Back To You..

[thisbe.ara]

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@psyche_08: give yourself time to see if he really deserves it.. focus on something else first..like friendship, for instance..it pays to look at that person in another point of view..

@darkevilunicorn: hehe..witness ka? ka twisted ba imo smileys.. kinsha ka woi? hehe

[darkevilunicorn]

@thisbe: Yeah. Talk about change, I dont think he's even trying to change. What people happen to know about him is that HE ACTS WHO HE IS AND WHAT HE IS, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT... he never even tried asking me if I'm ok with it. I really dont know but that's just the way he is... stubborn... *smiles* that's what I miss in him also - his being stubborn.And I agree in taking the second change "IF" he truly deserves that.

so what you think??does he deserve the second chance, that second try

[darkevilunicorn]

@darkevilunicorn: hehe..witness ka? ka twisted ba imo smileys.. kinsha ka woi? hehe

What i'm saying is, you are a living example on this issue.......giving second chance to your ex..................

disregard my smileys......thats me!!!!!

[thisbe.ara]

OT: sure... i thought kaila ka namo ni crashy..

naa lang jud ni song nga nindut para ani nga thread:

shame on you if you fool me once..
shame on me if you fool me twice..

hehe.. pwede nimo tagaan 2nd chance imo ex if you love him still or accepted na nimo cya, pero ayaw na jud pailad usab.hehe

[darkevilunicorn]

@thisbe.ara.............that is the spirit girl!!!!!!

@psyche.........sa naman.......enlighthen ?

[psyche_08]

OT: for a while, i still got back from lunch . im going to answer that.

[psyche_08]

Once you know the negative side of the person, that is where you start deciding whether to pursue or to put an end to your feelings for the person

more often than not, kung love nimo ang person.......pursue gyud na...pero dapat unta----gi timbang timbang pag-ayo kung willing ba ang heart sa tanang posibling mahitabo...considering sa negative things nga nakita niya sa person....Pero it still boils down to LOVE!!!!

Ako personally, knowing the negative side of my partner i will continue to risk and gamble my emotions provided nga mas stronger ako feelings kay sa ako fear!!!!In fact sa pagkakaron i see no fear at 'ol......mao lagi kay kung ako pasultihon LOVE man nko ako baby!!!!sigh*

@darkevilunicorn: I have decided to put an end to it for a while. Time... I need it (thougg I already got a lot of it). I feel something for him but I'm not sure if it's love... wait I am definite that it is not love. Knowing hi negative side... well, it depends on the person on what negative traits one has but with him... I dont think it's tolerable. I forgave him but the risk is too high or maybe I just need some more time. I'm not puting an end to what I've "yet".

Now, i'm asking you---how far can you go holding on with your feelings for the person and what are your basis for putting an end to it??

How far? hmmm... Whenever I find out that this feelings is more than what I think it is, RISK will not be a hindrance for it. As for the basis, knowing him more than anyone. That would make me put an end to it.

[psyche_08]

tinuod jud na love moves in mysterious ways..
i am now back with my very first boyfriend.. we haven't seen each other for almost 7 years..
i don't know how it happened since we never planned anything..
but now we're back together again..
we have grown so much from the first time nga kami pa.. lahi jud.
it's just that, if you still love a person, ex or no ex.. then let it flow. don't go pretending that there are no feelings if there is..
going back to the ex is love that is acceptance of the past--- as in whatever happened..if kaya na nimo, and love pa nimo, then go ahead.

*smiles* It's really different when both of you have grown up and find each other again. That is really LOVE THE SECOND TIME AROUND. *smiles*

[psyche_08]

@psyche_08: give yourself time to see if he really deserves it.. focus on something else first..like friendship, for instance..it pays to look at that person in another point of view

Yeah, some time... alone. Thanks.

so what you think??does he deserve the second chance, that second try

For now, I wouldn't say no... but who knows in time.

[psyche_08]

Shame on you if you fooled me once...

Shame on me if you fooled my twice... (better not to have TWICE hehehe)


right about that girl.