What to do if ur GF/BF says its over(breakup)

[gallecabaylon]

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[red kalashnikov kennel]

Long relationships results to over familiarity...the more you make your worlds become more exclusive to both of you...the more, you'll feel like there is nothing new or anything more interesting about what you both have...because you practically have shared almost everything for the past years...but, the thing about long relationships is that, they are not easy to endure and sustain - so, it entails SACRIFICE and PATIENCE...the thing is, if you still love her...fight for each other! But, if fighting for each other no longer makes you both happy...Let go.

Take time to breathe and give yourself time to think and see how it is to live without each other - that way, you won't have regrets over what's out there beyond the relationship that you both have... Anyway, love and fate will find a way to bring you both back together if it's truly meant to be...at least, I believe so!

[spike412]

well said!

Long relationships results to over familiarity...the more you make your worlds become more exclusive to both of you...the more, you'll feel like there is nothing new or anything more interesting about what you both have...because you practically have shared almost everything for the past years...but, the thing about long relationships is that, they are not easy to endure and sustain - so, it entails SACRIFICE and PATIENCE...the thing is, if you still love her...fight for each other! But, if fighting for each other no longer makes you both happy...Let go.

Take time to breathe and give yourself time to think and see how it is to live without each other - that way, you won't have regrets over what's out there beyond the relationship that you both have... Anyway, love and fate will find a way to bring you both back together if it's truly meant to be...at least, I believe so!

[nicka]

may lang untag in-ana usually karon wa namay closure ang relationship.. kanang tinarong jud ba... ang uban ipaagi nalang thru text.... wala nay face to face eh.... basta mao na to... in-ana lang diay na kasayon? siguro sa mga nagduwa ug dili seryoso oo, but how about sa nagtinud-anay?? kaya nga sabi sa kanta eh...'' too much love will kill you'' hehe

[ayki]

wahhhh. taasa oi. i actually read the whole thing.
a few lines stood out to me though that's very inconsistent...

i know i am in love with her til death. i want to make her say "sorry d tka buwagan". i want to know unsaon pagconvince nga dili ko ganahan mubuwag niya bisag kabaw ko okay rako bsag dili kami.

mao ni nakapalibog sa akong utok.
ingon ka nga in love kaayo ka aning bayhana til death.. pero okay ra nimo if dle kamo?

maybe it's time to let go nalang jud. 8 years? that's a long time. i think both of you are still in a relationship because sayangan mo sa time invested.. pero murag ni reach naman mo sa dead end.
try daw to give each other some space para ma lamdagan inyong pang huna2.
see if you still miss each other if wala moy communication sa usag usa. if wala na gani ang feelings, nya okay ra niya mag uyab2 dayon ug lain (like she did last time) then it's not worth it anymore TS. don't feel like you are trapped. LET GO.