa iyang answer.
Hinomdomi higala.. ang makalamdag sa imong huna huna ...makuha ra nimo if Ul gonna take the so called RISK!..

my 2 cents..

Yeah I did the "what ifs" question. The last time we have dated (Nov.4) I asked him "what if I had a baby? would you still accept me?" then he said... "He loves and accepts me everything that I am." and I asked him too.. "Do you like babies?" he then replied "yes, I love babies so much and they're so cute". By that time he asks me why did I ask him about it... then I was shocked 'coz I don't know what to say... . I am still doubt if I will going to express it or not...so, I decided not to say it... maybe later waaaaaaaaaa.... I should have told him about it... that was the right time!... It was my fault...I let myself overpowered by fear and you know what?... everytime we dated I felt guilty that he was blind sided of what's happening to my life... . I hope he will forgive me...

[ajol]

every delay will cost you