Help! Is My Girlfriend of 7 Years Cheating on Me?

[mindtrickz]

unsa diay nang "padawan"?

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

basta uyab gani nga molapas og 5 yers, moabot jud ang panahon nga ma ingon ani....mao nay ting-onos 7 yers....ahak pud anang e compare ka sa lain oi...whew.....

[ongkal]

unsa diay nang "padawan"?

student nga jedi sa star wars. ang tawag sa guy sa akong uyab kay "my padawan" so my student.. ngilngig noh? sus katanga jud diay nako oi

[MuddSleep]

well to answer your question as to weather or not she cheated, the answer would be a definite yes.
the fact that she chose to hide it from you, is in itslef, already cheating.

I could honestly relate in most aspects of your current situation. Also, I would have to agree with yaj.em, it really doesn't matter as to how long or how early you are in a certain relationship, if you really love that person and this shit happens, it's gonna hurt like hell. In my case, we were a couple of weeks into our relationship when this shit happened. But like I said, I had already loved her even if we haven't been together for that long. I don't really want to steal the show from you TS and I'd rather not get into details about what happened to us, but I'll share whatever it is I need to share from my experience to possibly help you out.

Let me start with (in my opinion) the biggest question when considering to continue with your relationship.. "WHAT GUARANTEES DO I HAVE THAT SHE WON'T DO IT AGAIN?". NONE! there's absolutely no guarantee that she won't do that again.. But if you think about it, you never got that guarantee in the first place. I guess that's what it's all about, taking chances. In my case, I forgave my girlfriend and tried to forget about the whole ordeal as much as I can. "forgive and forget", it may sound cliche and a lot of you might not agree with me on this but in my experience, it really didn't helped that I was constantly reminding myself about what she did, in the hopes of making myself more aware and vigilant about infidelity. if anything, it only made things worse. By thinking about it more and more, not only was I hurting myself, I was also hurting my girlfriend by making her feel that I had no more trust in her. So here's my advise to you TS, take your time and think about everything. If the love and happiness that you share with your girlfriend outwiegh the pain and the doubts that you have, then forgive her and take her back. This is the hard part though, when you take her back and forgive her, make sure that you also forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for letting this happen to you and stop with all your questions like, "what did I do to deserve this?" because frankly, you had nothing to do with it. We all have our shortcomings but there is abosolutely no excuse for infidelity.

[vahnhelsing]

pagkasakit pamalandongon nga mintras sa imong pagkahinanok ubos sa maanindot nga damgo ang
kamatuoran nga inanay diay nagpatianod sa lingla ug mga bakak ang binuhat nga gihalaran
sa tiunay nga pagbati. Bisan paman kun ugaling ikaw may pagkulang ngadto kaniya wala kini
magahatag kaniya ug igong hinungdan para dulaan ang pagminahalay nga dugay na nga gibisbisan
ug giamoma sa paglabay sa pipila katuigan.

[mindtrickz]

student nga jedi sa star wars. ang tawag sa guy sa akong uyab kay "my padawan" so my student.. ngilngig noh? sus katanga jud diay nako oi

kuyaw na bro, unsa kahay "GI-TEACH" anang laki sa imong GF

[vahnhelsing]

^^^mao na ni ron... teach me how to dougie..

[yaj.em]

hi guys. update:

ingon siya wa ra daw siya nagcheat. nagflirt ra daw siya sauna dayon tagsa ra daw sila tigtext. di ko gusto mutuo kay gitago gud niya dayon nangilad pajud siya ug grabe para lang di nako mahibawan. ang reason daw nga iya gitago ang guy from me kay tungod daw mahadlok siya nga masuko ko. pero bisan pa gusto ko mutuo, magduda man jud ko kay gitago gud niya. daghan pwede nahitabo. lisod jud uy. giatay nalang. di na ko makasalig

ikaw ra jd ang gihimo ug boang TS. Pero ok ra na... makasabot ra pd ko if mgpaboang ka kay love mn nimo. Sayang pd ang 7yrs if i let go nimo without a fight.

Pero if dili na nimo mabalik ang trust, ayaw na lng. Magsige lng mo away ana. Dili na maging healthy in relationships. If dili xa mosugot, hatagi xa chance na mapakita nya sa imo kung unsa jd ka niya ka love....

pero lage TS, giboang naman ka gd. kung mohatag ka ug chance, nya boangon ka ug usab, imo nana sala.

ASK YOURSELF na lng kung UNSA ANG MAKALIPAY NIMO. And answet it WITHOUT "BUT's". Then do it.

[gcc4426]

to be honest, i wanna stay. pero i dont want to spend the rest of my life looking over my shoulder kay magsige lang kog duda. I had this friend during my review who also had a 7 year relationship. his girl slept with another guy during her internship in manila. the guy just broke down and siya ang pinakahappy-go-lucky sa among barkada. he wouldnt sleep, wouldnt eat, cries every hour, tanan. ako ang tigkuha niya sa mga imnanan ig kadlawn kay maghubog siya nga siya ra usa. wa siya nipadayon sa among review bisan dako na kaayo siyag nagasto. ang iyang gibuhat karon kay bantay sarado na sa uyab. tanan buhaton sa uyab bantayan jud niya. di na halos makiglaag kay mahadlok muunsa ang uyab.

i dont wanna be that guy.

ok, if mao na imong gusto...padayon bai. bahala ka.
pero ayg reklamo nga ga.ingani ingana nimong uyab ha...
you are putting yourself in a constant mental anguish

[jan_moreno]

the best way to do ani do kay 1) mag-istorya mo if unsa jud inyo mga problems or specific confrontation; 2) if u want to end it..... end it peacefully..... never ug buhi ug negative comments..... 3) after ending it up, go to church and pray, and then moved on....