to all single mothers out there

[sushilover]

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hi ppl.. im new to this "single motherhood" thing.. my bf and i broke up 2 weeks ago.. well, it was a really lame reason for me pero i think d najud xa.. basta trust issues and insecure si ex bf.. hehe anyway, to all single mothers out there gi unsa ninyu pag cope up? i have my son with me (he's 10mos by the way). ang dad kay mu visit ra panagsa but d mi mu tok and f naa xa d q mgpakita. mu support mn xa financially sumtyms. i know deep inside love pamn nko aq (x)bf but wa nmn koi mabuhat coz he said he's happy with his life xa ra usa. naa xa sa peak sa iyang career and a "wife" and baby moi maka hinder nya so xur q happy jd xa. and he's d barkadista typ na laki so lingaw to d max au cge laag diri, inum dha.. frustrating lng gud kaau kay maau kaau xa muhimu ug bata nya krn iya ra gibilin iya responsibility nq and cya nglingaw2. wa mn ko ngmahay na naa nko anak coz i love my son so much pero ang thought lng gani na maau kaau xa mubiya namu. hhaayy mao na i just want to move on with my life. i guess thankful sad au q naa koi anak coz he's one of my reason na nkahatag nko ug strength. anyway, to all single mothers out there how did u do it? samot na bag.o pa kaau mo na na single mom g unsa ninyu pgcope?

[luke0917]

I am a single mom too and my son is already 3 years old.

getting over him is not going to be easy or fast..this part i can assure you ky nakaagi napud ko ani..pero another thing I can assure you is that if you really, really decide to leave him out of your life, you can do it..and cutting off the communication is the biggest initial step..

[m0nYang]

hmmmm... it took mi 4years to be single after he left.. and being a single mom is difficult.. i tell you jud, you need all the comfort.. and you need to be STRONG for yourself jud.. it's going to be a bumpy ride along the road... depression will drag you down.. but always keep it in mind, your SON is there. Just hug him every time you feel down. And don't let go until you feel it's safe.

Lingaw2 sad in a way na di sad ka palabi.. just bare in mind your doing it not because you want to prove to him that you know better, but your doing it for yourself that you can be strong on your own. And your son make that for you.

[jednified]

Mga ingon aning cases maka disappoint dyod. Na why mo ning enter being a mother when imung pares wala pay klaro. Although you really love your son, tanan man tingali mothers ingon ana. And I highly respect na you will take care of him unlike sa uban na walay klaro. Swerte dyod imung anak na ikaw ang mother kay gi-pangga nimo. I have friends na single moms and I don't look down on them. Basta makita nako ilang pics na happy with their children, ma happy sad ko.

On another end, maka ask dyod ko why mo ning sulod. Especially in your case na wala pa kay sure if kaya nimo. I mean, BF pa d.i nimo sya and you already offered na. Tinuod sad nuon na bisan kasal naa gihapon chance pero at least gi assess nimo ug maau if tarungon sad ka ug pangga sa imung partner.

Lisod dyod ma single mom pero unless it was your choice from the start to have a child without a father. Kanang mga ingon ana gud naa silay will ug drive na ganahan ma independent.

[facelessvoid123]

A lot of men and women stay single because they are tired of giving their everything and end up with nothing.

[Scoby]

All actions has it corresponding consequence jud... But Everything happen for a reason man sad...
I have a friend of mine na single mom pud... though nagbuwag cla kay dili na healthy ela realationship... and ofcourse sa mother man jud na ang bata... at first lisod jud na... financially, physically and mentally... pero since ni enter naman jud... dapat jud kayanon... but in the long term run... youll get stronger and tougher napud. There is a saying na sa "sa umpisa lang mahirap"

Kaya rana nin.u... na kaya gani sa uban kamo nabah kaha... ayaw lang sad mo pabaya mga mader... kay lisod na....

[nijazared]

hmm..first of all TS...hopefully ma realize lang jud sa imo ex bf kung unsa iya responsibility sa bata and hope he stays true...and dapat sad magka ayos mo 2 for the sake of the child, not necessarily magkabalik but for you both to be on good terms...ayaw lang paminaw anang uban nga mag sige pa sermon nimo kung ngano nahitabo na or ngano ni enter ka, it has happened and we can only move on.
Treat your son as your strength, I know someone who was married and had three kids with his husband, they just separated last year but she's doing wonderfully for her three kids. If she did it then you can too. Always remember lang jud to entrust everything to him and if possible, concentrate sa lang jud ka sa career nimo sa work and being a single mom...

[180fLip]

i have 2 of my friends nga sila nagkadayun
they have a cute daughter
unfortunately nagbuwag sila duha
the good thing about it is that they are in good terms
they still get to go out with their daughter during sundays
as if nothing has changed
they are doing it for their daughter
mayta kamo sad maam ma ok pud
lisuda sad ana ni ex nimo oi
laagan man sad diay
hehehe
ako man sad
naa nako 5mos old baby
medyo na minusan ang laag
kung makalaag man gani di na kaabot ug ala 1 sa kadlawn
heheheh

[ed168III]

i have a friend hu was once a single mom, shes realy tough n very successful now, wats good is naka minyo syag foreigner, where did dey meet? sa call center

ako advice is, stay beautiful ghapn n look for a husband

[luke0917]

i have a friend hu was once a single mom, shes realy tough n very successful now, wats good is naka minyo syag foreigner, where did dey meet? sa call center

ako advice is, stay beautiful ghapn n look for a husband

hahaha! sakto jud ni!