I'm badly HURT. Bipolar or what???

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He is into a lot of stress right now plus the disappointments because of the predicaments occurred,
as his wife find some ways to ease him up, it will not be easy but it's the only way, tell him it's not yet the end of the world,
adjust and let him feel that you are at his side to support him to prosper both of you and not the other way around.

[slabs7]

He is into a lot of stress right now plus the disappointments because of the predicaments occurred,
as his wife find some ways to ease him up, it will not be easy but it's the only way, tell him it's not yet the end of the world,
adjust and let him feel that you are at his side to support him to prosper both of you and not the other way around.

Nya saon mana boss pa withdrawhon man pud siyag huge amount of money from credit card

[riansuzini]

Murag nag duda naman noon ko anang behavior sa imong bana. Unsa nga business man daw ang ma put up sa 40k? Shabu? Mag imagine ko niya mura man ug akong maguwang, tanan support gihatag na namo. Ang ending way nahimo kay puros ra plano nahurot nalang ang kwarta

Unsa diay na imong maguwang bro? Under drug influence sad?

[C'thulhu]

ahahahaha... mura na man hinoon ge himo banko si Mrs....

This should ring alarm bells....

As what @slabs7 mentioned earlier, and apil pa jud sa reaction sa parents ni Mr. na dili jud tantong re-assuring... ayawg kompyansa intawn...

[riansuzini]

Tagay ta ni dayon if naa mo dre. hehe Naa cguroy lain underlying cause ngano nag ingana cya. I hope maka istorya nimo iyang mama or cya mismo. If bipolar jud, aw mada rana ug meds.

Aguy! Ang problema brad kay magbu-ot sa tambal.
Tunga-on pa ang dosage ha.
Unya dili kono sya mo take kay clear iyang mind.
Defensive pa kaayo manulti sa Doctor.

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Kung ako ana pasundan nako ng activity sa imong bana.basin naa kay ma diskobre...same sa ako gibuhat sa ayko maguwang, gipang contact nako ako mga kaila ug paryente sa amo ug unsa gyud iya bisyo...ayun kaluoy sa ginoo mao way nahimo kay kubg naay kwarta adto ra bilyaran mag puyo

Istoryan man jud to imo husband. Pasudla to ngari bi basin naa mi mabuhat nga maka pausab sa iya huna2x. Syaro nagpatabang paman gani to siya diri just for you unya karon sa ana kasayon mausab siya

Brad, ang problema lang karon kay hasta ang among conjugal nga laptop kay gi prenda na.
Kay mao lagi, dili sya gusto nga adto mo stay sa ilahang guest room (with aircon, cable TV and food) kay dili lagi daw e hatag sa iyang mama iyang property worth 40K.

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He is into a lot of stress right now plus the disappointments because of the predicaments occurred,
as his wife find some ways to ease him up, it will not be easy but it's the only way, tell him it's not yet the end of the world,
adjust and let him feel that you are at his side to support him to prosper both of you and not the other way around.

I tried that bro. Pero what he thinks about support is "financial support" man gud.
He doesn't need love daw. It's bullsh*t.

[riansuzini]

ahahahaha... mura na man hinoon ge himo banko si Mrs....

This should ring alarm bells....

As what @slabs7 mentioned earlier, and apil pa jud sa reaction sa parents ni Mr. na dili jud tantong re-assuring... ayawg kompyansa intawn...

Sounds fishy lagi kaayo @C'thulhu. They have a dark secret kept somewhere nga karon pa lang ni bloom. I am pretty certain nga aware iyang parents kung unsa jud na sya.

[C'thulhu]

Sounds fishy lagi kaayo @C'thulhu. They have a dark secret kept somewhere nga karon pa lang ni bloom. I am pretty certain nga aware iyang parents kung unsa jud na sya.

Just an educated guess here ma'am, dako na ne na problem kay from the start, the marriage is executed in bad faith....

You have limited options here... one is mag paka martyr, and todo bigay nalang unsa iyang gusto just to satisfy him. The other is pretty self explanatory, bail out while you can and use that "sickness kuno" as justification... It should have been made known to you in the interest of fairness pud ba...

[riansuzini]

Just an educated guess here ma'am, dako na ne na problem kay from the start, the marriage is executed in bad faith....

You have limited options here... one is mag paka martyr, and todo bigay nalang unsa iyang gusto just to satisfy him. The other is pretty self explanatory, bail out while you can and use that "sickness kuno" as justification... It should have been made known to you in the interest of fairness pud ba...

I guess I should use my brain and go for the latter brad @C'thulhu. Although mag huwat gyapon ko pohon pohon kung ma rehab sya and mo explain sa akoa kung unsa jud iyang problema. No wonder diay before, ning ingon iyang Auntie sa akoa, "haaay salamat naminyo jud tawn si _______." It meant something else diay.

[C'thulhu]

I guess I should use my brain and go for the latter brad @C'thulhu. Although mag huwat gyapon ko pohon pohon kung ma rehab sya and mo explain sa akoa kung unsa jud iyang problema. No wonder diay before, ning ingon iyang Auntie sa akoa, "haaay salamat naminyo jud tawn si _______." It meant something else diay.

Always refer to your brain first and foremost ma'am, there's a reason why it is placed above the heart...

As what the previous posters have mentioned, try talking it over first... And it seems that even from their side(parents, family, etc) seems even reluctant to discuss the matter... murag naa jud deprensya, alangan naman sab ang pag sabot mu gikan ra sab sa imung side... marriage, just like a business partnership have to work both ways, and just like any binding contract, should be entered in good faith... otherwise there wont be trust in that union and that trust is the foundation on which all else is anchored... L)

[riansuzini]

Brad @C'thulhu. How I wish you could say that to his parents. Mas maayo paka kay nakasabot ka.

Actually I tried reaching out to them (to his mother) pero ingon sya nga OK ra daw akong husband. Mo patuo ra daw then mo inom ra daw ug tambal. Na insulto pa gani ko kay ingon sya OK ra daw ang pagka tulog sa akong husband sa ilaha.

Brad, you see. I think naulaw iyang parents. Dagko kaayo sila ug position sa government and I think kung moadto ka ana nga specific government office and ask the staff (even the guard) kung naa ba si Mr. & Mrs., kaila jud na nila kay ilado jud na sila.