Tell Tale signs you are being played (pls post your advice and insights)

[sushikandi]

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1. He doesnt tell you his complete name, too shady to tell about his family.

2. He only sees you or talks to you at his own terms

3. He is inconsistent and has too many excuses.

4. He doesnt let you meet his friend and family.

5. Too good to be true.

[dangelndisguise]

1. He doesnt tell you his complete name, too shady to tell about his family.

2. He only sees you or talks to you at his own terms

3. He is inconsistent and has too many excuses.

4. He doesnt let you meet his friend and family.

5. Too good to be true.

yes, if one is keeping secrets from you

[siopao1984]

kanang untangan bitaw ka unya wala ka ge bayaran.

[dangelndisguise]

kanang untangan bitaw ka unya wala ka ge bayaran.

mgpautang diay ka siopao? hahaha pautanga ko bhe

[hans josefina]

mailhan rana nimo basta taas kag panglantaw..

[Gone_rouge]

ibid-ibid dayon kung ting sweldo nah.. hehe

[bodacious_babe]

Hmm... You know miga...

Makarelate jud ko sa imung experience. Although sa amung relationship, ako jud ang weak link. Dali ko maibug ug other girls and such. Kasagaran man gud close friends nako kai girls jud. I do find it unfair man pud sa girl friend nako and since di sad ko ganahan malain ang gf ko, I make it a habit jud na if i like the girl, I'll tell my gf right away. The thing there is, I always assure her na crush lang and nothing more.
I don't wanna break up kasi with my girl friend for the wrong reasons eh especially if tungod sa lain na girl. With that, at least at ease napud ang mind niya knowing that she could trust me.

Sus miga, kana pung makakitag chix? naaah! active kaau ko ana... sige'g panglingi... the funny thing is, pirmi nako sultion sa gf ko na look lang and no touch.... hahaha
So yun, malingaw ruh man siya nako kai cute man pud au daw ko tanawn (naks! hahaha) so musabay nalang pud siya...
Maglalis nalang gud mi duha gud kung gwapa ba jud or dili... hahaha
And sometimes the other way around pud para fair pud for her... although it sounds awkward kaau and gay pero mangita pud kog guy na chui2x then akong ipa.rate sa akong gf kung pasar niya ang looks...
Trip2x lang namin gud...

In the end... makasulti ko sa akong self na amazing jud akong gf... hahaha
pero di sab ko magpalabi ug manglingi ug chix kai murag sad tag buang ana... hahaha

do it moderately lang... XD

Anyways miga... with regards pud sa nahitabo nimu... Love and pain are two sides of the same coin...

It's all i could say jud. I mean, nahurt ka na kasi nung guy pero since love nimu siya willing gihapon ka muforgive and all. Diha pud ko nabilib nimu. Kay ako? ambut nalang jud miga, maglisud siguro ko ug pasaylo. It's situations like that man gud na indication for me na break up najud mi. Murag, sign napud na nako to do so ba... Although, i can't really say pud if di jud ko kaforgive or muforgive jud ko since ala pa jud ko ka.experience that i've been cheated on. Mudepend lang jud siguro nako when the time comes which i hope it never comes... hahaha

For now, saludo jud ko nimu...

----> nicely said.... salamat sa pag share. love is crazyyy!

honey, please dont say na di jud masakpan ang player esp kun dumb ang girl. Wa may bugo, hon, when it comes to love. just like what you said, ma-blinded ra jud ta sa love, na we choose to deny that the person whom we share our dreams with is capable of cheating on us. maolang ni honey.

ikaw abi o, wa man gani ka ga-expect na i-cheat diay ka sa girl na imung naganahan eventually. diba? kun nituo ang girl sa imu, meaning love ka niya, not because dumb siya. ha?

peace&love

----> good point sad ka ani.. we just need to hope for the best, nga maabot ra jud ang tarong nga tawo. eventually...

Kun player ang guy, lisud jud matell samot kun dumb ang gurl... lolz

I used to be a good player, till i realized nga sayop ang magplay so i stopped. Ironically i ended up being played with a woman whom i could never imagine doing such arrgghhh...

My point is, you could never tell until it hits you, specially if you are blinded by this so called Love!

----> so unsa man na feel nimo the moment it hit you that na bawsan ka? sakit sah?? I hope ma himo ni nga lesson sa tanan NOT to be a player.

when there is love there is pain... great pains are from great love... so it cannot be prevented... it happens... especially that when we become in love we are expose to vulnerability...
we cannot prevent such thou we can lessen...
and there are no wrong person... everyone who comes, are exactly what we need as of the moment...
there are wrong situations and wrong choices but never wrong people...

I think the best way to be staying away to this kind of people is too be observant, dili magdali dali og sugot (for girls)...
and if ni gawas ang baho nila katong ni abot namo og months... then obeserve again and talk about it... now if they do not change... then let go... sakit pero at least kausa rah...
I think we know the signs of such things so I will not mention anything... after all I believe all of us can determine a failing relationship... sometimes lang we choose to be blind... and we tend to rationalize... i think most people do...
klaro na kaayo ang signs... mohatag pa gyud og rason para mapositive...

i think thou it does not answer your question straightly... you will get my point...

----> no wrong people... i like this line...

if one party is keeping secrets from you,

---> sakto ka ani miga... mao jud ni!

ngano man pud ning uban bae noh ako lang ma-notice kay they know that they are being played but they chose to keep the relationship. innate bya gyud nato ang naay intuition and makafeel ta that something is not right pero magpablind gyud ta kay hoping ma-atua ang guy. ang ending byaan ra gyapon ta.

ambot na lang ning gugmang giatay.

-----> because we love the person. mao ni unconditional love.

una gyud buhaton, ayaw tuo anang mga storya2x kay usa na sa maka daot sa inyong relasyon

mas maau sad ikaw mismo maka kita og solid ang ebidensya nga gi dulaan ka

if ma prove na nimo talk to him/her....

if all else fails... naa pa daghan tao sa kalibutan ayaw pilit sa tao nga dili diay para sa imo

ambot lang if uso pa ang martyr pero para nako... di na nalang ko mamugos sa gugma nga di para ako

tagay nga mga pre!!!!

-----> dili maayo nga mamugos... maypa tagay na lang...hahaha!

1. He doesnt tell you his complete name, too shady to tell about his family.

2. He only sees you or talks to you at his own terms

3. He is inconsistent and has too many excuses.

4. He doesnt let you meet his friend and family.

5. Too good to be true.

-----> victime ko ani... sakto jud ni tanan...

yes, if one is keeping secrets from you

---> masakpan raba jud kadugayan. men are such lousy liars! lol

mgpautang diay ka siopao? hahaha pautanga ko bhe

---->> hahahaha, ako sad siopao beh... hahahaha

ibid-ibid dayon kung ting sweldo nah.. hehe

----> ayaw bangkahi! lol

[bodacious_babe]

bitaw oi, salamat sa tanan ni post. i am coping but it still hurts. i am still hoping though. sana makita nako ang tinuod cos i cannot speak for him pod since kalit ra siya nawala.. pag break nako niya, wala gani ni gukod. mao nga sakit sad jud. esp when i realized that i got played!

[jofer]

kana ig climax na mo i love you

[siopao1984]

mgpautang diay ka siopao? hahaha pautanga ko bhe

tagam nko anah. ma konsensya unta to. awayon kpa para d cguro kabayad utang. ako pa ang lain. tsk >.<