Victim of infidelity please help!

[emailroy2002]

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Thanks for the translation po..pero i don't have evidences po

You have no evidence. so your wife has not done any infidelity. therefore your wife is innocent.

case solved

[darthskroder]

Those information were taken by private investigator i once hired. The site does not impose anything. If there are lawyers here, please do enlighten me as I really need help and advise. Hindi yung basta maka-pag comment lang kasi bago po yung thread. Wag naman po.

Here's the story.. that guy was a former officemate of my wife since 2009 and he knew that my wife is married to me. He's married as well and have 1 kid. Last month, i discovered via email conversation that they have something, and so I drilled down and confronted my wife. She admitted that there was something and the worst and hard part was something happened. The guy knew my wife is married and have 1 kid. The guy is out of the country and I don't have any contact information of the guy aside from email address he was recently deactivated. That was the reason why I hired private investigator. After getting pertinent information, I tried to talk to the guy but he's avoiding it(conversation) and act as if nothings happened. Since that was the case, I spoke to the wife and tell the wife everything even the documentation I was able to gather. My wife even called the wife to say sorry and admit everything. Still the guys is avoiding me and worst denying everything happened.

If this happened to you guys, ano gagawin nyo? wag na tayong pa-ipokrito or ipokrita pa or pa good boy/intelligent epek pa. Be rational lang, niloko ka ng asawa mo at may anak kayo habang ikaw sinu-subsob mo muka mo sa kaka-trabaho parang lang magampanan mo ang responsibilidad mo bilang asawat ama, para maging good provider for them. ANO PO ANG GAGAWIN NYO?

The site does say anything, it does not even have any legal obligation or whatsoever so please enlighten me why someone called it a demolition job and will cause bigger trouble? The guy for some reason is avoiding confrontation with me.

I've been cheated on too and I totally understand how you feel, but asking people to "be rational" when in fact full of emotions ang reply mo is hypocritical. Again, consult a lawyer if you want to take legal action. Wala kang evidence that you can take to the court, so walang kaso. Talk to your wife if you're still willing to save your marriage.

[salbahis]

diba common kay ni sa mga BPO... kanang mga weekend "Team Building"...

[col.gate]

diba common kay ni sa mga BPO... kanang mga weekend "Team Building"...

Mo extend pa jud ug few hours for bonding moments with the 'team'?

[salbahis]

Mo extend pa jud ug few hours for bonding moments with the 'team'?

hahahah itago nalang nato sa pulong nga "Team Mate" ug sa activity nga "Team Building"

[firestarter]

@rydeto, I know that you are in difficult situation now, my question is, did your wife asked you a forgiveness ? If she asked you, are you ready to forgive her ? do you still love her ? .. If the answer is yes, then move on and forget everything happened. .

I'm not a lawyer but if you want to file a case against her, I think its difficult because you don't have evidence, and the process will take time, it will give you more misery than peace.

For me it is better to walk in separate ways and strive hard to fulfill my duty as a father and focus to my son. . . And most of all Pray to God to guide you specially in this difficult time.

Nindot ni isulti kung dili ikaw ang hingtundan ..

[firestarter]

The answers on the members here are quite disheartening, it seems it is even the victim's mistake. Naunsa naman tawon mo oe. Kung mangabit gani ang usa kaklaro ana sayop sa nangabit, unya sala na hinuon sa wala mangabit. OT: No wonder molaban ang CHR sa mga drug lords.

[jerzx777]

Nindot ni isulti kung dili ikaw ang hingtundan ..

@firestarter, Lisod man sad ug negative ang ato e sulti kang @rydeto, kabalo naman to na lisod ang iya sitwasyon karon diba ?, at least nag share ta ug mga idea para niya, ug siya na mismo ang mag select ug unsa na mga option na pwede niya e apply ..

If you have a different way that you think can help him, then try to share it here maybe your inputs will be the best option.

[sweetnothings]

The answers on the members here are quite disheartening, it seems it is even the victim's mistake. Naunsa naman tawon mo oe. Kung mangabit gani ang usa kaklaro ana sayop sa nangabit, unya sala na hinuon sa wala mangabit. OT: No wonder molaban ang CHR sa mga drug lords.

mao niy common nga eksena ron. kung kinsa patong nasaypan, mao pay sayop. ang katong mga nakasala, mao pay labanan. abibahan pa. dungan pag pangatawa.

[ghostie2472]

The answers on the members here are quite disheartening, it seems it is even the victim's mistake. Naunsa naman tawon mo oe. Kung mangabit gani ang usa kaklaro ana sayop sa nangabit, unya sala na hinuon sa wala mangabit. OT: No wonder molaban ang CHR sa mga drug lords.

As disheartening as it is, that's how it is man sad. Wa man jud tay mahimo ana, bisan siya. He's in a situation nga, though ni confess iyang wife about sa infidelity, nag 'move on' naman ang duha, ang lalaki naa na sa layo, ang iyang wife naa niya, wala siya biyai. Si TS ra man ang wala ka move on, he can't even decide unsa iyang gusto buhaton sa iyang wife ug sa lalaki, samot na ang taga istorya nga dili maka tabang niya.