What's the Right Age?

[cebu.opportunities]

For me in terms of marriage practical ko! Basta 18+ na pwede ra! But make sure you have a stable job and a money para mabuhi nimo imong pamilya..

Kay ako sa akong self dili ko magmenyo until wala koy balay,sakyanan ug stable job = )

yeah, lalaki mn gud mo so sayon ra ingnon nga kana naa ny sakyanan, balay ug stable source of income...
Actually, mao sad na ako gi-prioritize mao I close my doors bisan naay mo try. Pero kami mga babae, murag limited ra kaayo ang time to achieve that financial stability and security... I'm on the process of building that pero it seems the time is really very limited.

[cebu.opportunities]

ahh murag 21 man cguro Ts ang right age

mao bah? That's too early for me ky murag bag-o pmn gud na graduate sa college nga age... 19-22 y.o.
You must have your own reasons why 21 is the right age for you.

[sLY26]

kung moabot ang time nga naay mkigminyo TS ug nahan sab ka mkigminyo niya.sa imong post, murag NBSB ka. ayaw lang ka pressure kung unsa sulti sa mga tawo sa palibot. imo bitaw nang life. enjoy nalang TS while wala pa. kung naa na enjoy samot ^^

[cebu.opportunities]

kung moabot ang time nga naay mkigminyo TS ug nahan sab ka mkigminyo niya.sa imong post, murag NBSB ka. ayaw lang ka pressure kung unsa sulti sa mga tawo sa palibot. imo bitaw nang life. enjoy nalang TS while wala pa. kung naa na enjoy samot ^^

yup, NBSB jud ky mangabog mn ug laki, tomboy, etc... ug di sad ko kahibaw mo timing anang murag ganahan ang guy mag-kita balik, unya unhan dayn nko nga murag di ok. pero ok ra bya unta to, haha... adika... In short, naa sako ang prob. I don't know how to respond properly and in a nice manner. tasagaran, it's too late nsad nko ma realize nga nanguyab na diay to, haha... daghan na kayo moask kumusta ndaw mi ni kuan then ni kuan, etc dayon ako tubag ky wa mn siya nanguyab uie, kamo jud. pero when they are already tired, diha na dayn nko ma realize nga murag mao na diay to ilang style sa pagpanguyab. have to reminisce everything pa and compare the aftermath of being too tired of the long wait (guy's side).

Yup, wa rmn ko na pressure ky naa mn gyapo'y magka-like pero I'm afraid nga basin moabot ang time na "it's too late"--ready nko pero it's already late.

[walker]

@TS, you are very smart as seen from your posts. I know you know that there is no right age. There is a proper time for everything.. it will happen. Just let it be.

[g.o.a.t.]

wa manay edad edad pero para kanimo maau ng sayohon. sakto tong giingon sa isa na ayw na pgtagad mag 30 ka ayha pka mamenyo lisod na. maytag naa ky pic no para mkkita pd mis imong kaanyag miga heheehe

[BoyPaksit]

mao lageh, if hapit na mag-30 diha njud ko makulbaan ky high risk na sa pagpanganak... pero wouldn't it be nice if mag-una ang manghud? actually, I don't know the definite reason why I'm hesitant bisan magka-bf lang

I think you got used to being single and the idea of having a partner does not ring a bell to you. Get the adventurous you going.

[cebu.opportunities]

@TS, you are very smart as seen from your posts. I know you know that there is no right age. There is a proper time for everything.. it will happen. Just let it be.

Thank you for your flattering introduction, hehe...
Yes, I know there's no right or wrong age at all. It would depend on your emotional, psychological, physiological, mental, etc maturity and many other things to consider. Probably, I should have revised it, ahw... My "real question" is "how" to be fit--to be one who's ready enough to engage such higher relationship. The right approaches, choice of words, manner of conveying the message you want to relay, etc... I hardly can be mature enough especially on conversing to people. I have a tongue that pushes men and women away and it's hard to deal with my shortcomings, character, being low self-esteemed, no/low confidence and many aspects that are important to hold a relationship longer. I can really say that I'm not ready yet because these simple things are stressors for me.

[cebu.opportunities]

wa manay edad edad pero para kanimo maau ng sayohon. sakto tong giingon sa isa na ayw na pgtagad mag 30 ka ayha pka mamenyo lisod na. maytag naa ky pic no para mkkita pd mis imong kaanyag miga heheehe

ayaw lang ta anang pic ky I want a private life.. (why am I posting this topic here anyway? ahw, ky wa mn mo kaila nko... at least mapagawas ba ky di mn ko mka-in.ani sa facebook)

Much better di moabot ug 30 pra nlng pud to avoid complications during pregnancy and labor. Saon taman sad nga pilian mn sad c TS ug kung naay magustohan, di sad kamao mo show ug appreciation and the like

[pcline627]

yeah, lalaki mn gud mo so sayon ra ingnon nga kana naa ny sakyanan, balay ug stable source of income...
Actually, mao sad na ako gi-prioritize mao I close my doors bisan naay mo try. Pero kami mga babae, murag limited ra kaayo ang time to achieve that financial stability and security... I'm on the process of building that pero it seems the time is really very limited.

Mao jud TS... BTW your age d.i? Actually sah for me the ideal age of women to get married is below 30... Make sure lang nga stable ang menyoan! Dili pud pataka ug warak dungag2 lang sa kapubre sa pilipinas... That's my own opinion.. = )