Long Distance Relationships

[Soul_Captive]

so far sa amo status karon sa ako yabs, ok ra mn. daghan pd naagian na probs pero nadala ra... smooth ra amo rel karon. more than a year nami wala ngkita though naa ra xa sa manila. hheheheheh

but it's all worth it mn ghapon. basta naa lng jd ang love, respect, faith and trust, mag work mn jd na bah. ug mas importante na both parties is willing to make the rel work... para mas maging happy

kudos sa mga LDR diri na istoryans....

Kudos indeed!

It takes a lot of things to make LDR's work jud, and I think sometimes even love alone can wither after a certain time. Constant communication is a must, and above it all, the willingness/desire to make it work should be present from both sides. Maygani naay modern technologies that make the communication easier these days. We can see our loved ones and talk with them anytime we wish/can. Ang physical part sa togetherness lng ang kuwang.

[Wynna]

karon akong masulti kay " nag libog nako"

my heart says yes but my body says no... ifyouknowwhatimean haha

[sosimple]

i'm not getting any younger for this thingy, and i can't see myself living wherever u r, for now..
convenience is my weakness..call me selfish

[king1]

i have been in a long distance relationship for 2years and 5 months and we're already in our 7th year.i dont know if the "7 year itch" is true but lately we have been arguing on some non sense things.hopefully we could get thru this.

love+trust+understanding+faithfulnes= LDR to work

[gasal]

Long distance relationship, a very harsh 3 words. Most of the people says it's bound to fail. I am lucky I am one of the few whose relationship didn't fail because of LDR. I was away from my girlfriend for 1 year. All it took to workout was TRUST, LOVE and COMMUNICATION.

[yaj.em]

karon akong masulti kay " nag libog nako"

my heart says yes but my body says no... ifyouknowwhatimean haha

When pa ka ng start anang LDR nimo wyn? karon pa lage ko kadungog ana? hehehehhe

[Aphrodite_zil]

Didn't work for me, and apparently ang girl pa jud ang naka kita ug lain.. iyahang ka ofcmate didto...

-For me, if ako mag abroad and lau mi sako bf, diko mangita ug lain. pero naa man gud times na makathink ka if imo bf wa ba kaha sd lain gi ka date while wala ka.. mao na ang girls uban mag una una nalang ug pangita ug lain.. kesa cla ang maunhan, cla pa ang masakitan.. ambot lang kaha sa uban.. lain2 man ang situations sd gud..

[Aphrodite_zil]

really, kapoi jud nang mag uyab2.. heheh and labi na magminyo.. ako lang ni opinion ha.. hope wala say mu kuntra.. coz naa tanan.. heartaches, problems, lagi, part na sa relationship.. but sus, kakapoi jud anang butanga!!.. specially if naa kay gusto ipasabot sa imo partner but di gani xa kasabot and maminaw nimo coz naa pod cyay iyahang own decision or unsa pa na diha.. mao na maglalis dayun, walay magpapildi..

Concern kau ka sa imo partner but ikaw pay himoong kontrabida sa iyang life.. This won't work for me, based sq na xperience before hah, long distance amo relationship, but naa jud na involve na 3rd party.. natinga nlng ko na di naxa mutxt and cold na kau.. wala pa niya angkona na naa naxay lain pero nasakpan ra kadugayan.. 1 year ko ga cge hilak almost everyday jud.. di lalim oist!.. that was year 2009 - 2010 september, then ni give up nlng jud ko, wala nako nagparamdam niya, after 1 month, cya napod ga gukod nako hahaha! gikarma, nanguyab lain iyang uyab! didto na xa nkaremember nako ug sa iyang sakit na gipambuhat.. "Nga uyab pa cla, ug magkita pami adto maski i know na uyab cla.. ni take advantage pod cya ato nga time ky love man kau nako cya.."

no regrets ato na time ky nagpakita sd cya effort na mkigbalik.. so nagkakami til last year, gigaan mi ug baby boy.. but then again, di jud malikayan, naa gihapon lalis, away diri, didto.. magpray nlng ka..
for now, wala nako ga put ug much effort samo replationship coz focus na q samo baby.. okey rasad ug di mi mgkadaun heheh.. coz i'm afraid na mgbalikbalik lang ghapon.. kapoi cgeg forgive.. ky once masakpan nimo, sure jud nang lisud na kau ibalik ang trust..
mao na nga mintras mka feel na gani mo na naai manental, ayaw nalng jud ug tuga tuga ug solod ana butanga labi na naa diay kay uyab/ wife.. ky lisod kau e put up ug balik na 100 percent trust jud..
aq ma say sd aning "third party" it's only good at first pero in the end magkaway au.. advice ko lang, na say "NO" para way maguba na relationship..

[catheeyen25]

I'm prone to LDR relationships... hahaha! ngano kaha......why!! karon lang ko ka realize... hehehe

[janelorelyn]

^ same ta most of my ex ang my bf right now LDR jud