using work rank as a form of revenge

[Venn]

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Naa koi classmate sa highschool na girl (Let's call her Leia) and nagkita mi sa among hometown when I went home para mag rest sa work (I work in a different city). Wala nako siya na add sa FB since at those times kai dili pa uso ang FB. And wala koi interest kaau sa net sa una. I came to know naa siyay BF also and Nag ask siya if asa ko ga work and if naa ba hiring. I told her na always man hiring didto and asked her na mag pass lang ug resume and use me as reference. I gave her xerox copies of my notes at work para naa siyay alam. So days later, I was told na na accept siya and also an operator pud siya.


So I have this supervisor (Lets call him Luke) pero I am not under him when na deploy nako ko sa work (He was just one of our trainers). He is a well respected man at work and he was even the one who trained us unsaon pag operate and do some maintenance work sa among gina handle na machines (I'm a production operator) and he is also a good speaker when it comes to seminars and trainings. Ever since my classmate nako sa highschool was nadawat sa planta and directly supervised by Luke, lahe siya ug attitude sa kai Leia. Isog siya sa iyaha and strict and usahay murag bastos ug tinubagan.. an attitude na wala nako nakita so far sa kai Luke.


That's when I came to know na kini silang duha naa diay ni past... uyab sila sa una for 5 years (small world). Si Luke daw sa una martyr kaayo kai Leia and told me that toxic ilahang relationship kai sigeg bulag, Leia cheated twice and the second time she cheated, nagpaka martyr gihapon si Luke pero nawala najud daw ang feelings niya para kai Luke and stopped contacting him. Ang sayop pud ani ni Luke daw sa ilang relationship kai pag naai something wrong mahitabo sa iyang life, iyahang i-direct ang kalagot sa kai Leia which hurted her a lot so many times mao sa sige ug pakita sa iyang violent nature, nawala ang feelings niya kai Luke and for the second time napud daw, Luke goes into the trash can. Iyaha jud daw siyang lisod-lisoron sa work si Leia and pag naai overtime requests, si Leia pirme hangyuon plus she is given too many machines to work with. Tapos gihimo daw na walai claro iyang pagka train samtang ang iyang mga kauban maayo ang pagdala.


Kining new BF diay niya kai a result of the second cheating diay and much better in attitude terms sa kai Luke. Its been a month (or maybe month kapin?) na naa na siya dinhe and na feel niya ang pressure. It kinda feels like guilty ko gamay because murag na lead nako siya into a death trap of some kind. In terms of financial, mas maayo pajud ug kinabuhi nuon si Luke compared to her new BF (I won't say the details much). Pero gina evaluate nako sa akong mind, unsaon manang financial kung imong ma husband/wife kai secret demonyo man diay? (Based on my observation lang kai murag two faced guy ni si Luke)


She feels like giving up a little sa iyahang work pero I told her to kind of hang on kaysa mubalik siyag tambay sa ilaha. I suggested to her na balhin siya sa amoang department para lahe ang iyang supervisor... pero full slots naman sa amoa. Na think pud nako alternative pero didn't tell her yet na maybe quit nalang siya tapos mag work ug different place… pero in her case murag lisod. Na swertehan rajud siya sa pag pang-apply niya dinhe sa planta. Looking for a new job might be hard for her. Not just any job pero kanang stable jud na job.


What are your thoughts in this? This is a case of "Workplace Revenge"... Both of them naa man jud sayop... mga major na sayop, Personally, I think na living a better life is the best kind of revenge that someone can have pero living a better life plus doing something like this murag dili na maayo.

[hybrid666]

If the workplace is toxic, rest. If di na makaya ug 'rest', resign. But from what I've learned, talk to someone higher first and see if naay mahitabo. Last resort nana ang resign ha? haha

[gibra'al]

don't feel guilty. igo ra ka nitabang sa imong friend nga grl.
whatever their past is, you're not obliged to fix it ky ila nang personal business. silang duha ang dapat mghusay ana. wa na kay labot ana.

if di kaagwanta si gurl, then urge her to be upfront sa iyang senior (ex) nganong ingana iya treatment sa iyaha. i think katungod pud na niya as an empleyado. else, just tell her to resign. hahahaha. she was a jerk to begin with anyway sauna. can't blame the ex. nakuhitan nanas karma. lol

i know it's unprofessional to some degree ang gibuhat sa iya ex, pero unfortunate lang nga natumngan siya nga of higher position iyang ex karon. so... sorry gurrrrl! pass da paper nlng para di na magsakit

[Venn]

don't feel guilty. igo ra ka nitabang sa imong friend nga grl.
whatever their past is, you're not obliged to fix it ky ila nang personal business. silang duha ang dapat mghusay ana. wa na kay labot ana.

if di kaagwanta si gurl, then urge her to be upfront sa iyang senior (ex) nganong ingana iya treatment sa iyaha. i think katungod pud na niya as an empleyado. else, just tell her to resign. hahahaha. she was a jerk to begin with anyway sauna. can't blame the ex. nakuhitan nanas karma. lol

i know it's unprofessional to some degree ang gibuhat sa iya ex, pero unfortunate lang nga natumngan siya nga of higher position iyang ex karon. so... sorry gurrrrl! pass da paper nlng para di na magsakit

haha. bitaw sad. nganong ni enter ang labas.. ako nalang iingon. Kanang unsa man ang alternative work sa babae na TESDA grad na welding ug pang hotel iyang nahuman? Kai para akong ma suggest sa iyaha. haha di man gud siya gusto magtambay sa ila. Katong nag apply siya ug cashier, saleslady or anything pang highschool jobs sa una naabtan daw siyag 8 months.

Or e suggest nako na work lang sa tapos secret2x na mang apply ug lain? hehe. Wala pajud kabalo iyang current BF karon na same sila ug workplace sa iyahang ex xD. Selosong dako man gud daw iyang current BF karon.

[gibra'al]

haha. bitaw sad. nganong ni enter ang labas.. ako nalang iingon. Kanang unsa man ang alternative work sa babae na TESDA grad na welding ug pang hotel iyang nahuman? Kai para akong ma suggest sa iyaha. haha di man gud siya gusto magtambay sa ila. Katong nag apply siya ug cashier, saleslady or anything pang highschool jobs sa una naabtan daw siyag 8 months.

Or e suggest nako na work lang sa tapos secret2x na mang apply ug lain? hehe

hala ha, ikaw jud iyang g.hasol2? patabanga kaha na iyang uyab ron? aw.
kung di siya ganahan ma tambay, then mangita siyag trabaho.

ka diskarte man gani siyag pagpanikas sa iyang ex sauna, unya trabaho di siya kabuhat? ahhh binuang. hahahaha.

in terms sa employment/work, dili ko sweto pud ana. so wala koy masuggest.

[slakker]

ayaw pag apil apil sa ilang problema ts kay between the 2 of them ra na...

[<SMILE>]

They should not bring their respective personal problem within the working area,
masuko ang tag-iya sa kompaniya ana, dili na fair. Puwede moreklamo si girl ana kay affected man iyang job.

[obelisk]

Kasabot ra ko sa reaction ni Luke. They made mistakes in their personal lives. And the fact is si Luke ang hurt cuz of cheating. And karun, in regards to work, Try lng to observe properly. If tinuod ba dyod na ang gi sulti sa imung friend. It could be just na exaggerated na story na nuon. You can suggest to her to try to talk to Luke. If indeed she does not feel guilty sa actions niya sauna, she can talk to him straight and frank.

Resigning kay pwd solution. Pero kuyaw iyang next application kay basin ma trace balik sa kana na company and ma contact iyang curren supervisor.

[THE KID]

gusto lang ko mahibaw kung cge ba gihapon na sila og takmag?

[Nami_1217]

if you can't take the heat, then get out of the kitchen