I will post every once in a while about how to express love in big or small things. I know you got also your ways but as an individual who also experienced love. Here is my own simple and complicated ways.
1. - Provide a simple text message to him/her expressing on how you are thankful of having this person into your life and do this first thing in the morning so that you may also provide a good starting point on this persons day.
2. - Even if you are already with your partner for quite some time. Never forget to appreciate even the smallest thing.
3. - When you are not in the mood. Think of something which you occasionally do with your partner which most likely trigger the both of you to convert sadness into happiness
Example:
- playing video games
- pinoy henyo
- story telling
- cooking
- eating
- midnight stroll along the beach(romantic)
- etc.
You best know what your other half wants.
4. - Try to surprise your other half by bringing something that he/she likes. Before doing that. Make sure that it is a surprise. Don't even provide a smallest hint that you will be doing this or that later so that the element of surprise is intact which makes it a very good idea to make your partner happy.
~ Apparently, I just used this way a while a go since today is our Monthsary.Happy Monthsary to me and my Girlfriend and for all of those who share the same day with us. Happy monthsary to you also.
We have been sharing sugar, spice and everything nice for about 4 years and 10 months. That's quite some time for me already.
5. - Be aware of times when your partner is not in the mood. In a relationship, one must feel the other. It is like caring a sick person. At those times, be the most understanding person you can be so when that negative mood is squeezed out already. You'll definitely be equally compensated. hehe.
6. Buy something which is identical. I know that having things which is completely the same sounds like a medieval period idea but it is still quiet popular and is still being used to say I am his or her, He/she is my girlfriend/boyfriend.
~ As for me, I usually buy shirts for me and her every month.
7. You and your partner will both be busy, definitely. Projects to finish at work, study for examinations at school. Both of you will be frustrated, exhausted, and even easily agitated. You'll both easily pick fights so before that happens, create a move.
As for me, my girlfriend is still studying and I'm already working so once I feel that things are getting ugly. I call her up. She leaves school at 6:30 pm and I usually get out of work at 5:30 or 6 pm. I tell her to wait for me at a certain place and then after that I surprise her with a simple dinner. An unexpected simple dinner date may ease tension for you both. Not only that you spend time with each other but also it is like rewarding yourself from all the sacrifices you have made even before accomplishing it. Isn't it lovely ?
8. Once in a while, we go on a city road trip at night. City roads are not busy and much less crowded. Basically roaming around CEBU CITY.No plans on where to go. Just plain simple ride and go where ever the road leads us. Eat foods on the cities 24 hour food shops. Sometimes i do let her drive when we use the scooter; easy to drive for women. I am much closer on her back so that I could still grab the handle bars and guide her in driving which technically makes it more romantic. Isn't it right?
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