
CONFESSION
Yesterday at confession, I have noticed that most of us were young men -- most of them still in their college uniforms. There were 12 of us -- 10 were men and 2 were women (also college). It's just heartening to see that young people, men especially, has taken this sacrament seriously, and take part in this sacrament without being told!
From personal experience, it is only this time that I have appreciated the value of confession. I sneak into the confessional from time to time -- sometimes for an anonymous chat about questions in life with the priest, asking for advice, and of course, for absolution. The longest confession I had lasted for 30 minutes, last year! That was 6 years since my last confession. Good thing there was another priest on the next confessional who can assist other penitents. Got a lot of questions -- I'm just thankful that the priest was very patient with me.
Anyway, I would like to share the
benefits of regular confession from my own experience:
Self-Knowledge is Increased. -- We became conscious and reflective of everything we do. We also become mindful of the proper thinking and behavior, and mindful of the proper relationship we had on God and others.
Bad Habits are Corrected. -- Well, I stuggle with some bad habits and I think confession helps me to go forward no matter how imperfect I am with my promises.
Conscience is Purified. -- By the grace of God we attain peace of mind since we are comforted by the fact that our sins have been forgiven.
The Will is Strengthened. -- As our self awareness increases towards doing what is good, we have more control of our actions. We become aware that not everything we want is pleasing to the Lord.
Salutary Self-Control is Attained. -- While self control is not perfect, we become more mindful of our actions and more resistant to temptations.
We Become More Sinless. -- God gives us the chance to start again, and we are responsible to lkeep clean this new garment that he has given us.
We Become More Submissive to the Holy Spirit. Naming and admitting our sins require much much humility. The sense of shame we feel when we reflect on our sins and tell them to the priest to ask Jesus' for forgiveness is indeed a humbling experience. I could say that I have struggled with this one, and has the tendency to package sins in nice little packages. But nothing beat calling sin by its proper name and asking pardon for it.