Tell Tale signs you are being played (pls post your advice and insights)

[dream_catcher]

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for me,dili ka duwaan og laki if sa first impression palang nila,you are not the kind of girl to be played with..
as i observe jud,kasagaran sa mga duwa-duwaan,kana pung magpa too vulnerable og fragile..i am not saying
nga dapat isog ka,but make sure nga you will make your guy feel nga you are not someone nga ma toy2x lang..

[amingb]

Lisod ni siya kay ako dijud ko mahibaw-an nga magbinuang ko ...

[bodacious_babe]

amazing! so she approves of you calling her names? hehehe, bilib sab ko sa ninyu dah. that is a good sign na mag-kalsinabut mo maski unsa pa inyung flaws. wishing you the best in your relationship. Mao ra man siguro ni ang important i relationships noh? whatever your partner's flaws may be , basta you understand and you communicate your concerns sa each other and give and take ang pagpa-ilub, naa man ganiy away usahay, apan ma-solb ra jud ang problema.

haaay, kani nitawng cheating noh, dako ning tabag-hak sa realtionships. Kun maibog man gani ta ug lain, we have to be honest about our feelings and face the consequences of our actions.

kami bitaw sako bf sa una kai kaagi sab ug in-ani. there was a time na i happen to like someone else, then murag na-feel bitaw nako na lahi na jud akong feelings toward atong lain sa guy. what I did was, i talked to my bf and told him na i'm liking someone else. then we talked na-unsa among relationship. where we have gone wrong. unsa iyang flaws, unsa akong flaws, then i decided na di na ko tig friend atong guy na naganahan nako... It's a matter of choice raman jud. and prayers.

then, 6 mos. later siya na sab ang naganahan ug lain na girl. but this was sad this time coz he really decided to take a break from our relationship, as in sad and blue kaau ko ato...and the signs na he already was WITH the other girl is katong prev post nako sa istorya, check lang nya ang prev thread ani. then I gave him space. 1 month jud mi wa nagtalk and nagkita, and i let them both go najud. the other girl and i even texted each other and i wished them well sa ilang relationship. wa man ko nipigung ato niya coz i believed na if di jud meant to be, maski ilugus nimo, di jud meant to be.

then, after 1 month, my ex bf texted me, nag-ask siya ug forgiveness, another chance daw. then, na-happy ko coz love jud nako siya, but ang hurt, naa jud gihapon even hantud karon. i don't think it will ever go away. karon he's happy na. all i hope is that mag-honest lang jud ta sa tong partners, coz breaking up is very hard to deal with (no words can express the emotions of being left alone and being cheated on) pero if it's not for you, you just have to learn to accept and move on.

peace& love, sue

----> thank you for sharing your experience, Sue, it means love jud ka sa imo uyab kay nakig balik jud siya nimo. i wish you both good luck sa inyo panag uyab and sakto jud to imo gi buhat that you set him free. nakahuna huna jud siya kinsa iya ganahan which made your union stronger na hinuon..

hello babe,

hehe, to be honest noh, and i dont mean to hurt or offend anybody in this forum but sa akong experience kai i thought na okay na sa mga boys ang buutan, simple, generous, kind, loving, caring, pero sa real world, naa pud kelangan ang mga boys na beyond sa atong kind hearts, mao ni ang earthly wants and needs nila from us. example: lamig lawas, gwapa or at least masuruy, lamig hair, these are some of the assets na boys are looking for sa mga girls, esp kun boys na mabaw ra sab ug utuk, hehehe no offense ha. but for you dear, i hope maka-kita naka eventually sa guy na meant for you na mutan-aw nimu sa imung kindness anf loyalty, over the earthly needs sa men. pray lang gud ta. ayaw lang mag-cge ug anticipate day na muabot si mr. right for you. he will come, in time.

peace&love

---> ako jud gi suwat sa samin imong gi share about lamig lawas, gwapa, lamig hair, hahahaha! ako, i am setting him free kay murag latagaw pa ug utok e. pero maski iya ko gina pakitaan ug ngil-ad, love man gud jud nako. so i am still hoping for the best.

maka hilak man sad ta ani og mani......

---> hahahahaha! mani jud?? pwede bugas na lang?

Lisod ni siya kay ako dijud ko mahibaw-an nga magbinuang ko ...

-----> hahahahaha! women have instincts! watch out! maayo kaayo mi mu sakop ninyo ^_^

[nomens]

Kun player ang guy, lisud jud matell samot kun dumb ang gurl... lolz

I used to be a good player, till i realized nga sayop ang magplay so i stopped. Ironically i ended up being played with a woman whom i could never imagine doing such arrgghhh...

My point is, you could never tell until it hits you, specially if you are blinded by this so called Love!

[SUEper.braces]

Kun player ang guy, lisud jud matell samot kun dumb ang gurl... lolz

I used to be a good player, till i realized nga sayop ang magplay so i stopped. Ironically i ended up being played with a woman whom i could never imagine doing such arrgghhh...

My point is, you could never tell until it hits you, specially if you are blinded by this so called Love!

honey, please dont say na di jud masakpan ang player esp kun dumb ang girl. Wa may bugo, hon, when it comes to love. just like what you said, ma-blinded ra jud ta sa love, na we choose to deny that the person whom we share our dreams with is capable of cheating on us. maolang ni honey.

ikaw abi o, wa man gani ka ga-expect na i-cheat diay ka sa girl na imung naganahan eventually. diba? kun nituo ang girl sa imu, meaning love ka niya, not because dumb siya. ha?

peace&love

[DizCyple]

amazing! so she approves of you calling her names? hehehe, bilib sab ko sa ninyu dah. that is a good sign na mag-kalsinabut mo maski unsa pa inyung flaws. wishing you the best in your relationship. Mao ra man siguro ni ang important i relationships noh? whatever your partner's flaws may be , basta you understand and you communicate your concerns sa each other and give and take ang pagpa-ilub, naa man ganiy away usahay, apan ma-solb ra jud ang problema.

haaay, kani nitawng cheating noh, dako ning tabag-hak sa realtionships. Kun maibog man gani ta ug lain, we have to be honest about our feelings and face the consequences of our actions.

kami bitaw sako bf sa una kai kaagi sab ug in-ani. there was a time na i happen to like someone else, then murag na-feel bitaw nako na lahi na jud akong feelings toward atong lain sa guy. what I did was, i talked to my bf and told him na i'm liking someone else. then we talked na-unsa among relationship. where we have gone wrong. unsa iyang flaws, unsa akong flaws, then i decided na di na ko tig friend atong guy na naganahan nako... It's a matter of choice raman jud. and prayers.

then, 6 mos. later siya na sab ang naganahan ug lain na girl. but this was sad this time coz he really decided to take a break from our relationship, as in sad and blue kaau ko ato...and the signs na he already was WITH the other girl is katong prev post nako sa istorya, check lang nya ang prev thread ani. then I gave him space. 1 month jud mi wa nagtalk and nagkita, and i let them both go najud. the other girl and i even texted each other and i wished them well sa ilang relationship. wa man ko nipigung ato niya coz i believed na if di jud meant to be, maski ilugus nimo, di jud meant to be.

then, after 1 month, my ex bf texted me, nag-ask siya ug forgiveness, another chance daw. then, na-happy ko coz love jud nako siya, but ang hurt, naa jud gihapon even hantud karon. i don't think it will ever go away. karon he's happy na. all i hope is that mag-honest lang jud ta sa tong partners, coz breaking up is very hard to deal with (no words can express the emotions of being left alone and being cheated on) pero if it's not for you, you just have to learn to accept and move on.

peace& love, sue

Hmm... You know miga...

Makarelate jud ko sa imung experience. Although sa amung relationship, ako jud ang weak link. Dali ko maibug ug other girls and such. Kasagaran man gud close friends nako kai girls jud. I do find it unfair man pud sa girl friend nako and since di sad ko ganahan malain ang gf ko, I make it a habit jud na if i like the girl, I'll tell my gf right away. The thing there is, I always assure her na crush lang and nothing more.
I don't wanna break up kasi with my girl friend for the wrong reasons eh especially if tungod sa lain na girl. With that, at least at ease napud ang mind niya knowing that she could trust me.

Sus miga, kana pung makakitag chix? naaah! active kaau ko ana... sige'g panglingi... the funny thing is, pirmi nako sultion sa gf ko na look lang and no touch.... hahaha
So yun, malingaw ruh man siya nako kai cute man pud au daw ko tanawn (naks! hahaha) so musabay nalang pud siya...
Maglalis nalang gud mi duha gud kung gwapa ba jud or dili... hahaha
And sometimes the other way around pud para fair pud for her... although it sounds awkward kaau and gay pero mangita pud kog guy na chui2x then akong ipa.rate sa akong gf kung pasar niya ang looks...
Trip2x lang namin gud...

In the end... makasulti ko sa akong self na amazing jud akong gf... hahaha
pero di sab ko magpalabi ug manglingi ug chix kai murag sad tag buang ana... hahaha

do it moderately lang... XD

Anyways miga... with regards pud sa nahitabo nimu... Love and pain are two sides of the same coin...

It's all i could say jud. I mean, nahurt ka na kasi nung guy pero since love nimu siya willing gihapon ka muforgive and all. Diha pud ko nabilib nimu. Kay ako? ambut nalang jud miga, maglisud siguro ko ug pasaylo. It's situations like that man gud na indication for me na break up najud mi. Murag, sign napud na nako to do so ba... Although, i can't really say pud if di jud ko kaforgive or muforgive jud ko since ala pa jud ko ka.experience that i've been cheated on. Mudepend lang jud siguro nako when the time comes which i hope it never comes... hahaha

For now, saludo jud ko nimu...

[bella_ella]

if one party is keeping secrets from you,

[Chel Fernandez]

when there is love there is pain... great pains are from great love... so it cannot be prevented... it happens... especially that when we become in love we are expose to vulnerability...
we cannot prevent such thou we can lessen...
and there are no wrong person... everyone who comes, are exactly what we need as of the moment...
there are wrong situations and wrong choices but never wrong people...

I think the best way to be staying away to this kind of people is too be observant, dili magdali dali og sugot (for girls)...
and if ni gawas ang baho nila katong ni abot namo og months... then obeserve again and talk about it... now if they do not change... then let go... sakit pero at least kausa rah...
I think we know the signs of such things so I will not mention anything... after all I believe all of us can determine a failing relationship... sometimes lang we choose to be blind... and we tend to rationalize... i think most people do...
klaro na kaayo ang signs... mohatag pa gyud og rason para mapositive...

i think thou it does not answer your question straightly... you will get my point...

[spike412]

ngano man pud ning uban bae noh ako lang ma-notice kay they know that they are being played but they chose to keep the relationship. innate bya gyud nato ang naay intuition and makafeel ta that something is not right pero magpablind gyud ta kay hoping ma-atua ang guy. ang ending byaan ra gyapon ta.

ambot na lang ning gugmang giatay.

[bokikoy]

una gyud buhaton, ayaw tuo anang mga storya2x kay usa na sa maka daot sa inyong relasyon

mas maau sad ikaw mismo maka kita og solid ang ebidensya nga gi dulaan ka

if ma prove na nimo talk to him/her....

if all else fails... naa pa daghan tao sa kalibutan ayaw pilit sa tao nga dili diay para sa imo

ambot lang if uso pa ang martyr pero para nako... di na nalang ko mamugos sa gugma nga di para ako

tagay nga mga pre!!!!