Dealing with In-laws

[jam_unna]

---

hayy...juskolord..paet jud ng in ana klc ug panghuna.huna....

[s3xyp1nk]

I don't have problems with my in laws aside from my husband's sister, di dyud makaya. I'm the one supporting for the family since my hubby wala work, nya his sister wants to live with us - so be it. It started when I asked her to clean her room, she told me - muhawa nalang ko kay I dont like to clean. She the told me wala kay right na magpalayas sa ako diri kay dili ikaw ang nagbuhi nko (I was like? what?). Then after a week she never cleaned her room still, so I told her again to clean. She said she doesn't have salary why would she clean. To think wala mi katabang. From work mag atiman pakos akong anak, nya mag clean sa house. Nya gusto niya ako pa magpakaon niya, nya ako pa mahimong yaya. hay pagkapait nalang. It's starting to affect me and my hubby already.

Naa mo suggestion?

[mybuuz]

^^either imong paabangon or papahawaon.
simple, it's your house. live with it or leave.

[burikoy12]

I don't have problems with my in laws aside from my husband's sister, di dyud makaya. I'm the one supporting for the family since my hubby wala work, nya his sister wants to live with us - so be it. It started when I asked her to clean her room, she told me - muhawa nalang ko kay I dont like to clean. She the told me wala kay right na magpalayas sa ako diri kay dili ikaw ang nagbuhi nko (I was like? what?). Then after a week she never cleaned her room still, so I told her again to clean. She said she doesn't have salary why would she clean. To think wala mi katabang. From work mag atiman pakos akong anak, nya mag clean sa house. Nya gusto niya ako pa magpakaon niya, nya ako pa mahimong yaya. hay pagkapait nalang. It's starting to affect me and my hubby already.

Naa mo suggestion?

Discuss things with your husband. Siya na'y pabadlonga anang iyang igsoon. Kinahanglan iyang pasabton nga kay naa siya sa inyong panimalay nagpuyo, mosunod siya sa house rules. Mas makuyawan seguro siya ug iyang kuya mobadlong niya.

[sugbuana]

yay! some in-laws may lang raba sa uyab2x pa or bag-o pang minyu..pag magtika dugay..diha na makita ang tinuod color...

ambut lang pud kaha aning akong mga in-laws bag-o pa man ming minyo, the only son ra beya ning akong bana!

[s3xyp1nk]

yay! some in-laws may lang raba sa uyab2x pa or bag-o pang minyu..pag magtika dugay..diha na makita ang tinuod color...

ambut lang pud kaha aning akong mga in-laws bag-o pa man ming minyo, the only son ra beya ning akong bana!

pareha ta sis only Son ang akong bana.

Akong point man gud, naa koy anak nga 1 year old. And kung hugaw ang balay bisag iya lang room hugaw mugawas ghapon nang mga filty things. Dili safe sa akong baby ang mga hugawan sa balay. Nya ikaduha, ako nagpakaon niya nya insultuhon ko niya,,unsa xa sinuswerte? wala bayay work iyang maguwang kay gipakaon ra pud nko.

Nya this weekends muabot iyang parents, I'm not sure unsay ilang ma feel about sa situation. I don't wanna have issues with them because I never had problems with my mother and father in laws, just the lazy filty sister in law.

[HiMe ai]

I don't have problems with my in laws aside from my husband's sister, di dyud makaya. I'm the one supporting for the family since my hubby wala work, nya his sister wants to live with us - so be it. It started when I asked her to clean her room, she told me - muhawa nalang ko kay I dont like to clean. She the told me wala kay right na magpalayas sa ako diri kay dili ikaw ang nagbuhi nko (I was like? what?). Then after a week she never cleaned her room still, so I told her again to clean. She said she doesn't have salary why would she clean. To think wala mi katabang. From work mag atiman pakos akong anak, nya mag clean sa house. Nya gusto niya ako pa magpakaon niya, nya ako pa mahimong yaya. hay pagkapait nalang. It's starting to affect me and my hubby already.

Naa mo suggestion?

Is your husband aware of this? If he is not, then better tell him what is going on, tell him what you feel about the whole situation. Dapat sab siguro, you let your husband talk to his sister.