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    Default Re: Why Can't we be lovers, only friends... :(


    ikaw mndiayto sauna TS no? kdtong kuan sa bf tsk tsk...fragile pmn cguro ka kron..better sa cguro palabay lngsa ang panahon,jst tell him f he can wait lngsa..lisod mngud if masakitan npudka,db?..dha pd nmo makita if seryoso jd cya saimo

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    Default Re: Why Can't we be lovers, only friends... :(

    Quote Originally Posted by freak_on_a_leash View Post
    Panid-i lang ang panahon kay basin womanizer. mas maayo pa lagi ning laki nga muprangka ug rej2x lang tuyo kesa anang atik atikon pa ang baye nya mainlab pero in the long run rej2x ra ghapon tuyo.
    Ouch! bitaw before mo mo-commit duha TS, be sure abwt your feelings.
    Basig parehas ra mo duha on the rebound.

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    ok ra na TS... dagko na btaw mu...hehehe... imo ra g torture imng kaugalingon ana, sulti-e na si erpat ug ermat...

    unless sguro naai history ang laki nga killer, kana dli maau...heheh... pero family friend? why not... ako gning amigo iyang uyab iyang 4th degree cousin sd... 4 years sila, ok ra ang mom sa girl pero ang father murag dli ok... pero wai siyay ma hemz...hahah...

    try it TS, d mn kaha mag buot2x imng family kung kinsa imng pili-on? wa na silay ma hemz kung siya imong pili-on... ayaw pag huna2x ug negative... huna2x ra na ninyong duha... maau mung e pakong...hehe

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    Default Re: Why Can't we be lovers, only friends... :(

    @TS...the more you go into the issue, the clearer the problem becomes...lack of communication lang jud ni TS...diri musud ang panultihon "lahat ay na-idadaaan sa pag uusap"...dako ba jud mo ug age gap TS? based sa imo pag describe sa situation, barkada siya silbe sa imo Dad...and I think the reason why he is hesitant kay its more or less an unwritten rule or as what I see it, lain tan.awon nga barkada sila sa imo Dad and then kamo nagka uyab...hard to describe but I think you get the jist of it...

    Another thing I noticed is vulnerable pa kaayo ka, it's hard to explain as well but I can tell it from the way you want this relationship to go. If he's a good guy then he might've noticed this too, and this could be one of the main reasons for his hesitation. Honestly, there are a lot of reasons, talking is one way to know that and its also the first step in moving forward from this situation. Unfortunately, we don't know the "real deal" so its up to you to take our advices and opinions and make use of them in the best possible way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nijazared View Post
    @TS...the more you go into the issue, the clearer the problem becomes...lack of communication lang jud ni TS...diri musud ang panultihon "lahat ay na-idadaaan sa pag uusap"...dako ba jud mo ug age gap TS? based sa imo pag describe sa situation, barkada siya silbe sa imo Dad...and I think the reason why he is hesitant kay its more or less an unwritten rule or as what I see it, lain tan.awon nga barkada sila sa imo Dad and then kamo nagka uyab...hard to describe but I think you get the jist of it...

    Another thing I noticed is vulnerable pa kaayo ka, it's hard to explain as well but I can tell it from the way you want this relationship to go. If he's a good guy then he might've noticed this too, and this could be one of the main reasons for his hesitation. Honestly, there are a lot of reasons, talking is one way to know that and its also the first step in moving forward from this situation. Unfortunately, we don't know the "real deal" so its up to you to take our advices and opinions and make use of them in the best possible way.
    hmmmmm around 6 yrs ang gap... we dont want both to talk about it... mura ganing "I'm weak, it's true
    Cause I'm afraid to know the answer, I'm just scared to know the ending"... paet!

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    Default Re: Why Can't we be lovers, only friends... :(

    Quote Originally Posted by chik_08 View Post
    hmmmmm around 6 yrs ang gap... we dont want both to talk about it... mura ganing "I'm weak, it's true
    Cause I'm afraid to know the answer, I'm just scared to know the ending"... paet!
    6 years is okay...I should say though, you both should really talk about it. It's better to know the answer rather than play along with it and know it somehow is going to end...I am not saying it will end but don't you think it chances are relatively higher for this to develop into something rather than ending when you both will talk about it? Just a reminder TS, life is short, if you think you found love then why should you both keep it this way? The answer should be deep within you...its a matter of how badly you want this and to which extent would you go to get what you want. The same goes for him. Would you both rather be hanging by a thread or be firmly strapped with ropes?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chik_08 View Post
    akong problem is... d xa mutuo nga naka move on nako sa akong past.. and bsin daw ig abot sa akong X, im back to basic! mawa nsad sa family kay gkuha na ni X.. paet
    basig wa pa jud ka ka move on kai the way ka mo posst diri chik d man ka maka directly say nga d na nimo love imo x moana raman ka nga d nako to xa nako oi nia wa nami future kai naabot na xa wa xa nagparamdam , but wat if magparamdam maghilak sa imo doorstep dont tell me d ka mo bilangkad?



    for me unfair sa part sa laki chik jud REBOUND pnakip butas bati xa , tagay nalang ta na txsan tika weekend hahahahha

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    TS don't rush things.. Be sure of the motives of the guy because guys usually;say the exact words that women love to hear just to attain nirvana. IF you are sure that the guy is worth it and is not playing around just to score, then it is best to take the leap and tell you dad about it. Your dad would be a better judge on the guy's character since he knows him well. If all goes well and your dad accepts the guy then good for you
    Last edited by aljy; 12-18-2012 at 07:15 AM.

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    Default Re: Why Can't we be lovers, only friends... :(

    agree ko sa tanan advise dire TS.
    don't rush things especially sa imong situation karon, you are one vulnerable woman.
    think it over and let things happen, do not rush. masakitan lang unya ka in the end.

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    og ayaw pud expect TS... or ayaw jud ihatag imong feelings niya. kai mao lage na. wala ta kahibaw basin masakitan lang ka in the end. try to be close with him lang sa and see what's your reaction to each other

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