Did i ever mentioned about being smart? please read.
"dont say they are a great country" i never mentioned about the country being great, every country has it's flows and allowing same-s ex marriage is a start of an improvement for the US and sooner people will wake up and accept people like them that society considers "unusual".
"in terms of equality base on the decision won by the slimmest of margin." So you're saying if there are more people against the "slimmest margin" they should win even if it's the wrong side? if the "slimmest margin" is in right side that should prevail.
For conversion/reparative therapy check this out
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Leelah_Alcorn