Importante ba jud nang magpakasal?

[gotnowheels]

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I hope not to offend anyone, but I'm not referring to church marriage. I'm an atheist.

[vahnhelsing]

then have a civil wedding..

[beyee]

then have a civil wedding..

He's not even into marriage vanski hehehe

[phattchoi]

civil lng gud. it doesnt matter kung big time na kaau inyu kasal. its like graduation TS. mu paso gyud ta oi kay dili biya lalim mu gradwar.

[silent-kill]

I hope not to offend anyone, but I'm not referring to church marriage. I'm an atheist.

parihas rata TS, somewhat atheist/agnostic. pro naka realize ko nga kong naai gusto magpa kasal nako di na mo matter kong asa sa simbahan or sa civil wedding. I'm just gonna do it for her, kong ingon ana jud ka important niya.

at the end of the day imong promise toa man sa imong pakaslan, dili man sa iyang pamilya or sa iyang "ginoo".

mas maau basin ad2 mo judge then, garden2x wedding lang mo kong di jud ka gusto sa simbahan or pari mo kasal nimo.

[vahnhelsing]

He's not even into marriage vanski hehehe

aw wa tay mahims ana... iyaha sad na.


puyo-puyo lang diay imoha bro? hatagi sad ug bili ang pagbati sa imong hinugugma.
Kun alang nimo walay igong gibug-aton ang matrimonya, ayaw lang usab igsapayan
ang kalipay sa imong kapikas ug sa inyong mga anak. Bisan tood papel lang ang
kaminyoon apan alang sa kadaghanan usa kini ka timailhan ug panumpa sa pag inunongay.
Hinoon lisod gyud ni sabton. Hilabi na ug piyongon nato atong mata sa kamatooran.

[gotnowheels]

I gave my promise to her, it's just not written in paper. It's already written all inside me, and I think that's the most important of all. Dili na maoy sukdanan kung unsa nimo ka higugma imong ka pares. Siguro mag minyo mi if tiguwang na jud mi, that means that we have passed all the test time can give us, and in the end we are still together. I cannot prove that by now, but I know deep inside nga pinangga jud nako akong ka pares. One thing I know for sure, I cannot live without her.

[beyee]

Bro have you asked your partner how she feels about the whole thing?

[gotnowheels]

We argued about this actually. I've told her that it's not that I don't want to get married, it's just that there are lot of things to be taken care first, before we can get married. I even planned to propose to her inside her office. LOL (char kaayo ba). Right now, there are things that needs to be taken care off, so getting married is the last on my list.

[beyee]

I believe in gender equality but in this case bro, looy ang babae in this department.
Dili tanan higayon ang imo ra gusto matuman. Relationships sans the marriage is
still a partnership ~ each sides should have a say in whatever this issue is. Don't
make her wait too long or else, your partner and your daughter will no longer be
around once you're ready to take the plunge.

Mapol-an ra pod ang tawo bisag unsa pa ka pasensyosa pa siya.