For your children's sake agwantaha nlang brad kay naa nman na.balik lang banda banda para naa kay lain outlet.
For your children's sake agwantaha nlang brad kay naa nman na.balik lang banda banda para naa kay lain outlet.
Yeesh, you're a whiny one! Considering all the other b.s. other husbands go through with their wives, you're pretty lucky!
What I'm getting is you want your wife to be more expressive. Well guess what, she probably is but she's just the submissive type. I hate to do this but you might learn something by reading that 50 Shades of Grey book.
You need to man up, man. Step up your game a bit and dominate the relationship.
@silahis
Thanks man.. I tried to get rid of her but need to go back and tell her how I feel all over again..(for a thousand times)..
Dili lng gyud ko cguro kapahungaw sa tanan kung permi pa gihpon mi mgkita.. Need some space for awhile..
I don;t know if dghan ba pud tawo preha nko ug batasan but I think nindot mn sd ang feeling nga dili ka magpa pretend.. Usahay gni maghuna2 nlng ko ngano gitagaan mn ko ug ingani nga mindset nga medyo rude mn para sa uban.. Pero sa gawas sa Phil mura na nuon ug ang mga tawo didto nga naay atleast kapareha nko ug mentality mura mn nuon ug much appreciated..
Anyway, I think mas effective cguro imo approach to this type of personality nga i-accept nlng gyud iya kinaiya... bacin pa diay madawat ra pud niya puhon akoang kinaiya..
I also believed nga walay instant kausaban nga mahitabo or instant resulta..mao I need to spent some time cguro pra hinay2 mga mausab ang ingana nga klase nga mentality..
For those niingon nga dawaton nlng totally, dili gyud ko..sorry kaau.. dwaton lng sa nko sa pagkakron but honestly speaking, if ngadto2 if dili gihapon cya mausab, by pride na cguro ni akoa pero ni promise gyud ko sa ako kaugalingon nga dili ko mag-usab,.. I really need this kind of thoughts to fight the realities in life...
moagi jud tanan relationship guro ug ingon ani. Hinumdumi lang ang reason why you fell for her in the first place.
cultural differences.
diri sa ato, miskan di na mada pugson gihapon sa pagka ngan nga 'kumpleto' pa kunohay... ibutang pa ang mga anak as leverage aning klase sa mindset. really now. masokista ni sila? if it's meant to break, eventually it will. maypa icondisyon ang mga anak kysa muabot sa punto nga makalitan lng. changes are inevitable, but i think it's normal because pain is meant to be felt. once the dust has settled down, ma ok nman guro na.
pwede man na pasabton ang mga bata ba...
this is what i love sa liberated nga pang.huna2, mas open sila.
i've heard, read & watched stories nga miskan separated na ang partners... in good terms japon sila and still support their kids in their own ways. so, why can't we?
akong makita nila is that they really aim for personal happiness, as long as wala silay maskitan... go sila for it.
Last edited by silahis; 12-19-2014 at 05:24 AM.
hahaha Brod...basin sobrahan ra sad ka kasensitive...nya basin imong wife ni understand or nirespect nimo pag ayo or gusto niya nga dili siya nahan ug gubot...pero ikaw nakita nimo tanan,,mura ug nahulog nga perfectionist ka ba...mao nga pag date daw mo always,,,basin mabalik pa ang inyong chemical romance.....ayaw lang sa na imong mga laing plano pag plano mo sa imong wife nga kamo lang duha mag langyaw ba.....
ts try to attend a mirage counseling session for sure both of you will learn from them. try lang basin pa d.i?
cguro,..pero dili mn cguro negative ang pgka perfectionist ky kita tanan masayop mn gyud... mao atleast perfect gyud imo permi huna2on ky kung masayop dili dghan..
I have lots of plans..like dating, bsta palain pud.. I loved to see her being happy with me.., pero dili mn pud gud ko malipay if ako nlng ang permi construct ug plans sa ako wife ky igo ra pud lagi mo OK..
Mo suggest mn cya ug ingana like suroy2 or date2 pero she never pursuing it.
I think she's stuck with this: "I would rather be hated for who I am, than loved for what I'm not"..
I think this is right perceptions in life, but everything is changing from time to time.. everything is evolving, technology, buildings, human race etc.. so I think this thoughts doesn't count at all. This doesn't apply to everything..
Its like saying "Mag-unsa mnang gwapa unya bati ug batasan..".. so dili nlng ka magpagwapa pra dili mo bati imo batasan? You can do everything in life that would help yourself and other people to progress..and that is how I see it..helping one another..
Besides, people can't see something great or apply better ways to their lives because they won't try to experience it.. if naay opportunity or tawo nga mo-explain or mohatag ug ideas, moingon ra pud dayun ug "dili ko ganahan"..
If I'll go with that mindset, then what's next in the future? Mao na uban diha pride or hambog nlng ang nbilin ky wa mn gani ka evaluate kung unsa naba cla after 5,10 or 20 yrs dire sa kalibutan.. mao ra gyud gihpon..tuyok2 ra.. igo ra mn maminaw, dili mo analyze giunsa or unsaon pra mkatabang pud unta kung naa mn gni sayop..
Aw TS, ig magkabulag man jud gani mo siguraduha na ang imuha pilion na partner sunod kana sige supak nimo. Kana thrilling jud na. Lol
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