Confused and Looking for Answers...

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More than a year ago, nagbuwag mi sa akong boyfriend for 4 years. I went out on a few dates and stayed single for a while. A few months ago, I met this guy at work. He wasnt my type kay hilumon kaayo sometimes feel nako he has his own world; but that thing about him caught my attention. Try nako sya kastorya a couple of times hangtud sa ni initiate sya og move na mobisita daw sya naku. First visit led to a few more until ni sleep over na sya... And he started to leave some of his stuff sa akong place. I dont exactly know what is going on but right now, I am confused. During New Year's Eve instead na padung na unta ko lakaw because I was invited by one my friends (sige ingnon ta nga nanguyab sad sya naku), I stayed home because ni kalit sya og sulpot. I thought nga didto sya sa iyang ate mag spend sa night so I made plans to go out. Natingala ko kay nalain daw sya because if nidayon pa daw sya didto sa iyang ate, dili sya ma hbaw nga naa ko lain kuyog.

First question: Dili man unta kami, pero nganu iya man ko nga pug ngan molakaw kuyog sa lain?

I tried to talk to him about unsa jud among situation but nahadlok ko because I might sound too clingy or too needy. He likes me, I like him... But di man siguro pwede nga ingon ana lang. Malain sya if mag talk mi sa akong ex through facebook kay daw sya wala man gani lain ka chat sa facebook.. Everyday kuyog mi and wala sad syay ka text (dala sa iyang pagka old fashioned). I thought this guy must really like me, but unsa man jud mi? ang naka disappoint sad kay nganu ingon ana man sya when he's already 30 years old.

Second question: Unsa man ang angay naku buhaton? Should I ask him? How?

[mustardplaster]

miga, feeling ana niya kamo na. nagselos ra na siya. sa iyang part gibuhat niya tanan para nimo. mao na nag-expect na siya nga ikaw sad niya. klaroha nalang na. pagstorya mong duha. tanaw nako sa iyang style gd di na siya kbaw kanang mosulti gyud unsa mo ba. mauwaw tngali na or mahadlok. storya lang mo.

[jntio]

basin murderon ka ana ts ha

[burgersteak]

Basin nag-assume nana cya TS nga kamo na, mypag magstorya mo nya klarohon na ninyo..

[C'thulhu]

Awki, thing is, you like him, he seems to like you as evidenced by his actions... Then nanguyab man kaha cya nimo?

Basing from his actions, he is already staking his claim on you, kinda marking you as his like leaving some of his stuff at your place... i.e. stuff like prohibiting/restricting your movements, trying to have control over you physically and emotionally by knowing who are you going out with...

You did try talking to him, and then what did he say? Uyab na mo by default?

Secondly, if you want to clear things up you should talk things over and clarify what it is that is going on between you. You need not be afraid in asking or clarifying your status, if his intentions towards you are true, then I see no problem in making it a formal one...

jm2c, ymmv...

[Ghadz]

confront him basin nag muhad na siya nga kamo na. ask him nganong masuko siya nga dili man mo uyab.

[princize]

unsa diay cya ts foreigner? coz he might have different dating culture but kung pinoy then it's safe to say that you two are likely considered exclusively dating (which he might also assumes) kung dili pman gani gyud mo uyab. I agree, it's best for you to confront him and talk it over para ma clarify.. hihihi

[handsoff241]

Inamigo nga tambag, ma'am. Palihug, be honest about how you feel with the situation. Ayaw huwata nga macomplicate pa ang situation between ninyung duha. Kay kung dili man gani ikaw ang masakitan kamo jud duha ang ma-shakoy.

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unsa diay cya ts foreigner? coz he might have different dating culture but kung pinoy then it's safe to say that you two are likely considered exclusively dating (which he might also assumes) kung dili pman gani gyud mo uyab.

Naa diay ingun ani nga arrangement? Ngilngig pa man ni sa humba nga gi-ref hahahaha

[princize]

Inamigo nga tambag, ma'am. Palihug, be honest about how you feel with the situation. Ayaw huwata nga macomplicate pa ang situation between ninyung duha. Kay kung dili man gani ikaw ang masakitan kamo jud duha ang ma-shakoy.

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Naa diay ingun ani nga arrangement? Ngilngig pa man ni sa humba nga gi-ref hahahaha

yes.. naay dghan dating customs.. lol Nganong ngilngig man? hihi

[handsoff241]

I have none of the slightest idea nga naay mga individuals who are okay with that arrangement, I guess the world changed. Ngilngig kay wala ko maanad hahaha