If your boyfriend or girlfriend nagcheat sa imuha unsaon pagkahibaw?

[giacarsi]

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I want to know if imung uyab nagbinuang nmu? Wa nkui idea if unsaon nku if akong uyab ng binuang sa akoa....

Mahadlok nku if masakpan na nku for the last time akong uyab naai laen gi atiman.. Sauna murag feel nku perfect ayu ang among relationship until kaduha nku sya masakpan thru text n fb.. Magsige syag communicate sa iyang ex and then sa content sa ilang text ky ibalik daw ang kalami na sauna... Pro kahibaw iyang ex na uyab mi.. Pro ako blind rsad ko ug psagdan nku sya ky parehu ming busy sauna until naa koi nabasahan sa mga text msgs ug Fab msgs na di lang iyang ex iyang gpang communicate pati mga sinang unang niyang ex ug mga tawng gusto nya!.... Hilig syag recycle i dunno ngnu ni sya... Soo gihinay2x nkug away tanan iyang gi communicate until katung pinaka love nya na ex ni surrender ug nakigbalik sya nku.. Sa sobra nku ka love nya sooo nakigbalik rsad ko!... Ni promise ko nya if magbinuang sya nku for the last time buwagan ngyud nku sya gihatagan na nku syag last chance total wa man sad nahetabu nya atu nila...


Pro karon akong pangutana if unsaon nku pagkahibaw na nagbinuang pa sya nku di nku mkagunit sa iyang phone ug wa nkui access sa iyang FB....

Need your comments mga istoryans!

[kokoytoyi]

ang pinaka una nga ma notice nimo, if ever nagcheat siya given na na inlove siya atong usa, kay hilaw na siya ug tinagdan nimo. Like wala na kaayo siya interest makig istorya nimo kay iyang attention naa na sa pikas.

butangi ug keylogger iyang laptop para ma access nimo iya FB. kita jud katag ana. hehe

[lmyburan]

if a person is really into you or sa inyo relationship...dapat wala cyay gitago...try to read and observe his or her actions...mailhan ra jud na nimu kay mausab naman jud iya tinagdan sa imuha..pero if you feel nga gibinu-angan naka niya, learn to let go...maybe its just not meant to be...mas maayo sad nga sa sayo pa imu na nahibaw-an iya kalidad....

[simegchel]

so cold nana xa nimu and it's like wa na care..
i know dli man cguro ka insensitive pagkataw mabantayan ra nia na nmu TS

or else just take a break with ur relationship ky basin mag wake up in the morning ra nia ka..

[sammedriano]

Actually, maka feel jud ka ani. One of the main signs according pa nila is: Coldness. Mo cold lang na siya og kalit, then dili na kaayo siya ganahan mag txt2 mo. Or dali na siya sapotun. Best advice is, ayaw padala sa imo gibati, If ganahan sya i let go ka, don't worry, its not yet the end of the world. Dili pa bitaw mo minyu. Let him be. Naa pa daghan lain anha. Naa pa ko

Joke ra bitaw oie. Basta, don't rush things.

[cmmyg]

Eventually you'll find out rjd. Tanan secrets especially kanang mga bati, mo gawas rjd na.

[sammedriano]

Okay ra na oie. Matauhan ra na siya sa iyang ginabuhat kanimo hehe

[kevitzrey]

kung dugay namo sa inyung relasyun! Mabantayan rajud na nmu..

thru FEELINGS, bahalag way ebidensya. ma feel rana nmu..

kanta2 lang pd, JUST GIVE ME A REASON. haha.
pawala ka guol nmu ba!

[kageron]

laki imo uyab TS?

[bluechip_brian]

I want to know if imung uyab nagbinuang nmu? Wa nkui idea if unsaon nku if akong uyab ng binuang sa akoa....

Mahadlok nku if masakpan na nku for the last time akong uyab naai laen gi atiman.. Sauna murag feel nku perfect ayu ang among relationship until kaduha nku sya masakpan thru text n fb.. Magsige syag communicate sa iyang ex and then sa content sa ilang text ky ibalik daw ang kalami na sauna... Pro kahibaw iyang ex na uyab mi.. Pro ako blind rsad ko ug psagdan nku sya ky parehu ming busy sauna until naa koi nabasahan sa mga text msgs ug Fab msgs na di lang iyang ex iyang gpang communicate pati mga sinang unang niyang ex ug mga tawng gusto nya!.... Hilig syag recycle i dunno ngnu ni sya... Soo gihinay2x nkug away tanan iyang gi communicate until katung pinaka love nya na ex ni surrender ug nakigbalik sya nku.. Sa sobra nku ka love nya sooo nakigbalik rsad ko!... Ni promise ko nya if magbinuang sya nku for the last time buwagan ngyud nku sya gihatagan na nku syag last chance total wa man sad nahetabu nya atu nila...


Pro karon akong pangutana if unsaon nku pagkahibaw na nagbinuang pa sya nku di nku mkagunit sa iyang phone ug wa nkui access sa iyang FB....

Need your comments mga istoryans!

I feel your pain. before everything I would like to say na dili gusto I steal ang discussion nimu about sa imu situtation karon bout my confession. Just recently about 5 days ago, nahibaloan nako nag cheat diay akong uyab sakoa last year pa. Nasakpan nako pag kita nako sa pictures niya with another guy sa SD card on one of her cameras. It was shocking never thought that makakita ko ug pics niya with another guy as intimate like what I've seen. After she got home that night I confronted her and ask her why she did it, who is the guy and I tried to play and ask questions really calm and decent. But deep inside I was boiling in anger. Then she told me everything, but still I was still unsure if all of what she said was all true. After all the crying and drama, I still decide to let her stay. It was to early for me to make any solid decision as all I have in my mind was anger towards her and to that person she was with. But I told her that dili na siya mag expect much about us being together. And also told her the reason that I still kept her, because part of me still loves her and care for her. But for the most part of what I feel now is doubt, betrayal and fear. I have been too trusty, never questioning her on anything and loving her without any doubts. Now we are apart, but I still did not break-up with her. I told her I will need space and time to figure out everything. I love her so much that I will really hurt me so bad if I will lose her. That's why I am taking this really slow, before I'll make any decision if I still want to keep her in my life or cut her off. I know it wont heal or disappear easily, but Im slowly taking steps on recovering from this ordeal.

Anyway you don't have to be a genius na mu figure out if imong uyab nag lie/cheat sa imu. You will notice right away sa iya lihok and feel towards you. I was just so damn naive in my part and ignored it when it struck me. If you feel like imung uyab is lying than ask him/her if he/she is. Look into his eyes you see if he's telling the truth.

Also ask him/her for a reason why he/she still communicating with his/her ex's. You should also consider that some ex's communicate as friends as a consolation of their past relationship together, everyone can be friends. But there no need to say intimate words like "ibalik daw ang kalami na sauna" that would be a different story.

I also like what you did na gi away nimu and ex until ni surrender. I mean that is a bold move. I still do believe na if ever naa kay pinaka love na tao you have to fight for him/her and wont give up that easily. I would have done the same if I knew it from the beginning. But unfortunately it wasn't like that for me, I was unaware of the affair imagine a year ago... f***.

There also one thing I would like to add. People including my girlfriend and me make mistakes. If its only a one time thing then it can easily be forgiven. If it happens more of more often then your just plainly stupid. But sometimes love makes you do stupid things, I must say it is really different if your in the shoes of someone who is really in love with someone. I know I do. Bottom line is: It is still up to you. Not from the people giving you advice like most of us here. It is still your feelings, your love, your life, your call.

I know doubtful ka and afraid that he might really cheat on you in the end again. But your still fighting a battle that can be won, imagine if what happened to me will happen to you. How will you react to things. You guys go talk, I mean really talk and fix everything. Ang text ug FB messages na imu nasakpan, I know you can live with it. It's not to late for you to prevent him/her from really cheating and getting out there and on to someone.

Still I'm really not an expert on this, this just how it went on my part.
I wish and hope you both will fix things. peace!