Insecure of my bf's ex-gf!

[guess_who]

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Wew. . .long story with full of sad contents . Well, here's my share.

The guy is serious about you, we'll that shows as how he cares about you. He traveled the world to meet you? Isn't that something BIG? To tell you the truth, guys (Not because I am a guy, but based on experience) are good at flattering women. Yet, if we cross the sea for one, we are DEAD FREAKING SERIOUS about that girl. I did that once, but wala lang nagkakami coz of some reasons...

So, if I were you, keep the communication on, but don't pressure him too. Just do the natural thing that you normally do, and let bygone by bygone. He must have "NOT SAID ANYTHING ABOUT THE GIRL" before ka nag State, yet that doesn't mean that he is not honest nimo. It so happened that you weren't the "FORMAL GIRL-BOY" relationship at that time. Kung baga, fling-fling to nga natinood. Tehehe. . .

So, settle down and relax, and trust him. Focus to what you're doing now, and hope for the better that someday magkakuyog mo again. But, as they say, lisod ang long distance relationship. So, might as well, expect the worst to come too para dili kaayo sakit if ever something went wrong man gali.

Hope that helps.

Sam.

Sam: Thanks ha. sa 4 yrs namo, he came here 3 times already and usually he'll stay for months... Nka uli na sad ko twice and only for 2 weeks. I just don't know ngano ma insecure ko sa iya ex-gf. maybe because at one point, siya iya gipili, not me and I have fear that it can happen again.

[guess_who]

base sa imong story... murag wala raka niya binoangi... iya lang gipa himutang og tarong.. mao iya ka gi ingnan although late na pag sulti niya..
lets just say nga he is caught in "circumstance". nya base sa imong story diba ikaw man ning "first kiss" niya meaning ikaw ning initiate sa kiss? hahaha.

goodluck, i think his serious.

He was my first kiss ug uban pa, di mn gud ko laagan before ko nag college and nag sugod ra ko laag2x kato pagkaila na namo Dili ako ang ni initiate sa kiss ky dili pa ko kahibaw mo kiss ug pinakatay atong panahona Nahimo ra ko statua pag first few kiss niya

[sammedriano]

Sam: Thanks ha. sa 4 yrs namo, he came here 3 times already and usually he'll stay for months... Nka uli na sad ko twice and only for 2 weeks. I just don't know ngano ma insecure ko sa iya ex-gf. maybe because at one point, siya iya gipili, not me and I have fear that it can happen again.

Ahahaha. . .dili man tingali sa "He choosed her over you." It's the other way around miga.Ganahan kaayo na siya nimu mao nga anhaon jud ka nya. Imagine, US na ha. dila na cebu og bohol kay 500 ra paytir na.He didn't mentioned anything before kay lisod bya kaayo if mawala ang salig sa girl namu labi na if ganahan jud mi nla. Mao nga yaw cge insecure diha. kalma lang gud. yaw ka strong. ahaha

[guess_who]

Aren't all gf insecure of their bf's exes at first ? That's a normal feeling. That will just subside as you both mature in your relationship

I sure hope this insecurities will subside na jud kay ako mismo dili ganahan ani nga feeling. Mura ko ma praning Everytime ako ni hisgotan, he just keeps saying he's sorry and to trust him. Wala naman kuno siya mabuhat kay nahitabo na kuno to. I just want to feel better and happy without worrying about her ex-gf anymore.

[guess_who]

Ahahaha. . .dili man tingali sa "He choosed her over you." It's the other way around miga.Ganahan kaayo na siya nimu mao nga anhaon jud ka nya. Imagine, US na ha. dila na cebu og bohol kay 500 ra paytir na.He didn't mentioned anything before kay lisod bya kaayo if mawala ang salig sa girl namu labi na if ganahan jud mi nla. Mao nga yaw cge insecure diha. kalma lang gud. yaw ka strong. ahaha

Nice to hear this coming from a guy. Atleast nakasabot ko gamay ngano ingon ato to ang mga nahitabo coming from your views. Bitaw noh, dili ako iya gi pili pag first pero kung gusto jd siya sa iya ex-gf, he could have visited her in middle east than coming here and not even sure nga ako pa siya dawaton.

[sammedriano]

Nice to hear this coming from a guy. Atleast nakasabot ko gamay ngano ingon ato to ang mga nahitabo coming from your views. Bitaw noh, dili ako iya gi pili pag first pero kung gusto jd siya sa iya ex-gf, he could have visited her in middle east than coming here and not even sure nga ako pa siya dawaton.

Tuara .. .naa ra man diay na? hehe yaw na pagstrong og pag-emo anha. Let us celebrate. Haha. . .

Pwd nako nimu adviser. Dalha ko anha sa states beh. joke

[jednified]

Na trauma lng tingali ka TS tungod wala ka nag expect mu happen to at first. Pero time will heal and maka learn ra ka mu trust niya in due time.

[sammedriano]

Na trauma lng tingali ka TS tungod wala ka nag expect mu happen to at first. Pero time will heal and maka learn ra ka mu trust niya in due time.

Sakto jud ka brad. . time heals all pains. . .dugay lang jud mao nga take time to enjoy.

[kowalczyk]

TS... dont worry about his ex-GF... kay dili nana mao iyang girl... you should worry about the present girl.... tsk tsk long Distance relationship? hmmmmmp ... unless ug mag ipon namu na kuyog jud mu.... weeeeeew!!!

[sammedriano]

TS... dont worry about his ex-GF... kay dili nana mao iyang girl... you should worry about the present girl.... tsk tsk long Distance relationship? hmmmmmp ... unless ug mag ipon namu na kuyog jud mu.... weeeeeew!!!

Ayaw hadloka brad. . .otoyo sad nimu oe. . .tehehe joke lang. . pero sakto bya pud. . .ang present ang kuyaw. dili past.