Tell Tale signs you are being played (pls post your advice and insights)

[DizCyple]

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lol, you dont have to apologize, DizCyple. But i appreciate your thoughtfulness. I do not mean to come to assertive, ing-ani ra jud ko, hehehe. sabta lang ko ha? And just so you know, wa man ko ma-offend oi, choz. maka-feel lang ko ba na murag uban sa mga traits sa girls kai halos in-ani man jud. anyways, darling, please dont describe your girlfriend as described in point #5 coz mu-hurt pud baya siguro siya ani if maka-basa siya. I guess naa ra moy communication gap. sometime, if not most of the time annoying jud ming mga girls, i guess that's why we all need to adjust to each others differences, ingna lang imung gf na attractive ang mga bitchy na girls (if she really is being naughty) pero tell her na mas ganahan jud kag demure na girl. lol...

and hey, it's really nice to know that you have john gray's book. at least nagka-relate ta.

hahaha... Thanks ma'am for understanding din...
Really appreciate it pud kaau

By the way... My girlfriend knows man pud whatever i post here in istorya so pretty much i've got nothing to hide from her... hehe

before pud ko mupost kai pakit.on man pud nako niya gud... hahaha Pending for approval pa pud ang uban. Although i.explain pud nako niya thoroughly ang thoughts ug ideas nako para at least makaunderstand pud siya sa unsa akong ganahan ishare. hehe

Although I also appreciate pud your ideas ma'am and insights upon the matter. I try to keep my thoughts open pud on others opinions para I get to know their side by which in your case, im glad nakashare pud ka wherein naaware na nuon ko with your side of the story.

Kinda awesome pud to know that we're on the same boat jud diay miss... hahaha cheeryos!

[P-Chan]

prevention is better than cure... don't give her what she wants unless she has something to give in return

[Code Talker]

when your logic and intincts start to kick in.

[bodacious_babe]

mao jud ni gibuhat sa akoa... as in. i was so blindsided about the entire thing..

thank you sa tanan nag post

kung mo ingon siya busy siya mao dili siya ka call or text. hapit usa nalang ka semana busy gihapon...
nya dili ma contact ang phone, dili sad pakita hehehe kana

[bodacious_babe]

@ SUEper.braces and DizCyple .. thanks for the insights. You both got a good conversation/discussion going and we are learning from you both..

sakto jud tanan akong nabasa diri... I guess the next step is for me to let go, move on and continue the search na pod. Sakit kaayo pero it happened and i cannot be in denial any longer.

I wanted to continue unta the discussion with a follow up question addressed to the men however women are welcome to post as well.. and here is that thought nga ga cge jud bother nako:

to the Men: unsa man jud inyo gusto sa babayi para maka ingon mo nga siya na. Unsa mga traits inyo ganahan? Importante jud ba nga sexy? ga make up? unsa pod inyo dili jud ganahan sa mga girls?

Part II of the discussion that I 'm hoping would be just as interesting and insighful..

[siopao1984]

^ kanang babayi bitaw na DILI arte, bigaon, igat2x, feeler og user.

i thank you. bow.

[bodacious_babe]

hmmmm, thanks siopao1984... DILI man ko arte, bigaon, igat, feeler or user!

pero naa jud something sa akoa nga gina dilian ug lalaki. huhuhuhu... dunno unsa pod.

cguro tungod dili ko pretty or attractive. kana bitaw'ng x-factor hehehe.. wala ko ana...

LOYAL ko, FAITHFUL sa uyab, very GENEROUS. so ambot ngano mabinuangan jud ko.

[SUEper.braces]

hahaha... Thanks ma'am for understanding din...
Really appreciate it pud kaau

By the way... My girlfriend knows man pud whatever i post here in istorya so pretty much i've got nothing to hide from her... hehe

before pud ko mupost kai pakit.on man pud nako niya gud... hahaha Pending for approval pa pud ang uban. Although i.explain pud nako niya thoroughly ang thoughts ug ideas nako para at least makaunderstand pud siya sa unsa akong ganahan ishare. hehe

Although I also appreciate pud your ideas ma'am and insights upon the matter. I try to keep my thoughts open pud on others opinions para I get to know their side by which in your case, im glad nakashare pud ka wherein naaware na nuon ko with your side of the story.

Kinda awesome pud to know that we're on the same boat jud diay miss... hahaha cheeryos!

amazing! so she approves of you calling her names? hehehe, bilib sab ko sa ninyu dah. that is a good sign na mag-kalsinabut mo maski unsa pa inyung flaws. wishing you the best in your relationship. Mao ra man siguro ni ang important i relationships noh? whatever your partner's flaws may be , basta you understand and you communicate your concerns sa each other and give and take ang pagpa-ilub, naa man ganiy away usahay, apan ma-solb ra jud ang problema.

haaay, kani nitawng cheating noh, dako ning tabag-hak sa realtionships. Kun maibog man gani ta ug lain, we have to be honest about our feelings and face the consequences of our actions.

kami bitaw sako bf sa una kai kaagi sab ug in-ani. there was a time na i happen to like someone else, then murag na-feel bitaw nako na lahi na jud akong feelings toward atong lain sa guy. what I did was, i talked to my bf and told him na i'm liking someone else. then we talked na-unsa among relationship. where we have gone wrong. unsa iyang flaws, unsa akong flaws, then i decided na di na ko tig friend atong guy na naganahan nako... It's a matter of choice raman jud. and prayers.

then, 6 mos. later siya na sab ang naganahan ug lain na girl. but this was sad this time coz he really decided to take a break from our relationship, as in sad and blue kaau ko ato...and the signs na he already was WITH the other girl is katong prev post nako sa istorya, check lang nya ang prev thread ani. then I gave him space. 1 month jud mi wa nagtalk and nagkita, and i let them both go najud. the other girl and i even texted each other and i wished them well sa ilang relationship. wa man ko nipigung ato niya coz i believed na if di jud meant to be, maski ilugus nimo, di jud meant to be.

then, after 1 month, my ex bf texted me, nag-ask siya ug forgiveness, another chance daw. then, na-happy ko coz love jud nako siya, but ang hurt, naa jud gihapon even hantud karon. i don't think it will ever go away. karon he's happy na. all i hope is that mag-honest lang jud ta sa tong partners, coz breaking up is very hard to deal with (no words can express the emotions of being left alone and being cheated on) pero if it's not for you, you just have to learn to accept and move on.

peace& love, sue

[SUEper.braces]

@ SUEper.braces and DizCyple .. thanks for the insights. You both got a good conversation/discussion going and we are learning from you both..

sakto jud tanan akong nabasa diri... I guess the next step is for me to let go, move on and continue the search na pod. Sakit kaayo pero it happened and i cannot be in denial any longer.

I wanted to continue unta the discussion with a follow up question addressed to the men however women are welcome to post as well.. and here is that thought nga ga cge jud bother nako:

to the Men: unsa man jud inyo gusto sa babayi para maka ingon mo nga siya na. Unsa mga traits inyo ganahan? Importante jud ba nga sexy? ga make up? unsa pod inyo dili jud ganahan sa mga girls?

Part II of the discussion that I 'm hoping would be just as interesting and insighful..

hello babe,

hehe, to be honest noh, and i dont mean to hurt or offend anybody in this forum but sa akong experience kai i thought na okay na sa mga boys ang buutan, simple, generous, kind, loving, caring, pero sa real world, naa pud kelangan ang mga boys na beyond sa atong kind hearts, mao ni ang earthly wants and needs nila from us. example: lamig lawas, gwapa or at least masuruy, lamig hair, these are some of the assets na boys are looking for sa mga girls, esp kun boys na mabaw ra sab ug utuk, hehehe no offense ha. but for you dear, i hope maka-kita naka eventually sa guy na meant for you na mutan-aw nimu sa imung kindness anf loyalty, over the earthly needs sa men. pray lang gud ta. ayaw lang mag-cge ug anticipate day na muabot si mr. right for you. he will come, in time.

peace&love

[bokikoy]

maka hilak man sad ta ani og mani......