Husband cheating, should you tell wife.

[iancute]

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gisulti na bitaw sa topic nga husband cheating.... asa man tawn ka oi!!! basin tua ka sa lain post topic kadtung duda2...

[vladmire]

bukingan na!!! inform the wife.

[kim071316]

husband cheating? putlan nag ulo!

[andch81]

wel depends..but its really none of my business..dont wanna start anythng ...

[Baroy]

sulti jd sa wife aron ma sulbad dayon ang problema.

[yokam]

Rather than telling the wife directly, ploy a plan that will eventually lead the wife to catch the husband cheating, wala na'y rason rason kung masakpan.

[pam]

yes.

[Serene]

This is what i would do in your situation.

If you know someone who is cheating on their spouse...tell them by anonymous letter and with EVIDENCE! Naturally, don't sign your name on the letter. I don't condone cheating mao ng i always tell my friends if their bf or husband is cheating on them. Sometimes, mahimo pa nig test sa friendship. Ang uban, dili pa jud mutuo nimo. They would accuse you of ruining their marriage, that you are jealous, etc. You can't blame them kay bisan friends nimo sila, mas deeper ilang relationship with their spouses. Coupled with denial, ikaw gyud mugawas na bati. In the olden times, the messenger bringing bad news gets killed all the time. To prevent that, dapat anonymous and dapat with evidence. Para the friendship is safe.

If you are the one who is cheating, para nako, mas maayo na honest ka. I don't believe in the saying that what you don't know won't hurt you. Little by little, the guilt is going to eat you up alive. You managed to keep something big to your other half and you won't feel as close anymore. Until such time na maguba na inyong relationship. To each his own but i recommend confessing gyud. For me, the risk is great na magbuwag mo but it will strengthen your relationship if your spouse decided to forgive you. At least, that's what marriage for me is all about : honesty. You will be surpise to know that most marriage didn't fail by infidelity but by dishonesty.

[sawakan]

sulti jd sa wife aron ma sulbad dayon ang problema.

sakto ka bro sulti jud dayon

[sheka]

i don't mind other people's business. pero it's something that needs a lot of thinking.