Signs that the relationship is destined to fail

[jinkazama92]

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Hello istoryans.

Ganahan ko makahibaw, kung naa ba moy na realize nga signs that she or he is not the one No matter pila namu ka years sa inyong relationship?

[Unlicensed Dreamer]

you dont see her in ur future dreams

[quirkychinita]

Para nako? If wala jud mo'y progress after mga 1-2 years

And coming from experience from me, BFF"s and family members, if muabot nag 3 years and no signs na napakita na naay plan makasal, well..... My dad calls it the THREE YEAR ITCH.

And wala jud mo'y commitment....

Wala gi-value or gi respeto ang partner or his/her very important family member bisan wala sila'y gibuhat na dautan.

Or is he/she cheats or if he/she doesnt trust you at all.

and if gakadugay, gakawala ang lambing, kilig or that familiar spark you felt atung crush pa nimu sya or atung bag-o pa mu.

and if sige ra mog away...... if dili kaayo mo magkasinabot sa mga butang.

And if you have less happy days and more sad/dissapointing days with him/her.


and if you can't see your future in her/him....


Nganung padugayun ang relationship if wa na ganahi? Why look for the signs that are obviously there? I don't believe in second chances depending on the gravity sa sala. And nganung mu stay ka sa taw na ikaw ang sigeg kahasol? And there is no such thing such as makisama bisan dili ka comfortable bisag unsaon nimug adjust, kay bisag unsaon ug bali bali sa kalibutan, if mu stay ka sa taw na forever ka gaadjust, dili ka malipay ana.


did I say too much? hehehehe!



P.S.


Im currently happy! I never regret where I came from and what I've been through!

[vahnhelsing]

maayong gabie sa tigpasiugda ning kutay.

Sa pagsugod pa lamang sa usa ka pakighilambigit kun namungingi na kini sa mangil-ad nga
butang nga mahimong mokaylap ngadto sa pundasyon sa pagminahalay, dako ang purohan nga
kini malusno ra sa kaulahian. Unsa kining mga butanga? Dili pag-tug-an sa kamatooran sa matag
usa. Ang pagtago ug kinaadman, kaagi ug suliran ngadto sa kapikas makamugna ug kagabok.
Dako usab ug purohan nga mapakayas kun wala gipanglantaw ang ugma kuyog sa kapikas.
Dili mo magkasinabtanay sa mga butang-butang nga may kahilambigitan kaninyong duruha, pamilya,
pagtoo ug uban pa apan sa kama dali ra magkatukma ang pangutok.

Daghan pang timailhan, apan dako akong pagtoo nga ang pakighilambigit nga naangkon ug
namugna sa pamaagi nga dinalian ug hiwi dako ang purohan nga mahanaw ra kini.
Dili tanan apan kasagaran.

[quirkychinita]

pero TS, I personally dont believe in destiny, but I do believe na my reaction to every situation itself ang mahimung resulta sa mahitabo nako in the future.

so, fix things before it gets TOO broken.

Do not exert TOO MUCH effort.... Trying too hard doesnt help at all. Just keep it natural, you want to live a life with the one you love without faking things just to be happy or at peace. And you wanna live with somebody forever who would never mind kung unsa ka, kinsa ka or unsa ka OA imung reaction. That's why I never wanna change the man I love. Kay Im sooooo comfortable living with his quirks and habits, his inner and outer monsters and stuff that not all people are comfortable with. If ever ma stress man gani ko, I always make bawi man pud.

And try the casual check. Like ask if you have changed ba or is there something na wa sya ganahi nimu.

Take responsibility. Everything is your fault, so never put the blame on him/her. A situation is just a result of your reation.

[jinkazama92]

maayong gabie sa tigpasiugda ning kutay.

Sa pagsugod pa lamang sa usa ka pakighilambigit kun namungingi na kini sa mangil-ad nga
butang nga mahimong mokaylap ngadto sa pundasyon sa pagminahalay, dako ang purohan nga
kini malusno ra sa kaulahian. Unsa kining mga butanga? Dili pag-tug-an sa kamatooran sa matag
usa. Ang pagtago ug kinaadman, kaagi ug suliran ngadto sa kapikas makamugna ug kagabok.
Dako usab ug purohan nga mapakayas kun wala gipanglantaw ang ugma kuyog sa kapikas.
Dili mo magkasinabtanay sa mga butang-butang nga may kahilambigitan kaninyong duruha, pamilya,
pagtoo ug uban pa apan sa kama dali ra magkatukma ang pangutok.

Daghan pang timailhan, apan dako akong pagtoo nga ang pakighilambigit nga naangkon ug
namugna sa pamaagi nga dinalian ug hiwi dako ang purohan nga mahanaw ra kini.
Dili tanan apan kasagaran.

Bai lawn kaayu emung bisaya. Ga nose bleed ko

pero TS, I personally dont believe in destiny, but I do believe na my reaction to every situation itself ang mahimung resulta sa mahitabo nako in the future.

so, fix things before it gets TOO broken.

Do not exert TOO MUCH effort.... Trying too hard doesnt help at all. Just keep it natural, you want to live a life with the one you love without faking things just to be happy or at peace. And you wanna live with somebody forever who would never mind kung unsa ka, kinsa ka or unsa ka OA imung reaction. That's why I never wanna change the man I love. Kay Im sooooo comfortable living with his quirks and habits, his inner and outer monsters and stuff that not all people are comfortable with. If ever ma stress man gani ko, I always make bawi man pud.

And try the casual check. Like ask if you have changed ba or is there something na wa sya ganahi nimu.

Take responsibility. Everything is your fault, so never put the blame on him/her. A situation is just a result of your reation.

Thanks ayu sa inyong pag share :O

[Kristiano]

kung wala nay budget... joke.. bitaw, both of you should have the same goals or do meet your expectations in each other or in life...or at least the same path... dili gani mag-abot sa usag-usa, mao nang magstart na ang relationship to crumble..

[brian joshua]

kung di na ma utgan mao gyud nay klaro nga rason.

[kageron]

kanang ang reply sa txt kay

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[sushikandi]

If all you do is bang each other to be in the relationship. There is no connection, nothing sensible to talk about and doesnt talk about the future. Also when your close friends and family shows no support in the relationship coz they are the one who can see what you cant because you are blinded. You'll know when the relationship is bound to fail, dont waste time saying "sayang ang time" mas sayang ang time nag stick ka when you are not happy and there is emptiness. Youll also know that the person is not the one for you when you always find something lacking in her/him. Good luck! Dont be in a hurry!