your past to be your friend

[carbrill]

I know naay chance nga ang imo ex ma himo nmo ug amiga or amigo.

ang ako kay more than a year ( almost 2 years na) nami ga buwag unya magkita mi sa city not that often pero kung mga kita mi makakita ko sa iyang reaction nga nahan mo tagad nga makiwaw cya. unya ako nahan unta ko mo tagad pero mag dali dali man dayon cya once maka realised cya nga nakabantay ko nya.

kay naa toy time nga ako padng sa simbahan unya cya gikan sa isa ka store near sa simbahan ga shade man ko so ga too cya wa ko kakita nya pero nakakita ko sa iyang reaction nga ning smile nako nga nahan matagad pero naa man koy katabi sa fone adto wa nako cya natagad.

unya na sundan pa jud ni after a week gakita na pd mi sa city gitagad jud ko nya pero naa na sad ko sa fone so wa kaau ko katagad pero kakita ko sa iyang face nga murag nahan cya makig tabi pero feel lang nako nga di cya kbaw unsa on pag tagad nako.. nahilaw iya face nga murag naka ingon cya sa iyang mind sus ning tagad na pd ko. lol

cya nakig buwag nako sauna pero karon okay na man ko ako na nadawat nga wa na jud mi. i moved on already and I am happy kung asa nako rn.

what do you think guys? unsa pasabot ani nya? should i do the 1st move or di na lng jud nako suwayan nga mag amiga mi balik...

[2nderemperror]

wa mn cguroy problema ana nga mag amiga mo kung naka moved on na jud ka kay unsa may kahadlokan nimo magka-amiga mo balik if naka moved on na jud ka? unless nalang kung nabalik iyang feelings nimo ug ikaw kay naay balak nga mopaasa nya, aw kana.. ayaw nalang jud -_-)

[dozen]

boss, nice topic. on your situation my advice would be to ask yourself if you are ready to be friends with your ex, what i am getting at is, make sure there are no more hard or any feelings that still lingers in you. if you are confident na wala na, then make the move to ask her as a friend to hang out and catch up on other aspects of her life.. mangumusta sa family, work, except mga sensitive topics such as relationships, lovelife.

when you have the chance to speak to her, try to notice if on her part wala ba sya maglisod ug open up balik sa imo. my point here is both of you has to be ready, not just you, not just her. it may take some time to move on for different people, some may take weeks, some months or even years, the important thing is both of you are ready.

when the time comes that both of you are ready, your conversation and the rest of the moments would unfold and come naturally.

its natural that both would have some hesitations at first, syempre involved gud ang feelings, dili man gud ana kadali magmove on samot na lalum na kaau nga feelings.

let us see what happens boss. pm lang if need pa ka advice.

[larisse]

it is possible nga ma-friends with the ex, unless naay mga unresolved issues (in your case, i think wala ra man guro ) - but naa jud guro nay awkwardness sa mga first few times.

sakto si @dozen,

when the time comes that both of you are ready, your conversation and the rest of the moments would unfold and come naturally.

merry christmas ts

[slabs17]

nig ma-amiga nimo nag balik ts unya mawagtang na ang awkwardness matud pang @larisse aw round two napud

[RedLips]

Nindot man jud nah friends sa mga ex, there will be a benefit later... hahaha

[beyee]

Happy for you bail that you're now okay
Can still remember your previous threads about
your struggle after the break-up.

As for your question, you can be friends guaranteed
that you have finally moved on -- nothing can affect
you anymore concerning her

God bless bai

[RedLips]

Ang naka bati pud if friends sa ex kay naay mga possibility bah maka samok sa current... mag selos hinoon if ma hibaw-an, labi nah if naay trust issues already with the current... awts!

[Ghadz]

ok ra ko kung makigfriend akong ex ang problema kung makigfriend ba kaha siya nako.

[carbrill]

boss, nice topic. on your situation my advice would be to ask yourself if you are ready to be friends with your ex, what i am getting at is, make sure there are no more hard or any feelings that still lingers in you. if you are confident na wala na, then make the move to ask her as a friend to hang out and catch up on other aspects of her life.. mangumusta sa family, work, except mga sensitive topics such as relationships, lovelife.

when you have the chance to speak to her, try to notice if on her part wala ba sya maglisod ug open up balik sa imo. my point here is both of you has to be ready, not just you, not just her. it may take some time to move on for different people, some may take weeks, some months or even years, the important thing is both of you are ready.

when the time comes that both of you are ready, your conversation and the rest of the moments would unfold and come naturally.

its natural that both would have some hesitations at first, syempre involved gud ang feelings, dili man gud ana kadali magmove on samot na lalum na kaau nga feelings.

let us see what happens boss. pm lang if need pa ka advice.

Thank you sa advice pero para sad nako cya una nakig buwag nako unya cya ning cut off sa line of communication, sorry if bati ako attitude towards this, para nako cya unta una mo communicate nako kay cya'y una ning guba sa communication. (Childish ra kaau ang ako reason lol)

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Happy for you bail that you're now okay
Can still remember your previous threads about
your struggle after the break-up.

As for your question, you can be friends guaranteed
that you have finally moved on -- nothing can affect
you anymore concerning her

God bless bai

Thank you dokkie, ang istorya ra jud ang akong out let adto hahaha... It took me a long time to cope up with the situation specially those days bag o pa ko dnhi.

I am ready to become her friend but I don't know with her... so my line is open to accommodate her.