Tell Tale signs you are being played (pls post your advice and insights)

[SUEper.braces]

Heya sueper brace...

Sensya na if karun ruh pud ko kareply balik... Got caught up with a couple of stuff eh.... hehe

Anyways miga... you know, daghan pa man laki na tarung jud... hahaha
I mean, speaking in behalf of most of my buddies, bugoy2x ruh mi tan.awn but mga serious din kami when it comes to relationships. Boring din naman kung super tarung pud kaau mi to the extent na restricted kaau mi with stuff that guys normally do. The cool thing is, our girl friends know jud what we do and naa jud trust between friends. hehe

With regards to yer question miga noh... I would give the girl the option to drop me off or not. In other words, dili ako ang mag.una2x ug buwag sa girl even if suko jud kaau ko niya. I dunno really pero, for me, mas lain man gud paminawn na ang girl ang gibuwagan sa guy... it sounds like, ungentleman ruh pud kaau ang guy ba.

Although honestly pud, I have my limits. If angay jud siya buwagun, then i won't hesitate to do so. Pero if ako na gani ang sayup, like what you said, ako daw magcheat... I give her the option to either have me or break up with me. I would voice out to her lang pud why i did so... and find a good solution sa problem. Dili napud ko mutalk back niya if ever yaw-yawan ko niya coz i know sayup man nako. hehe

Pero reality-wise miga noh? happy na kaau ko aning uyab nako... hahaha
makig duwa ug Dota, WOW, aka ultimate gamer gurl... plus, okay ruh jud kaau niya if we date cheap since medyo kapus pa kami... business-minded pud... pretty and smart.. hahahaha

Proud kaau ko niya... XD

hi diz,

thanks for sharing your thoughts. i really admire how you handle your relatioship and how you try to balance your life, based sa imung gi-share. i know, boring man ang tarung kaayu na guy. as for me, super duper below the belt na man sab ang nahitabo namo. like, super immature kaayu to akong ex. ang reason pa niya why he leaft was, nabag-ohan daw siya sa nahitabo. as in super stupid kaayu iyang reasons ai, anyways. i'm smart enough man pud to know na i'm being played with. so gpasagdan nalang kano siya oi, kapoy. lol

salute pud ko sa imung gf so being sa great sport. di bitaw kanang bratty na baye. i wish you well sa inyung relationship. kun mag-away mo, pa-ilub lang Diz, lisud na sab baya ipangitag tarong na baye ron panahona.

tc

[SUEper.braces]

^kaw pud super.braces sexy kau, wetwew!

thanks yanz. migo jud ta dah

[walker]

lisud na sab baya ipangitag tarong na baye ron panahona

"lisod" is a qualitative description of something of immense magnitude in importance quantitively.

[yandz]

@sueper.braces, as always my friend

[SUEper.braces]

"lisod" is a qualitative description of something of immense magnitude in importance quantitively.

i get you.
meaning naa ra nimu ug unsaon nimu pag- contextualize ang word na lisod, lol
love it.

[walker]

i get you.
meaning naa ra nimu ug unsaon nimu pag- contextualize ang word na lisod, lol
love it.

...words are finite, like islands in a wide ocean
but feelings is like the ether, it touches and connects every
thought, emotion, dreams, as well as torments and lies

i am being played, and i feel it
signs i see with my eyes closed, words i hear with my deaf ears
coldness that burn with intensity of death

[bodacious_babe]

OT:
mine, i'm sincerely grateful sa imung advise. appreciate nako na willing ka mu-listen sa truth and sa tanan, maski di kaau nice na things na akong gi-share dinhi sa istorya. sometimes man gud mine, pagma-hurt ang baye, lisud kaayu i-recover. but kun naa lang jud guy na willing mu-understand niya through the pain, ma-okay na jud na siya eventually. And if naa man galing new found love, prudent na pud kaayu ang mga girls sa ilang new lover. mao ni ang naka-pait sa mga girls na niagi na ug brokenheartedness, mine.

but gina-try jud namo to be the best partner.

OnT:
babe, okay ra ka diha sis? musta na ka? musta love life? naa na? hehehe, tawag2x nlng gud ming mine ug mine para at least maski sa istorya kay inspired ta, woot!

----> Uu nara ko diri, busy kaayo sa work..hehehe..pero cge lang, keep 'em comin; kay ga cge lang ko read sa inyo posts...

hehehe Ok ra ang inyo terms of endearment wui..lingaw kaayo gani ko hahahaah

take care nomens and sueper braces!

@ quirkychinita : sis i love your posts too!.. naka learn pod ko .. salamat ha... and sa tanan active diri ga post. salamat sad.

peace out!

[michaelbitawko]

@ SUEper.braces and DizCyple .. thanks for the insights. You both got a good conversation/discussion going and we are learning from you both..

sakto jud tanan akong nabasa diri... I guess the next step is for me to let go, move on and continue the search na pod. Sakit kaayo pero it happened and i cannot be in denial any longer.

I wanted to continue unta the discussion with a follow up question addressed to the men however women are welcome to post as well.. and here is that thought nga ga cge jud bother nako:

to the Men: unsa man jud inyo gusto sa babayi para maka ingon mo nga siya na. Unsa mga traits inyo ganahan? Importante jud ba nga sexy? ga make up? unsa pod inyo dili jud ganahan sa mga girls?

Part II of the discussion that I 'm hoping would be just as interesting and insighful..

para sa ako:

1. Girl nga bahala dili gwapa basta maau mo dala ug panamit unya kanang mag shorts or mini skirt lang sa balay
2. dili tantong daut medyo malaman pod
3. kasaligan dili makig talk sa lain guy nga naa ang uyab
4. mo holding hands sa uyab or gakos2x

hehehehe

[bodacious_babe]

para sa ako:

1. Girl nga bahala dili gwapa basta maau mo dala ug panamit unya kanang mag shorts or mini skirt lang sa balay
2. dili tantong daut medyo malaman pod
3. kasaligan dili makig talk sa lain guy nga naa ang uyab
4. mo holding hands sa uyab or gakos2x

hehehehe

-----> michaelbitawko: thank you, thank you, thank you! kibaw ka unsa akong pasabot.hehehehe ka swerte ba diay sa imong uyab wui kay ma appreciate man nimo. ako ni buhaton.

naa ko follow up question for you unta:

1. lets say, imo sister or cousin imo warningan parte sa inyo mga lalaki - unsa imo isulti nila para ma warningnan sila about any guy. unsa amo bantayan?

[michaelbitawko]

-----> michaelbitawko: thank you, thank you, thank you! kibaw ka unsa akong pasabot.hehehehe ka swerte ba diay sa imong uyab wui kay ma appreciate man nimo. ako ni buhaton.

naa ko follow up question for you unta:

1. lets say, imo sister or cousin imo warningan parte sa inyo mga lalaki - unsa imo isulti nila para ma warningnan sila about any guy. unsa amo bantayan?

actually broken hearted ko ron nagbuwag lang mi ganina hehehe ...i hate long distance man gud ...mao visit ko ani nga thread naa man d i anyway ako ikatambag.


kuan:
1. dili mo uli ug kadlawn
2. laag lang kung naay lain girl friend na kauban para mabantayan ka in case ma hubog or unsa
3. wear pants during night ( para d ma tental angmga guys ) hehehe