That Conversation

[dream_catcher]

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i love conversations.
and there were conversations in my life that changed me,that
made an impact on me..and i guess you have too..let's talk about it.


let me begin this thread by posting a story of a conversation
i had with my best friend about long distance relationship and how it took
away the man she thought she would be with for the rest of her
life.

It Rained That Day



I've been staring at him for a few minutes already..


What are you thinking, I asked. You are in deep thought.
Na, don't mind me. It's just work.
Okay. Anything worth sharing?
I don't know if you want to hear it.
Of course I do. I know how important your work is. It's your wife and I'm your mistress.
You are being silly. Kiss.
Come on. Tell me.
I will be promoted.
Wow!that's great!When was this?
A week ago.
And you're telling me this only now?!
Work is in Canada.


Silence...


How long?
2 years, 3 years, maybe more.
What do you want me to say?
Say that you don't like me going there. Say that my life is good here. Say that you can't live without me.


Silence...


When?
Next month.
That early?
Yes. I'm sorry.
You don't have to say sorry. You've been waiting for it. We've been waiting for it.
I don't know. My heart is in doubt about it. My life is here. You are here.
Please, of all people, I think I should be the last of your reason for staying. Just imagine how this would help your family. This is the very reason why you work so hard in the first place.
Why can't you just say you don't want me to go. Just say ?stay? and I will.
I love you too much to say that. I want nothing in this world but all the best things in life for you. I don't want the two of us regretting that you didn't go.
I'll regret living without you.
That's just 3 years.
That's long. You know long distance relationship do not always end up good. Most of the time they end up broken.
I love you. You do love me right?
I love you so much.
Then that's enough. Long hug.






After 5 years...


Hi! how are you?
I'm good.
Meet my wife.
Hello.
He told me a lot of things about you.
I have to go.


Silence...
Teardrop..
Regret...




Broken...


It was raining that Saturday evening. Our 8 years together.

[kitoy]

Such is the faith of the other woman.

[ambokz]

nice one ts, nice conversation...ouch!

[Piknik]

wa dii moi constant conversation kato naa na siya sa canada ts?

[dream_catcher]

wa dii moi constant conversation kato naa na siya sa canada ts?

this is not my story,promise!

I know my friend tried her best when it comes to communication..but it was a 5 long years,it just didn't work for them..but ingon siya,if she could go back to that night they had that conversation,she would beg him to stay.

[cebu.opportunities]

mao lageh ni ang LDR... lisud jud siya. ang uban magpakasal daan before mo larga pero feel nko di gyapon na guarantee ky mangita mn gud na ug companion in person.

[umpa-lumpa]

super ouch! if only she could turn back time...whew! yes LDR is very tough..but it can work..it worked before, katong time nga snail mail pa...samot na ron that we have all the technologies needed..thanks internet! but of course, even with these, if magpadala gyud sa temptasyon...diskase gyud tanan...

[dearlabe]

Ouch, nanimbawt akong balahibo sa ksakit oi. Laina ani oi.

[Forever_alone]

ouch ts...

[quirkychinita]

Tragic!



tissue please!