Tell Tale signs you are being played (pls post your advice and insights)

[nomens]

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----> i will pray for you, nomens.. para maka move on na ka and at the same time, makit-an na nimo ang girl nga para sa imo. sabi nga ng mga matatanda.. once the train comes, you can't miss it.. kung time na nga mo abot ang para imoha, di jud na nimo malagpasan..mo hunong jud na sa imong atubangan ug maka sakay jud ka. wala ta kibaw, naa ra diay sa imong atubangan.. hehehe

thanks babe... aw kun naa gani magsurang2x aw sakyan jud daun... hahahahaha... laptop ra jud tawn naa prmi sa akong atubangan babe... lisuraaah... lolz

[bodacious_babe]

thanks babe... aw kun naa gani magsurang2x aw sakyan jud daun... hahahahaha... laptop ra jud tawn naa prmi sa akong atubangan babe... lisuraaah... lolz

-----> hep hep.. sa imo style kay murag ikaw na nuon ma "tag" ana nga player?? hahaha..

[nomens]

-----> hep hep.. sa imo style kay murag ikaw na nuon ma "tag" ana nga player?? hahaha..

ai, dili na ko anang play2x woi... bad man na, give chances... hehehehe

[bodacious_babe]

ai, dili na ko anang play2x woi... bad man na, give chances... hehehehe

-----> hahaha! basta balita-i nya mi ha unsa updates sa imo lablayp!

[nomens]

-----> hahaha! basta balita-i nya mi ha unsa updates sa imo lablayp!

Sure! why not! Ako jud ipost diri sa estorya among pic... hahahahaha

[bodacious_babe]

Sure! why not! Ako jud ipost diri sa estorya among pic... hahahahaha

-----> yehey, cge cge hehehe

[SUEper.braces]

Arrghh... U remind me of my EX calling me Honey, Honey! :P

Anyhow, kun nituo ang girl sa imu, meaning love ka niya, not because dumb siya. ha? loud and clear Hon... I may sound contradicting myself, but I'm not, i got cheated, she did a fast one on me, i was caught off guard but still i caught her, but she did not caught me cheating, that's my point Hon... I'm not saying na dumb to akong EX, actually, she did pretty well that i could not even tell that she's already cheating or maybe i was just blind, but i'm not dumb... lolz :P

Ok let me just rephrase this line para clear "Kun player ang guy, lisud jud matell samot kun mgpakablind ang gurl...".. :P

hala, sorry kaayo nomen...i did not know..cge, bawi-un nalang nako akong pag-honey, honey..(bawi)

pero, i'm more sorry you got cheated on by your ex, ka-relate kaau ko ana. and it doesn't feel right jud when everybody else knows about it and you're still left with no clue, gi-stab na diay ka sa back, pa-sweet2x pa jud nimu ang amaw. pak xet (ehem, maka-wa ug poise dah)!

but after all, i'm glad ur fine. i'm fine. siguro, cheating is just one of the bitter odds of life. and you and i are a few of the unfortunate ones who got cheated on. but life goes on, diba brad?

kun, naa man gani mag-cheat, i know eventually karma will get back to them. and it will pass through them swiftly seven times fold, mutuo ba ka ani, nomens?? ako kai mutuo man ko ani.

peace&love

[nomens]

hala, sorry kaayo nomen...i did not know..cge, bawi-un nalang nako akong pag-honey, honey..(bawi)

pero, i'm more sorry you got cheated on by your ex, ka-relate kaau ko ana. and it doesn't feel right jud when everybody else knows about it and you're still left with no clue, gi-stab na diay ka sa back, pa-sweet2x pa jud nimu ang amaw. pak xet (ehem, maka-wa ug poise dah)!

but after all, i'm glad ur fine. i'm fine. siguro, cheating is just one of the bitter odds of life. and you and i are a few of the unfortunate ones who got cheated on. but life goes on, diba brad?

kun, naa man gani mag-cheat, i know eventually karma will get back to them. and it will pass through them swiftly seven times fold, mutuo ba ka ani, nomens?? ako kai mutuo man ko ani.

peace&love

Okay ra woist, na mis man sad hinoon na nako ang tawag nga honey... hahahaha but is it okay if I call you mine? Just for a time, and I will be just fine... hehehehe...

i would say, we are fortunately unfortunate that we experience such moments in our lives... but despite all of this, i'm glad it happen, otherwise i would not be the better person that i am now... and to you brad :P

i don't know mine, i mean, motoo ko aning cause and effect, but when you say karma, it's like you are hoping that something bad will happen to the person who cause pain in your heart... and i'm like that, dili ko mgtanum ug kalagot sa mga tawo nga makapasakit nako, instead magpasalamat ko nila and hope that they will find peace... so karma is out of my mind mine...

[superidol]

sweet lng qng jer-jeron ka nya.. qng dli gni, dedmahon lng

[SUEper.braces]

Hmm... You know miga...

Makarelate jud ko sa imung experience. Although sa amung relationship, ako jud ang weak link. Dali ko maibug ug other girls and such. Kasagaran man gud close friends nako kai girls jud. I do find it unfair man pud sa girl friend nako and since di sad ko ganahan malain ang gf ko, I make it a habit jud na if i like the girl, I'll tell my gf right away. The thing there is, I always assure her na crush lang and nothing more.
I don't wanna break up kasi with my girl friend for the wrong reasons eh especially if tungod sa lain na girl. With that, at least at ease napud ang mind niya knowing that she could trust me.

Sus miga, kana pung makakitag chix? naaah! active kaau ko ana... sige'g panglingi... the funny thing is, pirmi nako sultion sa gf ko na look lang and no touch.... hahaha
So yun, malingaw ruh man siya nako kai cute man pud au daw ko tanawn (naks! hahaha) so musabay nalang pud siya...
Maglalis nalang gud mi duha gud kung gwapa ba jud or dili... hahaha
And sometimes the other way around pud para fair pud for her... although it sounds awkward kaau and gay pero mangita pud kog guy na chui2x then akong ipa.rate sa akong gf kung pasar niya ang looks...
Trip2x lang namin gud...

In the end... makasulti ko sa akong self na amazing jud akong gf... hahaha
pero di sab ko magpalabi ug manglingi ug chix kai murag sad tag buang ana... hahaha

do it moderately lang... XD

Anyways miga... with regards pud sa nahitabo nimu... Love and pain are two sides of the same coin...

It's all i could say jud. I mean, nahurt ka na kasi nung guy pero since love nimu siya willing gihapon ka muforgive and all. Diha pud ko nabilib nimu. Kay ako? ambut nalang jud miga, maglisud siguro ko ug pasaylo. It's situations like that man gud na indication for me na break up najud mi. Murag, sign napud na nako to do so ba... Although, i can't really say pud if di jud ko kaforgive or muforgive jud ko since ala pa jud ko ka.experience that i've been cheated on. Mudepend lang jud siguro nako when the time comes which i hope it never comes... hahaha

For now, saludo jud ko nimu...

hello Dizcyple,

thank you for the insights. appreciate kaau nako imung gi-share. and I for one, salute you for being honest to your girlfriend. gamay nalang man gud ang mga laki na kasaligan these days. good thing your girl got you. bason mu-breed pa ang mga tarong na laki para daghan na mo. lol

anyways, i don't know kung love ba jud ang reason why we still went out. I guess pud sayang ang 5 years. imagine? he left me for someone whom he met over at work for 5 months? funny, right? and i had a suitor naman pud when he was trying to reach out again, siguro kapoy nkog entertain ug lain. mao wala nako to gisugot, or i was still hurting pajud..i don't know.

Diz, i want to ask you this, straight from a guys point of view, in the event that ur gf catches you having an affair with another girl, will you leave her? or what? puzzled baya ghapon ko til now why he had to leave. i should say na bout mi sa isa ka-girl, only that mas dugay mi skong ex bf compared sa ila duha...haaayy