kwarta ug uyab

[kit_cebu]

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@Antitanic, what if even after the baby she doesn't change? and if she indeed change, im sure ang kontrabido sa eyes sa iyang family is the bf.

then she has to choose on starting a family on her own and being a slave...

kontrabida gyud ani ang imong migo...and his GF...but that will fade on with time...

or she can "slowly" cut off on sending money to her family...
or she can let them know that she will buy a house soon or something...

[apt.get.sudoer]

siguro mga social climber pud ang pamilya niya sa pinas TS.

mao jd feelingun ngali hahahaha

[dvinedc]

ka-relate man pod ta..

[maiden_asj]

dmd oi.. grave na family... gatuo jod guro na sila na gipunit ra ni girl ang kwarta sa iyang gitrabahoan..

[P-Chan]

remember sa movie UP? katong nag tigom sila ug money para maka ad2 sila sah paradise falls pero cge lang ka buak kay naai "emergency".. maybe the guy can tell the gf to secretly surprise the family para maka abroad sila (laag in the USA).. so if ever naai "emergency" ingna nalng temporarily kuha.a nalng sa secret surprise fund.. bawi.on lang later..

p.s. dili pud siya necessarily "lie" if ever maka tigom nah para maka vacation then go but I that needs huge amount of money so di tingali nah mo happen anytime soon

[|ceman]

ka-relate man pod ta..

so gi unsa man nimo?

[Dorothea]

I recommend the book Boundaries by Dr Henry Cloud.

[|ceman]

Hi Dorothea, can you give a very brief summary about the book and why it will relate to this issue? thanks!

[|ceman]

remember sa movie UP? katong nag tigom sila ug money para maka ad2 sila sah paradise falls pero cge lang ka buak kay naai "emergency".. maybe the guy can tell the gf to secretly surprise the family para maka abroad sila (laag in the USA).. so if ever naai "emergency" ingna nalng temporarily kuha.a nalng sa secret surprise fund.. bawi.on lang later..

p.s. dili pud siya necessarily "lie" if ever maka tigom nah para maka vacation then go but I that needs huge amount of money so di tingali nah mo happen anytime soon

good idea haha

[Dorothea]

TS, here's the link with a description of the book.

Amazon.com: Boundaries: When to Say YES, When to Say NO, To Take Control of Your Life (9780310585909): Henry Cloud, John Townsend: Books