Do's and Don'ts on a first date

[Da Fai]

for men do's (some)
- pick-up the lady from home/work
- prepare a good plan, plan ahead, plan a plan b plan c
- always bring an umbrella,
- if you don't have an umbrella, bring a raincoat
- don't show off too much
- look for good topics nga dili ma boringan imo paris
- hide your phone
- hide your wallet as much as possible, use credit card or debit card (naay reasons, kung kabaw naka ayaw nalang reply ani, hahaha)
- always call her by her name,
- express yourself / be yourself, if dili madawat, aw, change dayun, kay first impression lasts...
- before going out, have your stomach full...

daghan pang do's jud, hahaahah

para ma balik ta sa topic... kay naay subscriber nga ni reklamo ilabi nani c ma'am @miramax. hahaha,
**still for men**
- prepare a good topic
- dont go persistent on knowing them, i know nga getting to know phase, but dili ni xa agad2, this should be done in stages/steps
- don't waste time, be efficient
- never offer alcohol on the first date (naay reasons)
- offer food, but don't eat, or eat a part of it (naay reasons)
- don't bore them, bisag nindot pa ang topic, dali ra ma bored ang girls
- switch strategies from time 2 time
- know some humor, it helps
- even though naa kay service, much better nga taxi mo in the first date (naay reason, not applicable to all men kay lahi2 ang batasan)

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IMHO, reason why e-hide ang wallet:

1. Money issues >>>> financial capability churva sa ka deyt, basin kung daghan CC or nagsinumbagay linibo sa pitaka magpatuyang nya order si girl.

2. marital Status>>>> as they say... a picture speaks a thousand words, kita mga girl beh aykog ingna if makigdet tah for the first time unya the guy introduced himself to us as single, available and ready to mingle unya during our date ig-abli sa wallet kita tag family portrait that is seem to be ...Uh.Oh don't tell me , plus factor na guys?

3. True Identity >>>>> As they say..."What u don't know can't hurt u" Some people , are fond of using aliases or pretending to be someone they are not. So, to hide the real identity better hide those ID's, bank cards etc...

bottomline..HIDE UR WALLET peace bro @Da Fai

pastilan... killjoy jud ni c ma'am @miramax, hahaahahahah, logical explanation tanan da...

[Da Fai]

Mira's points make sense so no need for Da'Fai to elaborate more risse hehehe

First dates are supposed to be fun, not something you can be so uptight about

As long as you guys can jam well with good convo over great food and drinks with
music, too.. Awww payts na

Basta no text or call in between Kay no-no jud na

drinks should be avoided too, i know this, i'm a man, but i too have a sister, so to be fair, no alcohol... hahaahaha if serious ang guy towards you, this is something the guy should be uptight about... having a relationship is not a game... its a struggle... hahahaha

[beyee]

drinks should be avoided too, i know this, i'm a man, but i too have a sister, so to be fair, no alcohol... hahaahaha if serious ang guy towards you, this is something the guy should be uptight about... having a relationship is not a game... its a struggle... hahahaha

Drinks can be without alcohol

I guess if you've got nothing to hide then you don't need all the rules
to jump start a first date. I still go for the old adage, "Be yourself."

Just my two cents.

[Da Fai]

your 2 cents and my dime, "be yourself... still hide your wallet!" hahahahahaa

[beyee]

^^ I rest my case hahahaha!
Cheers, bai!

[miramax]

para ma balik ta sa topic... kay naay subscriber nga ni reklamo ilabi nani c ma'am @miramax. hahaha,

pastilan... killjoy jud ni c ma'am @miramax, hahaahahahah, logical explanation tanan da...

You'd asked for my personal opinion , so I gave u mine. I don't mean to burst any bubble
Those opinions btw, are based on firsthand experience , he, he, he. #LessonsLearned #DatingW /Men

I, personally more keen on the gestures ; simple ones but means a lot:

a. Kung sa resto>>> mo offer sha or grab u a chair before sha moplastar sa iya kaugalingon.
>>>> kung mokaon mo sa mga pungko2 o karenderia; mo effort jud sha kuha condiments or utensils for your convenience. #superSw8
b. Kung magtaxi or his own ride>>> He'll politely open the door for u, before he embarks on the vehicle.

Second thing that I am particular about is...Body Language

a. Kana morag dili mahimutang, it's natural to feel anxious on first meeting but not to the extent nga cge liraw2 mata sa palibot.

[Da Fai]

b. Kung magtaxi or own his own ride>>> He'll politely open the door for u, before he embarks on the vehicle.

Second thing that I am particular of is..Body Language

a. Kana morag dili mahimutang, it's natural to feel anxious on first meeting but not to the extent nga cge liraw2 mata sa palibot.

ang kanang B nimo ma'am i think its much better nga iyahay, kay para dili makalitan kung madugay na manag.uyab then ma usab man jud na, makaingon pa mo nga dili na sweet, much better i eliminate ni sa guys... haahhaha

body language, is too general ra jud, any specifics?
dili sad mag.liraw2 ma'am oi, ahahahaha

[miramax]

ang kanang B nimo ma'am i think its much better nga iyahay, kay para dili makalitan kung madugay na manag.uyab then ma usab man jud na, makaingon pa mo nga dili na sweet, much better i eliminate ni sa guys... haahhaha

body language, is too general ra jud, any specifics?
dili sad mag.liraw2 ma'am oi, ahahahaha

Specific...kanang morag alisto kaayo sa palibot.
Morag naay gekahadlokan makit-an or makakita?

[Da Fai]

Specific...kanang morag alisto kaayo sa palibot.
Morag naay gekahadlokan makit-an or makakita?

ahahaha ikaw najud ma'am @miramax, hahahahhahaaa
playing words with me is a good idea, hahaahah,
ok ok...i get your point...
daghang situation ang nahitabo related to your opinion and mine,
what if grabe ka sweet ang guy, then follows all my do's except for the wallet... hahaahahaha
then the girl sees the family picture? facepalm oi... hahhaha
that's one way to avoid that "wallet" thingy man gud, sa ako instructions sad ma'am,
"- prepare a good plan, plan ahead, plan a plan b plan c"
bogo nalang sad jud kaau ang lalaki nga mag.ingon ana pa...
i know, i sound like encouraging this kind of thing...
but for xur, this might turn out educational for the whole lot of us here in istorya...

[miramax]

ahahaha ikaw najud ma'am @miramax, hahahahhahaaa
playing words with me is a good idea, hahaahah,
ok ok...i get your point...
daghang situation ang nahitabo related to your opinion and mine,
what if grabe ka sweet ang guy, then follows all my do's except for the wallet... hahaahahaha
then the girl sees the family picture? facepalm oi... hahhaha
that's one way to avoid that "wallet" thingy man gud, sa ako instructions sad ma'am,
"- prepare a good plan, plan ahead, plan a plan b plan c"
bogo nalang sad jud kaau ang lalaki nga mag.ingon ana pa...
i know, i sound like encouraging this kind of thing...
but for xur, this might turn out educational for the whole lot of us here in istorya...

Points well taken.
As for the wallet issue, least priority as I can afford to pay my own bill like most of the girls here @lifeisbeyeeutiful @Wynna @larisse
but of course , since u give us a hint.
We'll add that (wallet) to the list ; definitely not ignore 8- pasiplat mode langkos wallet.