I learn so many lessons from my friends in the world of silent (mute and deaf) and darkness (blind). when I was young I am amused with them, when ever I see this people I thought to myself are they happy for what they have? how can they appreciate life if they are impaired of this senses. I was afraid to be like them. when I had the opportunity to learn sign language, encountered people from this group it changed. and I realized I was totally wrong. normal people are afraid to be like them so what they do, they make fun at them but they didn't realized, we the normal people are the laughing stock. we miss the opportunity to appreciate life. to see life beyond this senses. we always taken for granted the things we have. we are the one who complains more often than they are. instead of being grateful of being normal, being complete, we tend not to appreciate what we have. one thing I learned from them is to be grateful of what we have. laugh more, smile more, live life to its fullest. in the simplicity of things around us appreciate it. share what you have, time, talents and joy to others. they don't care if they are less because they are impaired of some senses but they find ways to make themselves useful to the society. they are the one who ask more questions than normal being. they are fascinated of things and they are welling to learn new things. they are proud of who they are they are not afraid to try things. I met a boy in a blood donation, and he was eager to donate blood despite of being blind he didn't hesitate to give what he have, blood. and I asked him "are you not afraid to donate blood?" and he answered me "why should I be afraid? I am already living my life in darkness there is nothing more I can be afraid of." "I am just glad that I am alive and be able to help others" he added. and I admire bravery not because he faces the fear of donating blood but being not afraid of helping others despite he can't see. now are we the blind and deaf and mute in the society? not seeing and hearing the things around us. most of the time perfection comes from imperfection of life.