
Originally Posted by
yvonne6
would u rather evade someone else's privacy and know the truth rather than respecting theirs and your feelings not being respected? nasakpan naman gani nako jud, ang line ah, dah, estorya lang gud na, sa chat ra. dili man gani mo angkon maski nanay ebidensiya, labaw naba kahag wala masakpi. i agree, ug itago gani, naa jud nay something. why would u hide something sa taw nga gusto nimo makauban for the rest of your life? gawas lang ug lain imong motibo sa pag uyab2, kana, dapat jud nimog itago imong mga kabuang
Respect is two-way. If he disrespects you it doesn't entail that you disrespects him too by bypassing his online accounts. It's not a conjugal property that both of you can share or owns. Neither a right to let you know his social activities. If you knew that he has an fb account then trust right starts there. The moment you break his privacy, what respect means then? What would feel if you're on his shoes? What if you discover things aside from what you're looking for?

Originally Posted by
KDThunder
If your partner creates a new e-mail address, changes passwords or simply refuses to share her/his online activities wd u, it does not necessarily mean she/he is cheating... It could be really just a desire for some space or privacy.. However,, if she/he is indeed being unfaithful,, u can determine the truth through careful gathering of facts...well if nasakpan najud nimo na naay something jud pero di pa kaayo ka sure ayaw sa sultie sa tinuod obserbahe sah a cheating partner can be more charming or loving towards you to cover-up unfaithfulness. On the other hand, they can also be more easily irritated or angered over small matters that may or may not really be your fault. they may be overly devoted and spend more time with u or have less time with u... they may also have lots of things and stories to share or they may be always tired and have nothing much to say..Pay close attention to details that could give merit to your suspicions..u can never be certain about her/him infidelity until she/he admits it or she/he is caught in the act..

Good point bro.