"ITS COMPLICATED" scenario...

[Passport]

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no disrespect TS ha, but i'm pretty sure you know what to do.. you should follow what your conscience suggests.
i believe you already know the difference between right and wrong.
so stop whatever you're doing that isn't right for you before it's TOO LATE.

Unless you think fooling behind your wife's back, and your "special friend's" BF is good for you then that's another story..
IMAGINE how you would feel if you were in their place...or someone you love might experience the same thing.. sister? your daughter perhaps? or imung brother? or your parents..

Just because some things make us feel good, it doesn't make them right..

just curious though, how is marrying someone you don't love became a Logical act?
considering age and family pressure as your basis?

It is simply fallacious to conclude that marriage is borne out of true deep passionate love always..

Logic? hmmmmm

[Rakizta]

lucky ka ts nga naa bf imo ex nya still she is intimate with you but before your wife will be aware about it you have to act before its too late and youll end up with nothing

[Passport]

lucky ka ts nga naa bf imo ex nya still she is intimate with you but before your wife will be aware about it you have to act before its too late and youll end up with nothing

aw, lucky man diay si ts...

ka swerte....

[hobie]

Im excited to know what will happen if the wife of TS will do the same.

Like TS, I also believe in the saying that you only live once.
Thats why, I say, Life is short, sin a little.
Break the rules! ( i did a lot before)

But somehow, its been my mantra also, ( what is mantra again?)
And I've been living with this rule since high school, together with my belief above.

"Do not do unto others what you do not want others will do unto you"

Mao rana ako ma sulti, try to piece it together.

[noy]

It is simply fallacious to conclude that marriage is borne out of true deep passionate love always..

Logic? hmmmmm

it's not that i'm concluding anything though
but the point i was trying to make is that one has the option to NOT marry if wala man diay gani nahigugma diba?
don't you think that is the most Logical thing to do under normal circumstances.
kaysa mag minyo unya kung masayop, muingun dayun nga wa man gud ko nahigugma sa akong asawa...tuwengwengweng

considering what the TS said, that he only married his wife daw because his family was pressuring him and that it was the logical thing to do given his age pud...hence i asked if asay naka logical ana nga part?

[Passport]

it's not that i'm concluding anything though
but the point i was trying to make is that one has the option to NOT marry if wala man diay gani nahigugma diba?
don't you think that is the most Logical thing to do under normal circumstances.
kaysa mag minyo unya kung masayop, muingun dayun nga wa man gud ko nahigugma sa akong asawa...tuwengwengweng

considering what the TS said, that he only married his wife daw because his family was pressuring him and that it was the logical thing to do given his age pud...hence i asked if asay naka logical ana nga part?

you are indeed correct... that one has the option..

BUT.. reality is a lot more than options..

you have to be there to really have a modicum of understanding of the "realities" I am talking about.. and possibly.. about what the ts meant here..

lisod i explain diri Noy... pero, yes. sakto pud ka.

[BoholCentral]

complicated jud... pro pwede pa man ni ma sakto.. kay dli na jud na sakto...

[Decoy888]

@noy: i come from a traditional chinese fam... Love isnt on the top of list, its family acceptance and good fung-sui... But i do love my wife, its just were worlds apart in interests, hobbies n likes... My friend is also 100% chinese and from a respectable fam.. Its just were not on the same level of playing field...
@Passport: thanks for the read!
@spartan: youre right but i do have an ace... I just dont know if my friend will stay "for better or worse"...

[noy]

you are indeed correct... that one has the option..

BUT.. reality is a lot more than options..

you have to be there to really have a modicum of understanding of the "realities" I am talking about.. and possibly.. about what the ts meant here..

lisod i explain diri Noy... pero, yes. sakto pud ka.

mao bitaw ni ingun ko ni TS, nga no intentions to disrespect him 'cause for sure daghan jud details nga wa niya nabutang diri sa thread...
and most of all, i do not know him personally

however my comments were just based on the given datas as far as information about the situation is concerned...
don't get me wrong bai ha, i am not judging the TS, no one has the right to do so

but this is also a reality, we are suppose to know the differences between right and wrong..
and we have to make choices
regardless of what we are going through.. Yes we make mistakes, like marrying someone we don't love...
but we certainly cannot use that as an escape goat for fooling around..
it is the sad truth of "cause and effect" we cannot right what is wrong by doing another wrongful act..
that's just adding insult to injury..

as a person who have made a LOT of mistakes in my life and even still suffering from their effects till this very day
i understand where the TS is coming from in a way
i may not have enganged myself in a similar case with the TS
but i certainly have gone through situations which involves decisions between doing what is painful yet right
from pleasurable but wrong..

that doesn't make me an expert of course(far from it) but just saying...like i said in my first post,
i believe the TS knows what to do, he's just waiting for a number of confirmations...you know a Push perhaps..
this is basically what i am trying to do.

[Vanillaskies]

Your big enough to know what's right or wrong. Pray and ask God for right decisions.