quick question sa mga girls of istorya :)

[flublu]

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ive found my girl already. college mi rhun. it has been 5years ming ga uyab. we've experiencd a lot of fights and shed a lot of tears. but at the end of the the day we love each other. we've learned that sa tanang away, never ever gyud na apilon ang "LOVE" para dili mi mka huna2 ug dautan. but now, as we all know about college, nothing is easy. magkalisud and magka kapuy ang college. especially nga iyang ge kuha kai pwerteng kapuya, with a lot of deadlines to be met. so karun, nga wa na mi commu, i texted her that i miss her. BUT, natinga ko ingun siya lets stop this. kai kapuy and daghan nag atimanon sa college. i respect her decision and her life. but one thing she told me, nga mka libug is "reserved na daw ko niya" cool off lng sa i rhun. cut sa tanan. but love pa ko niya and love pd nku sya. pero dghan lng gyud ug huna2.on. ako, dili gyud ko gusto ani, kai i know naay solusyon aning problemaha. pero cge nlang i trust her. the question is, ngnung dapat mn jd cool off girls? and unsai pasabot anang love pa ninyu ang laki "reserve" na sa future ang laki? wa ko kasabot guhd kai para nku kng love jd ninyu ang laki d gyud ta na mag cool off dba? or naa koi wa masabtan ninyu. hehe. hope mka tubag mus akng pangutana.

bahalag bayot ko paminawn, basta kai love ko ning bayhana. ganahan lng ko mkasabot sa iyang desisyon maynlang ni keysa mag balhin2 ug babae. may nang kuntento tag usa rjud. hahaha no offense

[femchien]

maybe because di sya gusto maapektohan inyong studies .. di sya gusto maguba inyong future ..

when the time comes nga di na sya busy , balikan raka niya .. it doesn't mean makigbuwag najud sya kay ingon man siya nga love paka niya .. Time-out lang sa siguro para maka focus mo sa inyong studies ..

[michtiza]

She wants to focus on her studies, I know its not an excuse but some find it hard to give time on two things.
Maybe she's concerned of you as well. She wants you to succeed as well on your path.
I mean college life is a tough stage and you need to have commitment to it. maybe she doesnt want to commit between the two. If you really love her, you need to respect her decision and wait for her to comeback if your patient enough
keep loving her, dont stop supporting her even if theres a cool off given

[flublu]

salamat sa inyung mga tubag d mn gyud ko gusto mu giv up pgyud. ako lng is wa lng jd ko kasabot ngnu nka huna2 sya aning mag undang mi. haha. pero if sa future assured mn ghapon ko. then i wont stop supporting her. padad.an lng nkug flowers iyang klase arun d kayu sya stress hahaha

[brilumz]

--just want to inquire some insights from you ladies who are matured enough to address my humble concern-- id been wondering what's best move to sooth a girls feeling, trying to understand her wills,making every move just to make her pleased by seems nothing on avail..though we count on the happy moments together, but there are times that girls are sometimes hard to understand and tending to be crappy..is that a nature of full-grown-woman or its just part of growing up?... where you're too moody on any simple arguments, things and situation..why it takes to the point sometimes you want to blow it off..? are you really hard to understand or there's just something you want but we missed? tell me how to understand a ladies' mindset....more on emotional but less in logical aspect? i don't think so but it may vary..

wanna shed some light? appreciate your thoughts though..

[Little_Mermaid88]

--just want to inquire some insights from you ladies who are matured enough to address my humble concern-- id been wondering what's best move to sooth a girls feeling, trying to understand her wills,making every move just to make her pleased by seems nothing on avail..though we count on the happy moments together, but there are times that girls are sometimes hard to understand and tending to be crappy..is that a nature of full-grown-woman or its just part of growing up?... where you're too moody on any simple arguments, things and situation..why it takes to the point sometimes you want to blow it off..? are you really hard to understand or there's just something you want but we missed? tell me how to understand a ladies' mindset....more on emotional but less in logical aspect? i don't think so but it may vary..

wanna shed some light? appreciate your thoughts though..

you'd never know what makes a girl tick. every girl is different. if we are easy to understand, then we wouldn't be "girls". my advice? talk to your girl since she would be the best person to make you understand what she's feeling and what she wants.

[flublu]

every girl lng gyud is different in some ways. but more or less the same. kng sad or sapoton imung girl ana nga day. basig naay something nga nag bother niya or sugod nsad nang pus.on haha. one thing ive learned sa akong babae is kng saputon na gae na sya, talk to each other and make her feel comfy lng gyud. bhalag wa ka kasabot, try to make her happy and listen pd. it works for me, maybe it would for you too

back to my concern @Little_Mermaid88. unsa mai ma sulti nimus akong concern? hehehe

[Little_Mermaid88]

@flublu

im agreeing with the two ladies who first commented on your thread. your girl wants to focus on her studies. though i'm not that sure about the "reserved" part. you're still young, and so is she. daghan pa kaayo mo ma-agi-an for her to be sure nga ikaw najud. the only thing i could say is respect her decision and try not to dwell on it.

[emailroy2002]

TS ayaw og ambak sa I2 tower..

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

TS ayaw og ambak sa I2 tower..

TS, sakto jud ni iyang tambag...uso raba ni karun dah, ambot aning gugma bah, mura mn og wala nay babaye or lalaki nga naglaroy laroy sa cebu....makadaot na ang gugma sa skuling.....