Insecure of my bf's ex-gf!

[sammedriano]

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Salamat sa inyong mga advices Pips. Especially sa mga gentlemen nga ni share sa ilang views/opinions, u made me realize that after sa bati nahitabo namo, he did more than enough to prove his love for me and show me his sincerity. I now appreciate all the things he's done for me .. I will be happier now kay kasabot na jud ko and that it is more important to think my future with him without insecurities sa iyang ex-gf coz otherwise basin mao nuon na reason na ma layo siya nko kay cge ko ug push niya. Thank you ninyo!

very good conclusion ts. you've made the right decision today.

case solved.

[MaInEvEnT]

At the time na iya to gi pili iya ex gf over you kay ni timbang paman gud to nga dugay na bya sila and bag-o pa mo and dli pajud mo klaro pa ato... This is not a perfect world, we all have pasts that we have to deal with and accept. Let go of the past, accept it and move on, stop going back to that.. ka dugaya na ato oi... there are going to be more important things you'll be dealing with sa inyo relationship in the future especially when you two get married. Focus on that instead.

[guess_who]

At the time na iya to gi pili iya ex gf over you kay ni timbang paman gud to nga dugay na bya sila and bag-o pa mo and dli pajud mo klaro pa ato... This is not a perfect world, we all have pasts that we have to deal with and accept. Let go of the past, accept it and move on, stop going back to that.. ka dugaya na ato oi... there are going to be more important things you'll be dealing with sa inyo relationship in the future especially when you two get married. Focus on that instead.

MaInEvEnT: I agree, I have to move-on, I know it will not be healthy for our relationship if I keep looking back his past. Naka realize nasad ko, I'm hoping forever gone na gyud akong insecurities sa iya ex. If one day mag-abot gyud mi tanan, I hope dili ra gyud ko ma affected. Before man gud I always think second option ra diay ko kay anha pa siya ni balik nako pag buwag na nila. Wala gyud niya gi fight iya feelings for me kay pwede ra gud unta siya makig buwag but I don't know pud kung kinsa gyud nakig buwag ni kinsa. But bahala na oi, it doesn't matter anymore nahitabo naman tanan.

[crstina]

hi TS,,

yes I have experienced sa imo nfeel.
I fell in love jud as in to d max to this guy den gpsakitan lng..
I longer trust anyone..

naa nanguyab nko and I told him about sah ako story and he said he will always be here for me.
but my heart no longer feel any sweetness, kilig or watsoever.
then I decided, since dli man ko ktrust and i cannot love for the meantime, we should stay friends.
and yes, we are still friends and we see each other, and we do have those nights, but we are only friends.
he kept his word that he will always be here by my side and he did and still is..
wala nah xa nangita ug lain and said kontento nah xa that we are still seeing each other.

so mao nah akong lihok krn. remain friends so if pasakitan man gani ko at least dli kaau deep prehas sa nhitabo before.

[hash]

I feel you TS. And sadly, til now insecure japun ko. But Im thankful to your thread kay daghan ko nakuha pud dri na advice da. Ang masulti ra nako nato, MOVE ON. Hihi. Go lang ng go.

[carrotski]

i think both of u shud get married na TS, the guy is freaking serious about u, accept his love yaw pagduha2 na or kainsecure sa ia GF, mas gpiLi ka nia ug congrats nnu kai nkaabut mo ug 4years. im praying gle na maabut sd us ana daun kami magkadaun, ahhaha, boom! basta God bless nnu duha!

[yvonne6]

dli man jud ni mawala ang ingon ani. my exbf kay naka uyab (nag live in pa gani) with a much younger girl than me, around 20 years younger siguro but she is so insecure kay almost 8 years mi sa akong ex with a son. wala naka agwanta ang girl, nag buwag sila. although im not saying nga ako moy reason kay knowing my ex, he is really hard to be with (maybe impossible pa gani) pero d man jud malikayan sa girl labi na ug dugay kau sila sa iyang ex. ako lang tambag, do not compete with exes kay lain2 man ta nga girls. if u want to outdo what the ex has done, then make your own moves pero ayaw labda ang laki ug sige bring up ug topic about sa ex, mao ganing ex, dapat past nana, dili na dapat isturyaan.

[lescraman]

I was once insecure with my ex bf's ex's.. Bisan daghan na mi naagian ug taod2x napod mi. Pero sa among kadugayun, wala koi assurance sa iyang love nako. Ug mao ni rason nanung insecure ko sa mga ex pod nya..

Once mo hatag ug ma feel nimo ang assurance gikan sa imo uyab, mawala ranang tanan nimong pag duda. Ug dli naka maka huna2x sa iyang nabuhat sauna kai mas gihatagan na nimo og importanxa ang inyung future...

[domzgnrlover86]

wajuy angay ika insecure ilabinag gi prove na sa imung PARIS nga LOVE jud ka niya

[ZD14]

Trust lng TS