A good friend turned lover.. what to do. <sigh>

[JakLine]

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i have some friends like this aie. friend lng jud acung treatment nla but they want to be more than my friend..

[noy]

unsa inyu buhaton when you have this so-close friend that you are so comfortable being with. You know, the one you can joke around, hold hands, hug brotherly, talk about anything under the sun, check on each other daily, pinch on each other's faces--sort of a brother jud.. and suddenly.. asked you for a date. (meowk!)

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* lakaw ta inig 14 ha.
# friday nlang para dghan ta.
*kita rman duha.
# ha? ngano man? toweweng!
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-mao to. murag dili na friendly iya moves towards me the past days, sort of romantic na. napay text nga kung dili gani ko kareply, mag-luod².. tsk². wa jud ko ganahi.

akong problema:

-Di ko ganahan muprangka kay bcn ma-offend cya, mawad-an pa nuun kog suod nga migo. I respect him man gud, nya I value him jud as a friend. he's one of the guy friends nga super comfi jud kau ko.

-Di pud ko gnahan makig-date nia coz wala lang. I just dont feel like it. migo rajud ako tan-aw nia.. period! He's the funny guy type man gud. di ko kaimagine mag-date mi nya serious² ang dating ba. naah! hahahah
awkwardan na nuun kau ko motagad nia ron, or if tagad gani, cold na (though trying to keep it the usual way).

So what I do, whenever he reminds me gani of our so-called date.. (nga wala koi plano modaun), moana rako "ay cgeg binuang diha, gara² sad ka dah.. pangetag laing kabinuangan didto!".. nya mokatawa ra sad cya.. muana. "binuang man nuun."..

<sigh> I just hope whatever he feels would just die a normal death. Napressure ra sad guro c manoy kay hapit na ang v-day. haha! LOL

kmusta na dha TS? nagkadayon mu ni guy friend? hehehe
I'd say you may wanna give it a shot. if your relationship as friends is working well and itsuraan man pud kaha na imu migo hehehe then why not take your friendship to the next level?
after all, a romantic relationship is not all about romance, it's also about respect and companionship which technically is friendship.
so if you guys are great at being friends already, you only need to work on some aspects to make a romantic relationship work.
adto jud kas imu pang ila ilahon ug kadudahan pa nga gipangga ba jud ka or nag apas ra ug kuan.. Lol

[Nami_1217]

Naa ra na nimo ug tagaan jud nimo ug malisya oi.. basin kuyog2 ra diay to iya gusto pero kamo ra duha which is okay. Ma awkward ka kay maghuna huna man gud kag something romantic jud.. but nahan kog relationship nga based sa friendship.. lahi ra jud sya

[slakker]

bati sigurug nawng si friend...

[luff101]

kay di ta uyab, walay ikaw ug ako apan kung mag selos ko wala kay bout. hahaha

Just one date ts, one date lng please.

[noy]

but nahan kog relationship nga based sa friendship.. lahi ra jud sya

agree jud ko ana mam

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bati sigurug nawng si friend...

hahahaha murag mao jud na. otherwise gikilig na ang TS

[quirkychinita]

<---------- well... we started as friends, now we're lovers.... in a few years or months, we're companions for life, possibly with kids,

[raissah]

ayg kumpyansa anang mga ing-ana TS. labi na nang manginvite ug date kay usahay mokalilt ra na silag pangutana ug open minded ka ba.

[noy]

ayg kumpyansa anang mga ing-ana TS. labi na nang manginvite ug date kay usahay mokalilt ra na silag pangutana ug open minded ka ba.

hahahaha sang milyun!

[raissah]

hahahaha sang milyun!

nakasulay na ka ana noy? naa usahay ba makaingon kag "boang ay naganahan man guro ni nako sige mag paramdam unya mag lood2x kay makig date/laag. Unya niabot na jud kas point nga makig date lang ka kay nahutdan na kag rason balibad. Unya ga andam na kas imong i-sulti nga gibusted nimo cya nga dli kaayo siya masakitan.. unya diay ang gipangutana ra kay "open minded ka ba?" hahaha

ayaw sa pag assume TS. basin networking ray tuyo ana.