pro live-in or anti live-in?

[abulang]

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People will always talk man jud. People will always judge pero dnha ra man pud na sila kutob at the end of the day kamo ra gihapon duha sa imong partner ang mag.decide if you guys are ready to finally face your differences under one roof. Hehehe. Pero kung sa akoa lang, pro ko ani.

agree ko ani

[wire]

...pro-live in kung not financially stable, anti live in kung financially stable. Mao ra na ang solution bro -> money! kay unsaon man nimo ug tuga-tuga ug minyo kung wala kay kwarta? 90% sa managti-ayon permi gubot tungod sa kwarta. 10% bahalag walay kwarta, tuslo buwa butod tiyan, basta labing <- that's stupid!

[Hammer_and_Sickle]

morality is long dead and gone

[salot]

Being a christian particularly a Catholic, I am very anti-live in. simple ra kaayo ang reason... dili na sa ingon nga gi discourage mo... kana man gud ang e judge ta sa mga tawo kay "human raman jud ta"... bisan kamo, mo judge man gani gihapon mo as inyong isig ka tawo...

my point here is gamita lang ninyo ang inyong "konsensya"... I am not telling you nga sayop inyong gibuhat pero gihatagan man ta ug wisdom sa ginoo...

to conclude, kahibaw na mo daan kung asa mo angay mo uyon......... sakto ba or dili? mao ra jud na!!

[bunchbunch07]

Ok kaayo!

[geo25]

Being a christian particularly a Catholic, I am very anti-live in. simple ra kaayo ang reason... dili na sa ingon nga gi discourage mo... kana man gud ang e judge ta sa mga tawo kay "human raman jud ta"... bisan kamo, mo judge man gani gihapon mo as inyong isig ka tawo...

my point here is gamita lang ninyo ang inyong "konsensya"... I am not telling you nga sayop inyong gibuhat pero gihatagan man ta ug wisdom sa ginoo...

to conclude, kahibaw na mo daan kung asa mo angay mo uyon......... sakto ba or dili? mao ra jud na!!

Since your talking about wisdom, I think it's wiser to do the co-habitation test. Find out first if you both could stand living with each other under the same roof than get married and regret getting married then get an annulment or divorce.

[abulang]

"I believe that before you marry someone, you have to live with that person first. You won’t know what he’s like unless you live with him than to pretend you’re okay and live miserably for the rest of your life. Why wait to find out about the little things that will annoy you later? -solenn heusaff"

got that quote from a magazine and nakita nako ang comment ni solenn..wla lang just sharing.. naa man jud syay point..i guess we have to open our minds lang cguro..di man necessary na ga.live-in ka, weak na imo faith ni God.

[salot]

Since your talking about wisdom, I think it's wiser to do co-habitation test. Find out first if you both could stand living with each other under the same roof than get married and regret getting married then get an annulment or divorce.

let me just refine my thought. in my opinion, there are no wrong decisions here. Since we are all big enough to understand the situation. if pwede pa lang mag una ang "basol", we can consider that we are perfect!!.... unsaon na always man jud ma awahi ang pag basol diba....

yes, i agree with you that we were given the wisdom to think but god is really wise and he gave us again the thing we called conscience....

i do not came here to make an argument but just to let you know my stand about living in together is a "sin" if without a blessing from God.

[wire]

...actually, kung daghan ta ug tuho-an nuh, the more ta na ma-confuse. And based sa comment sa ubos naapila ng faith sa religion. kaning faith man gud mao ra ni gadala ug libog libog nga simple ra kaaU na money ra jud ang kulang ngano ang live in (in some ways) are good and bad

[freak_on_a_leash]

Mas pro ko labi if your living abroad. Maka save pamo kwarto, kay naa man ka kashare sa rent ug sa groceries. So the more savings mas dali ra ang pagplano sa pagpakasal if ever maka decide na.