we all get matured by making mistakes and learning from it. It does not matter as to how many mistakes we've made, the most important thing is how stand up, recovering from it and moving on. The role of the family is to guide us whether we made the right decision or not, even so, it's still up to us to decide. So, ayaw lng mu kaulaw sa pamilya cause no matter what, we always cling to them for support, love and guidance. Natural ra na nga muingon sila nga "I told you so". They're saying this not to blame you for what you've done or for what had happened because im sure, naagian na sad ni nila or naagian na nila to commit mistakes before. So, carry lng gud.
Learn from your mistakes, plan ahead and move on.