My boyfriend and her X are close... should i get jealous?

[DebutsAndIDos]

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HI neishan!

I think you should just leave her alone. I think eventually your boyfriend will lose respect for a girl like that. It seems like they're not really close after all. It's just her na feeling close.
IMHO, I would rather that you do not cause trouble by lowering yourself to the girl's standards. Keep yourself pure and you will keep your boyfriend's and your own respect and love.

The best person to set her straight is still your boyfriend. Ask him to speak with her and tell her that they can be friends but only to a reasonable extent, and please, no physical contact.

BTW, that's a very weird girl! When I would meet up with the current gfs of my ex-es, I always went out of my way to make them feel secure and comfortable in his love for them, stressing that we were just good friends now!

[catsky]

i think if you trust your man enough then there's no reason to get jealous unless he makes you feel that his ex is still important.

[neishan731]

yah sumtyms... i feel like her x is still importnt... coz he still keeps her cp no. on the speed dial of his fon... then that of my topic that he makes the gurl her projects... but some of my frends told me its natural... im so confused now... if its realy natural or there's still sumthing going on about the two of them..or am just really being paranoid...

[twalalyn]

you have to trust your man but don't trust the girl.........

[Disturbed_Angel16]

maybe or maybe not........ u just to see how they relate with eah other if you see that your bf has a feeling for her X then you should...... but if not and he tells that you are the one that he loves, then why should you.....

[jeri3721]

maski unsaon nimo, X gud gahapon na nya...... they've shared something b4..... you would never know kung unsa na ilang gpangbuhat!
they both still have the same feeling of love, pro dli na hinuon ana ka intimate...... pro always remember na sooner or later gibuang ra ka sa laki.....im also a girl, if naa chance to get back with past relationship, mo grab jud na ang girl.....
tell me im lier, but always remember that men are born to be "polygamus"......
as early as now, talk it over with your bf..... kay hassle kaau ang fight... ma pressure ka....

[ciodens]

be jealous but be very careful that you are in control of your jealousy before it takes control over you. the best way is to do is to talk it out, n0stALg|a says it right.

[LytSlpr]

it's all up to you, weigh things over...

in my opinion saying, that you should not get jealous is hypocrisy. some people just wants to be objective or just wants to sound objective with other people or are in denial probably because of pride or for whatever reasons. but in love being objective does not exist. it is very difficult to love and be objective. moreover, if your boyfriend has delicadeza, then he should not continue what he is doing with his EX. it is not even good if you work with a person of a different gender alone, you should be in a group. moreover with his EX?! there are a lot of people he can get help from. he simply has no excuse & is getting the best of both worlds right now under your nose and you allowed it.

this is not about trust, it is about prevention. he should steer away from compromising or tempting situations.

...& BTW what they are doing is NOT natural. they can still be friends and remain civil to each other but can no longer "hang out" or work together. DUH?!

just my 2 cents!

[kentoy]

If u really love ur bf u must trust him, pero sometimes i open sab na niya oi before ka magsuko2x, tel him nga selos na jud ka para sab dili cya ka think ug dautan imong unhan ba. Kay kung imo na dugayon mapan-os jud na cya kaw ra sab unya sakitan, himuon lang ka ug buang

[kula]

my dear be confident, naa ka point na magjealous but make sure in the ryt way lang ky daghan raba na sayup sa cg ug jealous. and sa ako lang u have beauty bya, juz talk to ur bf and express ur feelings... para mawagtang na imo gipanghunahuna.... k