What do you believe to be the root of most problems in relationships?

[chik_08]

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para nako it all starts with One's SELFISHNESS

which would eventually lead to

third parties
Lust over another person
secrets
lies
and etc..


mao nang pangutana na "are we really willing to offer some sacrifices for the sake of love?"
kay wrong expectations definitely causes complications..

indeed wynn, being selfish is being immature... respect should be in between both of you.. once you learn how to respect, you'll learn how to understand ...

[momiji11]

trust..once trust is lost all other things will follow....

[chik_08]

Hmmm dipendi bya xa for me i dont really give a support for Money, yes money is the cost of everything in a relationship but take not that we could be avoided if we really put trust in God ur relationship specially for those married coz you take a promised that "for better or for worse" "tell death do us part" we will love each other forever and ever" AMEN hehehe be responsible lang jud mo to each other let the communication active and be open to each other. do u believe those saying "Bahalag saging basta loving?" its not really the money hu roll the relationship its the LOVE if u love each other then you both can stand all those storms that u encountered on your journey of LOVE

"Money issues can be one of the biggest, you will have to work through. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT JUD"
In your marriage vows you most likely promised to “love, honor, and cherish” each other, “for better or for worse, for richer or poorer.” But when you said those vows to each other and to God, you may not have fully realized that the “better and worse” of times would visit you during the “richer or poorer” times, particularly during the times when you feel the poorest. THAT’S one of the many times in your marriage when you need to come together and show teamwork. It takes real teamwork to make "MONEY" work FOR you, in your marriage, rather than allow it to work against both of you and divide you.....

[chik_08]

Yes!!! human being as we are have our own priorities in life, family, friends, career, hobby, etc...if you dont know where u stand and organized your self for hus goes first then at the end you ended up sacrificing some of it that you dont have a choice but to accept it, in a relationship always put ur shoes to our behalf to that you will know were you are from her/him located. its just like saving a persons on a crash vehicle your first priority is to save a person hu have a chance to survive and dont waste ur time for those person hu is dying and about to die.

hmm.. If you enter a relationship...Your relationship should always be a priority--not the only priority, but definitely a main priority. But ... since we are only human and not perfect, as life sets in, errands must be run, jobs must be done and our sole focus, understandably the relationship, is no longer on one another. It's reality.... we all have competing priorities that we have to constantly balance.

[stuart]

"Money issues can be one of the biggest, you will have to work through. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT JUD"
In your marriage vows you most likely promised to “love, honor, and cherish” each other, “for better or for worse, for richer or poorer.” But when you said those vows to each other and to God, you may not have fully realized that the “better and worse” of times would visit you during the “richer or poorer” times, particularly during the times when you feel the poorest. THAT’S one of the many times in your marriage when you need to come together and show teamwork. It takes real teamwork to make "MONEY" work FOR you, in your marriage, rather than allow it to work against both of you and divide you.....

Dipendi man gud na sis if ur talking about MONEY in your relationship coz for me i dont really stick on money for being the root of bad relationship, will i dont know sa uban dha they cant leave without those money they want it to be on their wallet, if those people was born in the city i guess but for those people who was raise and born in country side, there relationship last even if they dont have enough money...its the LOVE you invested in the relationship and not the MONEY, so for me money is a BIG no no on a bad relationship yes still part of it but not a MUST hehehe

[chik_08]

trust..once trust is lost all other things will follow....

Trust in a relationship may sound like a simple notion but it's not... it's the hardest attribute to give in a relationship bec your opening up your mind and heart to another person with no way of knowing if its really worth it. Especially when the other one was involved in screwed up break up and messed up relationship beforehand. It's our own fears, our own fear of being hurt or rejected that stops us from trusting anyone.

[stuart]

true, but i dont believe that guys should cater "ALL" expenses in a relationship.. girls should work too dli lng magsalig coz its a basic essential to survive this game.. called LIFE!

I BeG to dis.agree MONEY is not the problem lagi for having bad relationship, IF thats happen kanang bayhana nawong nag kwarta, ug ang imng kwarta ra ang gi.apas ana dili ikaw, so patay kang bata ka if maka sugat kag ing.ana na baye k im pretty sure ur life will ruin until you die because of this girls concept na kwarta ra ang maka pa strong sa relationship

[chik_08]

Dipendi man gud na sis if ur talking about MONEY in your relationship coz for me i dont really stick on money for being the root of bad relationship, will i dont know sa uban dha they cant leave without those money they want it to be on their wallet, if those people was born in the city i guess but for those people who was raise and born in country side, there relationship last even if they dont have enough money...its the LOVE you invested in the relationship and not the MONEY, so for me money is a BIG no no on a bad relationship yes still part of it but not a MUST hehehe

hmmmmm.... MONEY...we can't deny it's important, that is why "both" should work through it. Nowadays, everything revolves around money... we can say, we can surpass having no money, YES ..but only in a period of time! Eventually .. even how strong the love is, it wont function well without "Money".. there is no such thing in the world of today as "FREE", even your basic essential need which is food, needs money!

[chik_08]

I BeG to dis.agree MONEY is not the problem lagi for having bad relationship, IF thats happen kanang bayhana nawong nag kwarta, ug ang imng kwarta ra ang gi.apas ana dili ikaw, so patay kang bata ka if maka sugat kag ing.ana na baye k im pretty sure ur life will ruin until you die because of this girls concept na kwarta ra ang maka pa strong sa relationship

THAT IS WHY gani, I quoted above nga " I DONT BELIV GUYS SHOULD CATER ALL EXPENSES IN A RELATIONSHIP".... dli mana naung ug kwarta kay essential mana ninung duha, if mature enough mo, dli mo mag,tuga2 sud ug relationship kng d mo financially stable..

[stuart]

hmmmmm.... MONEY...we can't deny it's important, that is why "both" should work through it. Nowadays, everything revolves around money... we can say, we can surpass having no money, YES ..but only in a period of time! Eventually .. even how strong the love is, it wont function well without "Money".. there is no such thing in the world of today as "FREE", even your basic essential need which is food, needs money!

Sorry if i disagree about money, hehehe i said its not a MUST for money my point is, it depends im not saying NO what im trying to say here is MONEY will not ruin ur relationship to the max if you both invested LOVE and money will come but not really a must that your relationship will die and ended to broke up, you know if that happen murag your only seating on a small box and dpending only on whats the box can offer to you, you can explore in anyways to make money if you invest LOVE in your relationship and not the MONEY, lets end this way if your in the city i guess MONEY is the issue but if leaves in the country side naaahhh i dont think MONEY will be the root of broken relatioship, i have something to tell you about this how relationship dont last but not here chik-08 ill PM you if u like hehe